I work as a casino dealer and i am developing a crush on a bartender/waitress. We have locked a few times and smiled at each other, sometimed stared. Saw her at applebees, waved and she waved and smiled back. All good signs.
Problem is, i really dont get a chance to talk to her.on her breaks she goes go immediately outside and smokes, otherwise, i dont want to go so far out of my way to say hello and introduce myself without it being awkward and obvious whats happening.
Should i go out of my way to talk to this girl or just be patient and wait for a more appropriate time to pop up?
Anyone?
Go outside when she does , to get fresh air in your break, and make small talk..weather etc. Go get her anon.
Go stand outside with a bunch of smokers and talk to the cute girl. Thats pretty out of my way, its a long walk from outside to the break room, id have better luck confronting her before she went outside
Buy a single rose and give it to her. Something to break the Ice.
>>17142329
If catching her on a break is "going so far out of your way" you can't really be very motivated.
Wait until you find a girl you consider worth walking a few yards "out of your way" for.
>>17142469
Don’t do that
>>17142477
No. I would but i dont want it to be obvioys to the ten people in the breakroom what im doing. Shes in and out in like 20 seconds. If i get up and initiate a convo it would be immediately obvious to other people. I want to be more lowkey
>>17142329
Don't do this its at work your going to fuck up a good deal for some pussy
>>17142505
pick up smoking you bitch
>>17142505
Make it obvious then, bitches love that shit nigga
-Just ask her how the floor is treating her today and if she's doing good in tips.
-mention how slow or busy it is.
-tell her about a shitty customer you had at your table. Chances are, she already had a rude customer that day and you can have a conversation about it.
-don't formally introduce yourself because that comes off too strong.
-stop being a pussy.
>>17142512
if he works at a casino he can just change his shift so he's working in the middle of the night and never see her