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Any gay virgins out there? I can kinda understand bottoms being hesitant about losing their losing virginity but is it weird at all that I want to keep mine(exclusive top, not a bottom)? I'm not even technically a virgin since I've fucked quite a few women.
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what areu gay or somethin op gtfo
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>>17155412
Hoe do you know you like guys if you've never had sex with one?
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>>17155558
Because I pretty much exclusive masturbate to gay porn. And I messed around with few guys.
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>>17155559
I mean, if you're already technically not a virgin what's stopping you? How do you know if you're a top or a bottom?
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>>17155569
He's being a gay goose and isn't realizing that he actually doesn't know. Everyone enjoys fucking a hole, and also getting their prostates stimulated. OP actually doesn't know which one he enjoys more yet.
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Mm well no, its not weird, but its a desicion you dont seem to fully understand yourself. Why do you want to keep it? Fear of consumating gaydom or something like that? Are you insecure about your sexuality?
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>>17155603

Oh btw im totally projecting here haha but its my two cents
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>>17155412
If you bottom you can keep your top virginity
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>>17155569
>>17155600
Because someone playing with my ass doesn't arouse me? Even when its myself? I'm also very dominant in the bedroom and have always been so.

>>17155603
>Fear of consumating gaydom or something like that? Are you insecure about your sexuality?
Maybe a little bit this.

>>17155873
No.
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>>17155558
How did you know that girls/guys were attractive to you, before you had sex with them?

You just did.
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>>17156794
Also yeah, pretty much this.
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>>17156525
Yes you can.
Just take it in the ass like a real man
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>>17156794
I've never had sex and am confused about whether I like guys or girls, so I asked.
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>>17157666
No.

>>17157667
Don't you masturbate? Or have you started watching so much fucked up shit you don't even know what you're attracted to?
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>>17155412

>is it weird

yes, the real qusetion

>does it matter

no. why worry about it? lose it when you want to. just dont be afraid to lose it because of social reasons. its fine to be closeted.
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>>17157765
Is it even possible to find a partner when closeted though? Tinder has been my only resource thus far.
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>>17157774

yes. though i imagine it depends on where you live. i live in los angeles. I am closeted to the bulk majority of my friends, and really only out to the people ive asked out / slept with.

get grindr as well.
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>>17157783
Yeah that's kinda where I'm at. Closeted to 95% of friends. The only people who know I'm gay are guys I've made out with.
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>>17157813

well then you know they exist and aer approachable. if you want to stay closeted, you'll learn the game. keep it distant from people you know, dont hit on a friend of a friend obviously. you'll figure it out.

you'll end up lucky enough that people will likely think it / know it but realize you dont want to acknowledge it, so they wont be sure, so they wont treat you like you're gay, which is nice
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>>17157825
Yeah that sounds a lot like what I'm doing. I'm sure a few people think/know but since I show interest in women it kinda gets ignored.

I even live in a very open/liberal city and still don't want to come out.
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>>17155412
Thought I was the only one.

To be fair, I'm only 20, but I don't plan on losing mine to a random hookup.
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>>17155412
Stay a virgin or enjoy your AIDS faggot
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>>17158018
Thanks bby
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>>17157991
That's probably the way to go anon
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>>17157959

i work in west hollywood and still dont want to come out. its easier to be a straight guy. mostly cuz other straight guys treat you better.

its better to be a 'bro' then it is to be a 'gay best friend' though both have their merits.
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>>17159138
That's exactly how I feel man, its so much easier to be straight. As soon as someone comes out they're simply "the gay guy"
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>>17157759
>Don't you masturbate? Or have you started watching so much fucked up shit you don't even know what you're attracted to?
I masturbate once a month, usually, and binge read hentai at that time. It's pretty normal, too; chikan, rape, shibari, exhibitionism, humiliation, gyaru, etc.
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>>17159198
You may have some problems.
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>>17159198
seek help
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