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2016-05-18 04:13:53 Post No. 17156269
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2016-05-18 04:13:53
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Hey /Adv/, need your help:
I (29) confessed my love to a girl (A), who has been a "friend" of mine for 3 months already. Unfortunately she said she was already interested in someone else, nevertheless she seemed very flattered and was nicer to me in the last few days than ever before, so I see a small chance that she may change her mind as the way of revealing my feelings may have been just too clumsy and awkward for her to say yes immediately.
However, it turned out that two of her friends (B,C) seem to like me and she (A) offered me to help me if I want to get to know one of the two other girls better. I know them both, but even though they are appealing too, I only have eyes for A and I just don't want to give up.
What would you do in my situation? Don't forget, I am not 20 anymore and it's about time to finally find a girl for my life and I just don't want to waste my time with girls anymore that are cute, but which I would not marry...
What would you do?
(A) Keep fighting for the 10/10 girl, show her how much I like her and try to convince her that I am good for her
(B) Accept a "no" as a "no" and try to get what I can (As for me, I dislike that idea because no one wants to be only "second choice" and that is what the girls would be, I like them, but I clearly don't love them, so that would be unfair both for them and also for myself)
(C) Accept a "no" as a "no", stay away from her friends and wait for the right girl in the future which I haven't happened to get to know yet.
