i feel very insecure about my 5 inch dick.
how do you overcome penis size insecurity?
Sorry, you can't really please a woman. You must become a cuckold and let your girl fuck a real man.
It's the only way you can keep a woman, if you don't, she'll cheat.
Sorry, you have to choose the lesser evil.
>>17148105
Hide it inside her.
there are women out there who are genuinely ok with small penis.
i'm smaller than 90% of guys and my gf has no issue with it and we have had a good sex life for 4+ years
>>17148114
This.
I'm 8" x 6". Get a cute girlfriend, and we'll work something out.
You can be the emotional and financial boyfriend. I will be the physical boyfriend. Since you're basically a woman, with a cock that small, I'll let you lick my dick clean after fulfilling my duties as the physical boyfriend.
It's an everybody wins situation.
>>17148105
Chop off everyone else's penis.
>>17148105
Everyone has a reason to feel insecure about something.
>>17148105
Don't date girls that are just expecting a big dick, date girls that like you for you, and learn to use it in a pleasing way, don't worry about your size
>>17148123
okay anon, you are inspiring me.
i'm trying to learn how to be confident in my 5 inch pecker. what kind of things do you do to make up for it? or did you just find a girl that doesn't have a slut mentality? you stated that your dick is smaller that 90% of guys, that means you are still aware of it in your mind. does it ever bother you and you have to just keep reminding yourself that it's not a problem? or do you actually blast the thoughts away because you are fulfilled and satisfied with what you have? do you ever have thoughts about the future like whether your gf would get bored of you, get drunk, and start revealing the truth about how she is craving a monster cock?
all the questions i am asking are the types of things my mind keeps saying about my dick. it's creating all these scary situations and causes me to feel really insecure.
>>17148180
i've always been very insecure about it. i probably still would be if we ever broke up. for me, basically i KNOW this girl loves me and is okay with my small penis. it took a long time to actually accept that she is okay with the small dick. i don't "make up for it" in any noticeable way if you mean like having a 6pack or oral skills.
>do you ever have thoughts about the future like whether your gf would get bored of you, get drunk, and start revealing the truth about how she is craving a monster cock?
i've already been drunk and said too much before, i fully believe she's okay with it
>did you just find a girl that doesn't have a slut mentality?
yea, she's definitely not a slut. been with 2 guys total.
>you are still aware of it in your mind. does it ever bother you and you have to just keep reminding yourself that it's not a problem?
it sometimes bothers me but i'm fully satisfied with our sex life and she says she is too so i believe her
my advice is to find a good girl. don't start the relationship off with sex for a few months.
>>17148214
Thanks anon. I am happy to hear good outcomes like yours exist. I have always been more of a long term relationship kind of guy anyway, so it looks like my 5 inch dick will be cool if i find a good girl in it for the long run.
Geez 5" isn't even that small. You watch too much porn. Anyway, facial aesthetics and good social standing matter 10 times more to almost any girl.
>>17148252
What have your previous sexual partners said about your penis, if anything?
>>17148105
if your girth is >5.5 in and youre over 22 there's nothing you can do.
>I am literally average
>I feel so small!
>>17148306
senpai you're not fooling anyone
OP, I'm a psych researcher.
I'm too lazy to give you any citations (if you are serious enough, you'll find them yourself).
The gist of the research is this:
>Yes women have a preference for bigger dicks.
>However only when comparing two fit men.
>And even then it doesn't even rank top 5 for important things for sexual pleasure, much less relationships.
>Men care WAY more about dick size than women. It's not the women who are demanding big dicks in porn, but heterosexual men. Also gay porn if full of big dicks.
>Yes, there are two erogenous points around the cervix.
>No, they don't really make that much of a difference. If any at all, since the vast majority of women don't enjoy cervical bruising.
>It's mainly an aesthetic thing. Think of it like big tits. Catches the eye, keeps you interested, but isn't exactly super important, except for some fetishists.
>Generally satisfaction is mainly based on personality, situation and proper foreplay.
>In fact, women in ongoing relationships usually significantly overestimate the size of their partners penis.
>Also there is just as much variance in vaginal size as in dick size. Yes, women are a but more flexible in that regard, but you will still notice when having multiple partners.
The point of the latter being that we all know Asian women have smaller vaginas and that may even make you curious. But do you REALLY care? Well, women generally care even less.
Now this all assumes you don't have a micro-penis, which you do not.
>>17148315
helpful but whats average length and girth?
I just want someone who is good with his hands. Penis size ranks pretty low for me.
>>17148322
Depends.
http://www.targetmap.com/viewer.aspx?reportId=3073
So yeah, you're fine.
Also note that ESPECIALLY women who have had a couple partners have very realistic expectations.
If you unpack five inches they won't skip a beat, trust me.
And they probably have had "too small". You are not it.
>>17148322
5.5 x around 4.
>>17148362
>length 5.5
true
>girth 4
I'm sorry but you know this is a bunch of bollocks,
average girth is 5.
>>17148252
Dude, 5 inches is average. You're in the clear.
>>17148105
if a girl loves u she wotn care how big ur dick is she will love u for who u are some girls just say they like big dicks or they like small dicks cause they want to test to see if a guy recognizses that and cares about what they sa
>>17148105
5 inches is fine, you're just fucked up by porn
>>17148372
>>17148384
stop lying
5.5 in is the real average.
I'm 5 inches too and it's never been an issue, like ever. I'm only 5'4" though so it doesn't look small on me. You're probably closer to average height which makes it look like a boy dick
>>17148368
What's your source? I thought 4.6 was the average girth.
>>17148289
what sexual partners? i'm a virgin.
>>17148368
My mistake. I just rechecked my sources and I got 4.8 inches. The 4 must have just stuck in my mind.
So the average is 5.5 x 4.8.
>>17148428
>>17148419
>So the average is 5.5 x 4.8.
Agree.
>>17148422
How old are you?
>>17148398
Do you know what average means? It's not the same as minimum. 5 is fine.
>>17148440
27. too shy to talk to girls but i fantasize about finding love all the time.
>>17148460
>but i fantasize about finding love all the time.
protip: fantasizing isn't ever going to get you anywhere
>>17148460
Absolutely no reason to be shy. It's not gonna get you anywhere. Used to be the same until I was 22.
>>17148422
You said >>17148252, which implied you have been in LTRs. One would assume some sexual activity.
Or have you had no sexual contact, such as even a hand jobs, as in no woman has ever seen your PENIS?
>>17148460
Head to /fit/ for fitness advice and to /lit/ to get your brains going.
And then you'll try to socialize more.
No, you don't have to go clubbing.
No, you don't have to be a man slut.
No, you don't have to go after the fun girls.
No, nothing has to work out on the first try.
Make friends, gain some confidence, date some nice girls, gain some more confidence, etc
Find the life you are confortable with, while breaking out of your comfort zone.
And maybe cut down on porn. Don't masturbate at all unless it actually gets destracting and just do it in the showers. By then soft core will be more than enough.
Trust me, once you use porn less, you'll notice how much it influenced you.
Hey /adv/ I'm an Asian guy with a 5.5 inch penis. I would fall under average just like OP. I've had 2 girlfriends in the past and everything went awesome when it came to sex. My insecurity isn't so much towards my size as it is towards girl's perception of me.
There are stereotypes about Asian guys having smaller dicks. Even though in my case, it's not really true, it doesn't mean I can walk around in the world without that perception placed on me. Sometimes I'll run into chads bullying me or random night club girls turning me down by straight up insulting me that they would never give Asian guys a chance.
So my issue isn't having trouble accepting my dick. I like what I have. I'm trying to learn how to deal with racist stereotypes and how to not be so bothered when people say things like that towards me.
Thanks.
>>17148528
Why don't you make like a banana peel and Nip Slip out of this thread?
>>17148491
What I meant was I would date for long term reasons instead of casual dating where it's just to have sex. I would like to find a good girl that is looking for the same.
I have never had sex but I have been in some awkward situations where I was very close. I have sucked on titties until me and the girl both agreed not to proceed further because none of us had condoms and decided to delay our sex which eventually never happened. She rubbed my dick through my pants though and it seemed fine to her I guess. She didn't react negatively or anything.
>>17148528
Make a different thread for that.
You can't really do much about it apart from proving people wrong.
Or find a common enemy. Arabs and Persians have the smallest dicks. Be racist together <3
Or, you know, just be a normal human being and stop caring.
Everybody faces some kind of prejudice. Yours just happens to be more obvious.
At least you aren't black.
>pic related
>>17148495
Can I still fap to thick brown latinas licking eachother's pussy? I have trouble getting erect without visuals now.
>>17148551
>I have trouble getting erect without visuals now.
That won't be a problem once you get horny enough
I'm not the same anon and I don't really buy into the no-porn thing (I've tried it) unless you actually watch it way too much, and I most definitely don't agree with not masturbating at all because that's bullshit (though cutting down is a good idea), but if you wanna try it, once you've gone a few days or probably at the maximum a week, your natural sex drives are gonna kick in and you'll probably get a boner just thinking about tits.
>>17148528
This just makes me so fucking sad.
I'm Australian and I'm pretty much bang on 5 inches. I lost my first and only gf having cock size quoted as a reason she wasn't some stacy either we grew up together.
>>17148551
Then you desperately need it.
Try not fapping for two weeks.
Not because I'm telling you not to fap. Just to illustrate how it feels.
By the end of it you will be smelling women the next room over.
Hit reset and find out how much porn/fapping doesn't kill your natural sex drive.
(But don't go below two orgasms per week. Increases prostate cancer risk once you are older.)
>>17148589
This has been proven to do nothing but increase blood pressure thus increases chances of heart attack or stroke.
>>17148592
If you do it over a really long period of time maybe, but doing it once or twice to get yourself off needing porn to get hard isn't going to hurt you.
>>17148528
Studies I've seen found no correlation between size and race.
>>17148592
Find me the study where not masturbating for two weeks significantly increases chances of heart attack and stroke in men in their 20s.
I dare you.
>>17148539
holy shit that is pretty good kek
>>17148603
I've seen studies that show differences but the smallest average (East Asian) and the largest (Black) were only 2 centimeters apart.
>>17148584
that sucks
>>17148105
average dick size in Canada is 5.5 get over faggot there's a lot more to it then just your cock. You don't just go up to bitches and tell em about your cock they see your face and confidence first don't worry about it and learn to use your fingers and tongue.
you have average size dick anon
>>17148362
7.5" and 5.5"
I'm very very satisfied but my ex had one sized like yours and the sex was a OK too. Penis isn't THAT important in sex which is not all to the relationship
>>17148546
Don't know what came first but either one explains the other.
Alot of asian countries have close relations with Mexico, especially China. As in, chinese will learn spanish more than they will learn english.
>>17148315
>>In fact, women in ongoing relationships usually significantly overestimate the size of their partners
I was honest about my (marginally above average) size and she insists I'm underestimating. She's an autist so I don't think it's weird flattery.
Women can't into size
wait so 6 inches long and 6 circumference is good?
desu when i first started dating my current boyfriend and i saw that his dick was around 5-6 inches i didn't care. i've fucked dudes with penises between 7-10 inches and that usually resulted in me being in a shit ton of pain after sex.
my boyfriend's dick feels great, and i love it.
>>17149747
Yes. You're fine.
You might not pound any cervi but that's a niche desire. You can "fill them up".
>>17149747
>6 circumference is good?
you're top 90%
>>17148295
What if you're under 22?
The fucking kikes ruined society.
Blame porn. It's 100% due to that that you feel insecure.
No, your dick length and girth is not a measure of your manliness. If you think it is then you've given into the porn brainwashing.
You think all those years of fapping depicted an accurate image of how real sex is like? No, of course not. And now you're stooping down so low you believe you can't even satisfy a woman because you can't reenact backdoor sluts 9. You're not even considering YOUR satisfaction, you're just belittling yourself.
Here's my biggest dick tip: if she genuinely cares about you, then she will orgasm and will be satisfied with you, irrelevant of size. She will also work hard to satisfy you. If she's just looking to scrub her bat cave, then it doesn't matter if she gets off or not. Your satisfaction is always more important than hers in that situation.
>5 inches being considered average and fine
Why didn't I learn this earlier? I spent 3 decades of my life nearly suicidal because I thought my wiener was useless.
>>17150670
it keeps growing till youre 22 - 25 .
>>17150723
>Blame porn. It's 100% due to that that you feel insecure.
>No, your dick length and girth is not a measure of your manliness. If you think it is then you've given into the porn brainwashing.
>You think all those years of fapping depicted an accurate image of how real sex is like? No, of course not. And now you're stooping down so low you believe you can't even satisfy a woman because you can't reenact backdoor sluts 9. You're not even considering YOUR satisfaction, you're just belittling yourself.
You can't give a woman a vaginal orgasm f your dick is <4.8 girth, it's a medical fact...
>>17148285
Literally this.
Also my gf is petite and chubby. She thinks my 6 and a half incher is black person sized.
Just get a petite, chubby gf and she will at the very least think you're average OP.
>>17150723
>if she genuinely cares about you
no women does it
>will be satisfied with you, irrelevant of size
uhm, just the first two times?
> She will also work hard to satisfy you.
you've never been with a woman, do you?
Let me repeat straight: WOMEN CRAVE BIG COCK. I've read countless stories of women cheating on her husbands because they had small dick.. The same women who didn't blow their husbands became extreme cocksucker of her lovers.. And you know why? BIG COCK.
>>17151110
You obviously have no clue whatsoever
>>17150974
Get off /d/ and listen to /d/octors.
>>17151110
Your view of women is like that because you must attract mostly big cock craving sluts. Sucks for you.
It's like you don't realize there are good girls out there.
