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anyone done no fap? results??
I am on low fap (1-2x per week) right now and I just have no sex drive at all. Its kinda scary actually, I have no confidence that I could get a boner in a sexual situation.
Also I haven't been with a woman in so long that sex with another person is no longer part of my kink. if that makes any sense. I see women entirely as human beings and don't even slightly sexualize them in my brain. advice on any of this would be dope. thanks guys
what's your kink now?
>don't sexualize real women
This is good and bad. It can make you more desirable, gives you better self control and may help you see the value of real people. Same happened to me, but I also gave up on sex. Not that I'm asexual but I'd like to be. Sex is complicating.
I try no fap but I fail a lot. You just gotta keep trying. Not sure what you need advice for... Just spouting my mind
>>17160012
I meant I used to have sex and haven't in so long that I stopped caring like you.
Also turned to God, gives me a real reason to go no fap. Even if it isn't a sin in itself it weakens your resolve and loosens your self control by being another thing you expect instant gratification for
Sex is dirty
>dirty, dirty fun
Honestly, if you aren't solely fapping to porn/images and mixing it up (just your mind sometimes, no help) - it's fine.
If you can't perform daily activities because you are too busy fapping, then it's an issue.
My struggle was that I relied on porn too much and it warped my interests a bit.
>>17159996
Watching porn raises your baseline for attraction. If you're constantly watching 8,9,10's getting boned, whenever you see 6,7,8's in public you'll have less motivation to actively pursue them.
I haven't watched porn and fapped for about 2.5 weeks and feel like a god because the amount of fucks I give around babes is next to nothing.
Because of this, I'm getting a lot more attention from women solely because I can act without the mental gymnastics of "what will she think if I say/do x". I have fun, chicks see this, they want to have fun, too.
I don't think I'll start watching porn anytime soon because things are just too good atm.
Ama
>>17160187
So fap, but not to porn?
>>17160595
Limit fapping to once a week using your imagination. Take your baseline back to what it should be, women you actually have in your life.
>>17160187
As someone who has general fears of what people think and is trying to cope with it.
It makes me interested in how this works for you guys?
Like, how does your interest in women decline with not fapping?
Please senpai's enlighten me!
>>17160667
Im not OP but thanks i will try this
