Hey /adv/ so I recently came out a long term relationship and I am pretty autistic when it comes to flirting or picking up if a girl is interested or not. Either I read too much into things or I am too oblivious.
I really like this girl that I met recently, I think she is interested, but just want to post some screenshots of messages just to make sure I'm not reading too much into anything before I ask her out? If anyone is willing to read through my autistic spaghetti
I went out for coffee with her, she's friends with my friends. Found out she has the same hobbies as me so we spoke about hiking/camping in a town nearby
Talking about costume ideas for a mutual friends birthday that she couldn't make it to
Spoke about travelling and such and next big holiday plans
I pretty much overthink everything. I've been fucked around a bit. Just not sure if I'm being friendzoned or if she's interested? Outside perspective would be nice
>>17146791
Seems like she's interested. Whether that's "just friends" or not, I'd assume there's a pretty good chance for more. But so what? You can ask her out without a secret message that she'll say yes if you ask her out.
Grow some balls.
>>17146849
I just don't want to mess things up I guess. Aren't many decent girls at my uni, she is decent and there are a lot of guys that are interested.
>>17146869
I don't get it. Mess what up? You're not dating her. You're worried you're going to mess that up and be MORE not dating her?
>>17146936
Mess being friends with her up, making things in our mutual friend group awkward.
>>17146986
Are you also worried about making things in your mutual friend group awkward if you do date her and it doesn't work out? It's better to not date someone in your mutual friend group at all, don't you think?
I mean, you don't want there to be any possibility for things to be awkward.
>>17147172
Yeah, but she is a really nice girl so I guess it's worth taking the risk. I just better not lose my spaghetti when I do. Hoping her friends aren't keen and we do land up going hiking and camping just the two of us next weekend, then I will definitely try something.
Do people really text like that?
All those emoji it's so unnecessary it hurts
If you think you're autistic when it comes to it you have no idea
>Put zero effort into a skill
>Suck when you need to use it
Maybe you'll learn something after screwing up.
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>>17146790
Hey OP.
Look,
The best way to go about this, is to ask her to go on a trip, activity or something with just the two of you.
Both of you go camping together or something.
Why? she asks.
Because you feel like doing something and thought she'd like it to.
If she jumps at the chance to spend time with you. Then you're likely in her targets.
If she's a bit reluctant and wants to bring people, then she might be a bit shy. And just try again in the future when you've become closer.
If it weirded her out, and she clearly doesn't want to spend time alone with you. then forget it.
Whatever the fuck you do...DO NOT WAIT!
Goodluck dude.
>>17146759
1. Chantelle is a nigger name but okay
2. Gordon is a faggot name but okay
3. How recently did you get out of the longterm relationship? Because if it was less than 5/6 months, this thing with Chantelle is going to end up as either a rebound fuck or short term relationship you realize. Men need a longer time to process their shit after a huge breakup.
4. She's showing clear signs she's into you - go for it if you dare, sperglord.
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>>17146790
>Using emojis unironically
>>17147272
This sounds like a good idea. (not op)
