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First off I have a vagina

So I'm used to masturbating at least 3-4 times a day

It's gotten to the point where the orgasms are super weak/not that pleasurable and I can have a dozen of them and still not feel anything

So I'm trying nofap/noschlick it's day 23 and I can't think about anything other than touching myself I think I'm gonna go crazy

No, I've never enjoyed real sex


How do I overcome this because it's driving me MAD?
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>>17161870
Post pics
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Sorry, you're one of those sexually damaged women that are really frustrating to be involved with. Try sex therapy or something, but I doubt it'll help. It's best to come to terms with the fact you'll never enjoy sexual touching ever again.
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ASL? Joking.
Try turning your sexual energy into physical energy. Go for a run and tire yourself out.
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>>17161886
If I'm not running I'm lifting weights or hiking senpai

argh.
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Just keep working out. You'll eventually become more powerful than any beta, only then will you have your pickings of the crop. '

Keep this up until you find a man, or woman, who is willing and able to keep up with you and you'll find happiness... for a little while anyways.
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>>17161944
Real sex doesn't do anything for me doesn't matter how physically attractive I find them or how experienced they are

I'm FUCKED
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>>17161991

As a not-a-doctor, I have a few questions.

A) How long has the 'problem' lasted?

B} Do you feel that you are trying too hard to find pleasure?

C} Are you taking any suppliants, enhancers, or immunizes?
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>>17162029
Well when I was 12 and started masturbating it felt good, but then the orgasms weakened to very little pleasure after about a year.

I'm 24 now, so that's how long the problem's lasted

I'm trying very hard to find pleasure, not finding much of it

I'm not taking anything like that
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>>17161870
have you tried listening to stevie nicks?
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>>17162060
When you masturbate, do you just sit down and do it or do you watch/read porn? Do you have any sexual fantasies? Do you ever get horny and not shlick?
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>>17162068
Sometimes I watch porn and sometimes I fantasize, although I stopped watching porn 3 years ago

Yes I have sexual fantasies. Yes I get horny and not shlick
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>>17161870
If it doesn't feel pleasurable (you are no longer sensitive) there's no reason for you to do it, I don't see why a month off of something that didn't feel good to you matters, I think you are just addicted.

I'm going to guess that you're a NEET or a loner with nothing else to occupy their time.
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>>17162078
Because I'm desperate for satisfaction and I can't get it, but I keep trying and trying and trying

it helps a little with release of the pressure, and now there's no way to release the pressure
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>>17162083
When you say sex has never felt good for you, do you mean you never came during sex, or that those orgasms didn't feel good? Also did you try edging? I know I kinda reaching here, but have you tried to change your technique? Like, if there is one particular thing that you need to do to achieve orgasm, have you tried not doing that and use other methods of stimulation until you come anyway? If you're really desperate, you might try hypnosis therapy or something like that.
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>>17162112
Never felt any pleasure from real sex. Yes I've tried edging and g spot and anal play and countless other things
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Would hate to be in your position. Im also female and I have been masterbateing since I was 9. I also have sensitivity problems but I can 100 percent say I love sex.

Do u use toys? Maybe u need to have a gang bang.... Maybe u need all Ur holes filled at once? Only u know what turns you on so go with it. Use ice on your clit it or sensitivity lube. Experiment with different people and things. Maybe u need a chick to lick u out. Something....

But there is definitely nothing wrong with masterbateing as many times as u do or thinking about it as much as u do. Keeping yourself happy is the most important thing!
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>>17162060

Not-a-Doctor again, some more questions.

D) On a scale of 1 to 10 how fit are you?

E) How active are you on a weekly basis?

F) Do you often push yourself harder than you really needed?
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>>17162136
What is "real sex"? Do you take that to mean only penis in vagina, or does it include using hands and mouth? Have you ever tried having someone else do the same stuff that you do to get yourself off? I feel like the no pleasure from sex bit is important, if you have tried everything you can think of to solve that, maybe you should see a therapist.
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>>17162196
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I exercise 5 times a week, running weightlifting hiking

On a daily basis

>>17162202
Yes hands and mouth too, oral does nothing for me and I have no erogenous zones
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>>17162233
>I have no erogenous zones
Ok, you'll have to explain that bit to me. How do you masturbate if you don't have erogenous zones? And if you can use your fingers to get off, then why can't someone use their tongue to get you off?
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>>17161870

Maybe you need to spice things up a bit.

It's gotten too routine, you're just to used to doin' what you doin' and it's been going on so long that it's gotten boring.

Things to try;
>Sneaking one off somewhere public.
>finding someone attractive online and doin' stuff on camera.
>not using your hands... basically hump stuff.
>When you're alone, walk around completely naked and pretend someone is watching through a window or some shit.

Basically put yourself in really exiting situations to do it.
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>>17162233

G) How do you spend your free time?

H) Do you drink excessively, or take any recreational drugs?

I) Are you a spiritual person? (not in a religious sense)
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>>17161883
Lmao shut the fuck up baby dick.
Just get a hitachi wand or something OP.
Try butt stuff maybe?
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>>17161870
https://www.nofap.com/
Hit the panic button and go to emergency. Click it a few times - you get some inspirational things each time you click it.

It's just a good site in general to read through. Keep it bookmarked or in an open tab.
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>>17161883
> mfw never enjoyed sex with first three boyfriends. Never orgasmed by any means even once.
> take a long break from sex
> new ex-virgin bf makes me cum buckets and I never have to touch myself again.
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>>17163058
What did he do to make you cum buckets?
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>>17161870
I think you should bait, but do it with minimal pressure (iduno exactly how you do it). Try like laying on your stomach and cupping your whole crotch and just use you body weight and hip movements to pleasure the whole area and let it slowly build up. Feel it in your other muscles too, feel pleasure while giving you worn out parts a rest.

Also, massage you lowest back, your sacrum. That area can help re-sensitise your sexuals.

Also do kegels (contract your vaganal and surrounding gooch muchles).
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>>17163447
He stuck his pee pee in her.
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