How to get over someone who just used you for sex?
he texted me after but now it's 4 days and nothing from him
>>17141565
Use him for sex? Lol idk
>>17141572
You think girls are content with just sex? They require so much more.
Like money.
>>17141565
I've been in this situation. Honestly, just ignore him. Completely cut him out of your life and don't respond to anything he sends you until he just gives up. It's not worth your time and you deserve better.
>You acknowledge they used you for sex and nothing else. Hinting that they're not good people.
>???
>Profit
If that's not enough incentive, you deserve it
>>17141577
I kinda feel like if i keep contact with him I wont feel used this much
>>17141579
I'm alone in this country with no friends annd family and been raped once
so when a guy says he likes me i fell for it and trusted him
>>17141580
You won't feel used because people who use people are usually charismatic and tell you what you want to hear. I think you should take control of the situation and either end it or tell him flatly how you feel. I hate to be cliche, but you need to ask him what he wants out of you/your relationship.
>>17141586
Just be my internet gf then
>>17141589
like what should i text him
>>17141602
It really depends on your situation and personality, but I'd say something blunt like
>So I've been thinking about the way you treat me and I I feel that you are using me sexually. I don't like being taken advantage of. I need to know exactly what you want out of our relationship. Do you see us as something casual, or do you want something more than just sex?
Be blunt. Don't be apologetic, and don't cave if he tries to guilt you out of expressing your feelings.
>>17141636
I said that after the first time we had sex like is it only sexual? he said no its not all about sex and i asked him if he wants to see me without sex sometimes he said yes
and he said its too soon for a relationship
>>17141645
It definitely does sound like he's using you. Do you ever hang out without doing anything sexual?
>>17141660
we had sex 3 times on the 3rth date but the first one and two werent sexual
>>17141565
delete their number, u probably didnt memorize it.
>>17141565
Hah at least he didn't fuck you, tell you how much he loved you, how he wanted you to move in and then completely ghosted you. It's been over a month since.
>>17141773
shit that must feel awful
i hope you find calm
>>17141771
I did :(
>>17141565
You might *feel* used, but that doesn't mean it's what he actually did. Guys don't always use girls for sex. They get the sex out of the way because that's what separates a loving romantic relationship from other relationships. If he didn't try to fuck you, you would've never been with him at all. Remember that so you don't get too cynical about men who want to sleep with you.
>>17141869
well he tricked me in it even though he knew my situation and lead me on
>>17141899
how many semen loads do you swallow on a weeky basis
do you drink your own anal creampies
>>17141899
Maybe he liked you at first but his mind changed. Idk.
I know it sucks. I know this because women have gone cold on me God knows how often.
>>17141636
daaaaamn good advice thats rare
You cannot be used for sex. Sex is supposed to be mutually pleasant. You're supposed to equally enjoy sex. Otherwise you're supposed to politely decline sex. That's how it works. It's not a promise of relationship. If you want to be promised masculine attention then you should sign a legal contract with a male escort or gigolo. If there is no legal contract involved then it's casual sex. If it hurts you to have sex outside of a relationship then you should not have casual sex. You are not being hurt by someone else, you are hurting yourself.
>"but even though we just met for a few dates I though we were PERFECT together and I was sure it was GUARANTEED to end in a relationship!"
That's not how any of this shit works. No matter how much you sugar coat it, you are never promised a relationship. You just met and therefore you weren't in a relationship and therefore it was sex outside of a relationship. If it can hurt you then either accept the risk or don't do it. Otherwise you're just going to keep hurting yourself over and over.
well you get over yourself and quit pretending your some prize and you dont even enjoy sex or something
that painting is fucking horrendous btw
>>17141983
This.
Ironically, women will use this same logic when they're on the other end, but can't comprehend it in scenarios like this. It's hilarious.
Men use women for sex. What a discovery.
