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Codependency Issues
2016-05-17 20:18:14 Post No. 17154880
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Anonymous
2016-05-17 20:18:14
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So, there's this girl I developed feelings for (Feels mutual)
Went out with her once, didn't get the kiss, she's from another town and had little time to see me.
We met through badoo (Dating App) and kept the conversation going through facebook for a few months,
and we developed a strange type of relationship:
The kind you have with your internet waifu who'm you'll never meet IRL
Say goodnight daily
Hearts everywhere
Pretty much everything except saying the L word
Still innocent (no sexting :/)
Not a lot of conversation topics between us, Pretty much talking how we spent our days
Not much to talk to, I'm not a good conversationalist - Though that's a different issue.
She's seems a bit broken to me
Has some OCD - or something don't know her for that long, Introvert, emo looks, Maybe even daddy issues don't know yet
So supposedly if I am codependent, seems to match my past relationships
Always attracted to the kind of girls that are broken and I have this need to fix them (I'm not sure about this - probably denial)
I always fall for girls in a matter of minutes of meeting them,
Quite frequently so,
And when the feelings are mutual I get really obsessive, jelaous, etc. And real fast.
My questions are:
1. How do i differ true feelings from my codependency?
//I don't want to hurt her or be in an unhealthy relationship
2. Is my need to not hurt others also codependant or just me being Beta?
3. Is the reason why I fall in love so fast, cause i need to feel victimized - also codependency?
4. Is obsession also rooted to codependency?
//As in I need to be needed by the other person to not feel bad - when I'm not getting the attention I want i get really moody
tl;dr
How to cure yourself of codependency?
