if you do go all the way to sex, you will without fail end up with the following:

1) it will be awkward.
2) Neither of you will last long
3) Foreplay is a thing that exists. Do it! Some women (and men) find even more pleasure in foreplay than the actual act itself. Don't neglect the talented twins for the moist cavern.

For 1) try to just laugh off any awkwardness. (I assume) Neither of you are porn stars, so you won't know how everything works right. Just keep a handle on any frustration and go for what feels good.

as for 2), you can't avoid it. Sexual endurance is like a muscle. You need to use it to build it up. It doesn't matter how many times you've masturbated or how long you can last while masturbating. It will be short and unsatisfying for at least one party. The key is to not let it end there. Make sure that both partners are satisfied before it's over and you're golden.

>>17150840
Appreciate the answer anon. Incredibly thorough and formal.
That's probably been my main concern, letting someone down/leaving her unsatisfied.
I'll try not too overthink much and just roll with it, and it's good to know I can fall back on foreplay/hand work.
Cheers.

>>17150885
as awkward as it sounds, my best success was when I said "hey I'm gonna try what I think you'll like, and you tell me what works for you and what doesn't."

If your partner says they really like something, keep doing it, but remember that it's like any other flavor of pleasure. It's good for a while, but variety is key.

Here's some good things to try. Don't pull out a list or anything, but if you panic and you need a place to start here's some tips:

>lick and nibble on the ear lobe. I said nibble, not bite! Any time teeth are involved you want to be light and gentle. It's too easy to apply too much pressure when you can't feel the sensations.


>kiss the hollow where her neck meets her shoulder. Don't suck unless you want to leave a hickey.
>Knead the breasts like you are kneading dough. Just enough pressure so that the breast changes shape, but not enough to be a painful squeeze (she'll tell you if you are doing it too hard, but less often will a woman be vocal about if you are being too soft)
>Kiss and lick your way in a spiral around one breast up to the top, where you give the nipple a good lick and suck (maybe even a light nibble). When that one's good and lathered, keep kissing/licking down the valley and to the other breast. Rinse and repeat. I like to go from left to right, but it doesn't really matter.

>kiss and lick the inside of the belly button. Believe it or not, this area is very sensitive.

>>17150963

>Don't dive right into the honeypot. On the inside of the leg, start from right above the knee and kiss/lick/nibble (by this point you should know which she responds well to) your way *slowly* up to the cleft. DONT DIVE IN. Let the anticipation build as you go down to the other leg and repeat. If you are feeling brave go on to the next step.

>Oral sex can be disgusting. Specifically the taste. Depending on your lady friend's vaginal health, hygene, ph, what she ate a week ago, and many other factors, the taste of her fluids can change. I have found that on average it kinda tastes like a mix between tangy and salty. It isn't always a pleasant taste but some people dig it. Just be prepared for if you don't. The best way to surreptitiously check is to give the outer edges a lick. Conveniently this is also the next step.

>lick in a slow circle around the outside of the labia. Don't go for the gold yet, just go around a few times. I like counter-clockwise but once again there is no correct answer.

>drag your tongue over the outside of the labia. If you have been doing your job right, there should be some evidence of arousal at this point. Decide if you like the taste.

>use your fingers to spread open the labia and lick inside the lower hole (make sure it's the one closer to her butt. The other one is her urethra and unless she's into that it can be unpleasant). Trust me on this, you're priming the tube. The natural lubricant from your tongue will help. I guarantee it. Lick around on the inside. If you are feeling adventurous, try to find her G-spot. It will be a slightly different textured spot on the top (that's the part of her insides near her front) wall. It isn't far back, so no spelunking is required, just swirl your tongue around and you will eventually find it. Trust me, she will notice when you do.

>>17150986

>if you don't like the flavor, that's fine. Make sure you get a finger that's around the same size as the hole plenty lubricated (water based lubricant or saliva). Once again, go delving for that G-spot and at the same time, lick around the clitoral hood area.(https://www.austinlabiaplasty.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Clitoral-Hood-Reduction-300x280.png) If you can't get the clitoris to engorge enough to stick out, don't worry about it. licking, kissing, sucking, nibbling, and even biting (softly) on the hood area can be extremely pleasurable for your partner.

>Once you are ready to shoot for the moon, make sure for god's sake that you put the condom on right. The last thing you want is an air bubble at the end or for it to slide off during intercourse. It can actually be pretty sexy if you get the woman to "help you get ready". This also allows her to explore the equipment and get used to it. Once you have your safety equipment on, position yourself however is comfortable for you both (missionary is usually a good first timer position). SLOWLY push in. It will feel like you are trying to fit your banana through a hole a few sizes too small, but then it will pop in and you will experience a (good) heat that you have never experienced before. Don't try to move right away. Give both of you time to adjust. Her to your size, and you to the heat and tightness. Don't just saw in and out either. As is the theme of my advice, variety works best.

>>17151010
And whatever you do, for the love of god do not fucking tell her that you got your technique from some stranger on the internet!

>>17150986
Dont bother using your tongue to try and find the g-spot, I as a female prefer the tongue not enter my vagina at all as it basically does nothing. If you're trying to find the g-spot stick your finger in and move it as if you're saying "come hither" (yeah I got the come hither from online, it's it's easier way to describe it, make sure you cut your nails beforehand), from the girls perspective, though there's another spot on the opposite side of the vagina (I've forgotten the same) that you may want to try and see if she likes, just do the motion for the g-spot but on the opposite wall.

>>17151031
Well you really can't get a much better source than that. I admit it's harder to do it with your tongue, but once again, it'sall about what your partner likes. This woman says she doesn't like it, your partner might or might not.

Talk to her about it. Maybe she's worried too. Trying to guess what expectations she might have so you can meet them is going to make you more anxious, and won't help if she actually has specific expectations.

>>17151013
Not OP but what if she asks how did I get such a good technique if I am a virgin?
Asking for if I get a girlfreind

>>17151072
She won't have a clue if your technique is good or bad if it's her first time

>>17151072
that's easy. "I watch porn". If she's enough of a prude to want to end everything with you for having watched porn, then she isn't GF material.