Am I being taken for a fool?

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Am I being taken for a fool? 2016-05-18 14:18:23 Post No. 17157433
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Am I being taken for a fool? Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:18:23 Post No. 17157433 [Report]

My gf for almost 9months said shed quit smoking cannabus daily. And she did for a while.
Now she started again. When she was with me at my appt. She would always sneak out without saying anything and go smoke weed at night.
Shed come back stoned asf.
Every day.
I told her I wanted her to stop doing every day. Shes always broke but keeps buying weed. Its sucks bc I lend her money sometimes and it takes a long time before she pays meback bc shed rather pay her weed dealer for weed.
I said to her she can go somewhere else to be druggy everyday.
Now she visits me often and then says she needs to go home for whatever but I know its because shes gonna get stoned.
Wtf do I do? I hate her for fucking me over like that. I invested lots of time into her to figure out shed rather go hang with her druggy friends every single day and travel 2 hours for it and 2 hours back.
And she lied just to ease my mind.
What do I do? Im starting to hate her.
Oh yeah and in the time shes lived with me she doesnt do shit around the house..
Am I just fooling myself again or rather am I just being folled again?.
Am I the clown in the situation , and what should I do ?

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:24:08 Post No.17157440
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:24:08 Post No.17157440 [Report]

>>17157433
the replies you're going to get are going to be calling you a bait poster, controlling and abusive, and telling you you need to relax.

Leave her. I'll admit, marijuana isn't the worst thing in the world, but I understand your frustration. Get away from her. She sounds lazy and like she doesn't bring much to the relationship.

She does something that you dislike or disagree with, she said she would change, she didn't. It should be a no brainer.

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:29:55 Post No.17157450
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:29:55 Post No.17157450 [Report]

>>17157433
just chill a bit its only weed, god your both young whats the problem? she sounds lazy, so maybe thats your problem and you should get rid of her ,

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:40:11 Post No.17157468
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:40:11 Post No.17157468 [Report]

>>17157450
Yeah, lazy because of the weed. I dont need weed is ok advice. I dont fall for that marketing strategy/programming.
I need real advice.

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:45:08 Post No.17157479
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:45:08 Post No.17157479 [Report]

>>17157440
Well yeah I just dont want her to have to do it every single day.
But yeah maybe youre right and I should just leave that junky, who lies for her drugs.
Hmmm dilemma

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:51:20 Post No.17157490
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 14:51:20 Post No.17157490 [Report]

Doesn't seem worth the hassle if you're not into her much. Don't feel obliged to remain friends with someone you've known for a while. That's how people get miserable

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 15:42:03 Post No.17157577
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 15:42:03 Post No.17157577 [Report]

>>17157433
Sounds like she has a psychological addiction, you should dump her or get her some help.

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Anonymous 2016-05-18 15:48:09 Post No.17157589
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Anonymous 2016-05-18 15:48:09 Post No.17157589 [Report]

Damn, I can't stand to be around my dealer for more than 5 minutes, and I'm pissed if I have to drive to the next major street to meet him.

I sure as fuck wouldn't drive 4 hours for some bud. I think she's got something else going on aside from the marijuana.