maybe an atraction to something has an apertunity to something simmilar

>>17156521
When I found people who cared about the same things I did, and who I could talk to because they would appreciated what I had to say. Like talkin' 'bout Romans and US politics

How? Stop writing off other people wholesale. Get to know them as people before you make character judgements. In fact, live by "innocent until proven guilty" instead of the reverse, because they don't owe it to you to prove shit.

Read "Radical Honesty"

he speaks the truth.

>>17156592
I wish I learned this before it was too late

>>17156552
was commodus really that bad?

>>17156709

it's not too late, you're making excuses

self improvement is hard but not impossible

get off your horse of being a special snowflake, you're not, you're not smarter than everyone, in fact you might be dumber because you can't behave like a normal human being.

I learnt this the hard way and once I found out it wasn't a pleasant experience, but it had to be that way and things are going better now.