Taking a girl out on a date on Friday. I'm already nervous as heck. I feel unreal. Me... girl... date... what? Social phobia, that shit makes me shaky. It distorts my thinking. My mouth gets dry and my face freezes. I have nothing to talk about. I look weird. I sound weird. I am weird and awkward.
What to do? Run before it's too late? A beer or two to make things easier?
Pic related. Please help me, /adv/
Realize this girl shits and farts just like you. You're also just a homosapien on a rock orbiting a star orbiting the center of a galaxy. This is petty on a cosmic scale so grab your nuts and shut the fuck up.
>>17154290
I know. I just can't realize it. I know I will fail.
>>17154358
Get your head out of your ass and stop feeling bad for yourself. Everything will be fine as long as you think so.
>>17154463
I can't. I just can't think so.
Perhaps beer can help me. But I tend to get badly wasted so easily.
It's no turning back. I'll thank myself so much if I ever succeed. If I fail, it's just a step downwards, once more.
You're coming at it with the wrong attitude and that will cause you to fail. You're there to see whether you two like being around eachother and enjoy eachother's company. You're not there to impress her. If you don't like eachother then oh well, find someone else. Failure doesn't exist, because you're equating not getting along with her with some sort of inadequacy on your part.
The only thing you can do is be yourself. Even if you do something embarassing or cringey, just play it off with a joke and she won't even think much of it.
>>17154798
"Be yourself"... What it is? What really is myself? Seriously? I'm so lost I don't even know anymore. On one hand, this looks like a nightmare... on the other, it looks like I've found Heaven. I've asked a girl out. Something I just couldn't think about. I wish I could see the future. To decide what awaits me. To decide what to do.
>>17154285
Yo bro i got you
Take her somewhere you've been alot and feel comfortable. No alcohol. If you have social mess ups don't throw alcohol in the mix. Be chill and get to know her. Its about her that night. Be smooth, if you have to watch and learn from zack morris and ac Slater, no joke.
>>17154905
My main point is just to be relaxed and not be too disappointed if it doesn't work out. This isn't a videogame where the end goal is to please her. This is just you going and seeing if you like to be together, and if not then don't be too upset.
