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Just lost my virginity last night. Problem is, I literally went for like 20+ minutes and wasn't able to cum. After that, a handjob, and her trying to finish me off with a blowjob I still wasn't able to cum.
She told me it's not unusual for the first few times. Is this true? I've never had an issue not being able to cum before...and I feel bad for not being able to.
>>17147171
Probably just performance anxiety
>>17147171
>Is this true?
Yes.
>I feel bad for not being able to.
Not really a helpful state of mind, but understandable. On the positive side she sounds like she's not put out about it and that there's the possibility it will happen again. Try to relax and enjoy being with her.
>>17147171
>She told me it's not unusual for the first few times. Is this true?
Since Internet and easy access to porn was invented, sadly yes.
It was very VERY unusual when I was younger though....
>>17147171
It's normal. Masturbate less and have more sex, it'll work out.
>>17147207
Oh no, we're definitely doing it again. She flat out told me she wanted to do it again, and we're now in a relationship. Thanks for the help man.
>>17147171
Perfectly normal
>>17147171
Had this too, was litteraly going at it for more than two hours until my dick just limped
Drop the porn.
>>17147171
It is normal, my boyfriend was so anxious that it took him 3 months before he managed to cum during sex.
And no, he doesn't watch porn compulsively (I watch it way more than he does). He was just anxious.
>>17147554
Okay that's good to hear, she said it may take a while. I just felt bad because she went the extra mile to blow me and still nothing. She didn't mind though.
