Why bother? It's not that enjoyable with someone you don't care about. You're just going to feel dirty and wonder why you bothered after.

>>17138825
To get my end off, f course. I'm pretty adamant about it. Or through craigslist. Just someone who knows what they're doing

>>17138821
Ignore the moralfags. There's really no downside to it, just don't do it with a cheap crackwhore. Spend enough money to get a nice escort, and tell her you're a virgin in advance. She'll be able to help you relax and show you the ropes.

Hopefully you are not in Burgerland, because it's pretty much legal and safe anywhere else.

>>17138821

if you dont really care about it why not lose it do a dude? considerably more free.

>>17140028
Because I'm not gay and not caring how I lost applies to women.

>>17140027
UK.
but having said that, there arn't many escorts my way. I've checked AW.

>>17140033

so you do care. ergo, you should take a little pride in yourself.

the issue here isn't that you want to have sex. its that you want to lose your virginity. or at least thats the way your mind is.

losing it to ap rostitute doesn't solve the actual problem at hand, so i dont recommend it. if you just wnated to have sex, id do that.

>>17138825
You people are the worst. Sex can be a blast even if you don't care that much about the person. I'm not sure why the idea of casual sex blows 90% of /adv/ posters away.
Why should OP feel dirty afterwards? It's sex. As long as both parties are clean, what is the foul here? It is also pretty clear why he bothered, he wants to be a virgin no longer. You're stupid and your post is stupid.

My only real advice to you OP, is that it probably wouldn't be too hard to hook up with a girl without paying for it. Unless you're deformed, it's a lot easier than you've built it up to be. If you're set on skipping the process and going straight for a prostitute, just make sure you're both using protection and understand what you're getting in to.

>>17140042
So losing your virginity to a prostitute doesn't solve the 'problem' of being a virgin? Do you regularly argue yourself into backward statements like that?

>>17140048

yes. because you are creating an imaginary situation. you arent losing your virginity, you are paying someone to take it off your hands.

the issue is still there: you can't actually lose it. if OP wanted to do this simply because he wants to have sex, i would agree, even if he is a virgin. cuz a prostitute CAN give you sex.

but what hes talking about is doing it specifically to lose his virginity.

its like saying 'i want to lose 10 pounds' so you go get liposuction. technically yes, you lose 10 pounds, but it doesn't fix the problem that you have no self control and will gorge on food til fat again.

sex with a prostitute is like sticking your dick in a woman for five minutes than saying you lose your virginity despite not cumming. or a woman saying she lost her virginity cuz a guy stuck it in her but didn't cum.

its not the same, and OP's issue is mostly psychological. fucking a hooker has no bragging rights.

>>17140057
>yes. because you are creating an imaginary situation. you arent losing your virginity, you are paying someone to take it off your hands.
You are aware that having intercourse with a woman, prostitute or not, as a virgin IS losing your virginity, right? What, does the fact she's taking cock every other day create an exception to the rule?

>>17140059

yes. the way that having a penis in you for a whole minute will technically make a woman not a virgin anymore.

but OP isn't 'losing' his virginity. he is 'selling' it.

if what is important is just having sex then he could go rape his virginity away too.

but OP isn't concerned about having sex. he is concerned about losing his virginity. Its a 'coming of age' thing. its a 'rite of passage'.

again if he wanted to do this for the sex, id be all for it, why not? but he wants to do this for losing the virginity.

he is not proving his worth to anyone by getting a prostitute. that is what im saying. if you want to claim hes still technically not a virgin, thats fine, and id agree on that technical level. but it doesn't solve OPs actual problem, whether he admits its his problem or not.

>>17140057
I think you might be autistic if you think the word 'lose' carries some significant meaning to the situation of 'losing your virginity.' It isn't something that falls out of your wallet when you're getting naked in front of a not-prostitute.

Losing your virginity means having sex for the first time. He will be having sex for the first time. He's losing his virginity. I think your brain is bad or something. Also the analogies you threw out don't have any relation to the situation at hand.

Also, there aren't really bragging rights to losing your virginity outside of high school. Maybe your logic is so bad because you're still 17 and watched one too many abstinence videos in sex ed.

>>17140064
I think the part you don't get is that people above the age of 18 don't care if you've had sex or not. It stops becoming a rite of passage or bragging rights.

Literally nobody cares.

>>17140069

>i dont understand the cultural significance of your first sexual experience

sure, im the dumb one.

>>17140071

the bragging rights are, as i mentioned, psychological. this isn't so he can go and tell his friends he lost his virginity. when you are over 18 you still have that internal dialogue. no one wants to lsoe their virginity to a prostitute. im not even saying it needs to be special, but there is no validation in it.

therefore he is still psychologically, socially, culturally, a virgin.

if you want to argue against that, fine. but it does not solve OP's actual problem, which is that he can't lose it the traditional way.

>>17140064
OP here.
Yes I am doing this to lose my virginity. I think I'm past the normal age for doing it and I'd like to at least get it over with and not be a wizard. If the sex is nice then that's swell. I'd expect to explode after 30 seconds.And that's the beauty of it; you get better each time.
This is psychological; all I need is a push and then I'll do fine after. I can decide whether it was a shitty experience or not but at least I tried it.


For all the guys who arn't this guy, what's the likely hood of going through something like craigslist instead?

>>17140082
I don't want to keep arguing with you because your posts boil down to
>He's had sex
>B-b-b-but he's still a virgin!

I think you might just be salty that you can't afford a prostitute or something at this point.

>>17140083
I've actually met a girl who hooks on craigslist at a bar. Honestly, she didn't seem completely bunk but even she acknowledged there were better outlets with better clientele for it. I don't know what they are (I live in the states) but I would imagine a little more digging could benefit you instead of going through craigslist. My understanding is that it's the easiest outlet to prostitution but most 'good' girls end up somewhere with a more directed and wealthy userbase.

I've gotta ask though, man. Have you tried just hitting up bars and fishing? I don't see a difference in you losing it with a prostitute as being any different than getting drunk with a girl at a bar, but it just might be easier and less expensive.

>>17140108
>Have you tried just hitting up bars
y'know I have thought that recently but I've never really lived near enough to a bar scene to benefit from it. I guess there is a pub but I'm not expecting much. At the very most I doubt there'd be women hanging around in there looking for strangers to shag.

>>17140108
If OP is a virgin at a later than expected age, it's far more convenient to get a prostitute. Even guys with game are far from guaranteed to get a girl home. And then, the quality of sex can vary. It can be quite lousy. At least with a prostitute you should expect to get decent to good sex.

>>17140118
I feel you. I'm spoiled living in a relatively large city with close to a 100 bars within walking distance. Do your thing man, just be transparent with the prostitute and don't go for a buy one get one free type situation.

>>17140121
I agree with the convenience, I get it. It's just fun (for me) to move it from drinking at a bar to walking back to my place for a fuck before going back out. I definitely agree with you on quality. To be fair though, quality goes out the window when you last a minute. I've been drunk enough to cum that fast, or drunk enough to last annoyingly long. Not sure where OP will land on the spectrum.

>>17140130
>Not sure where OP will land on the spectrum.
Likely more the former. I'm a virgin remember, we tend to blow our load instantly on the first time.

>>17140083

all im saying is that you will still feel like a virgin after you bang the hooker.

you are literally throwing away your money for what amounts to masturbation with a pile of flesh. which can be fun but its not what you want.

good luck.

I'm in the same situation as you OP. I've researched it a bit, you should try finding some escort forums in your native language, and you can even just ask in there, they'll be happy to tell you if they have any experience with the girls that you are considering or they might even have some girls they think would be good.

For people saying that you'll feel dirty after having lost it to a prostitute, I think they should stop talking for other people. I know, even though I'm still a virgin, that it's the PHYSICAL aspect of sex that I'm mostly worried about and having an experienced woman show me the basics would make a huge difference for me. I'm 20 years old and the hardest part about being a virgin at this age, I find, is that most of your peers will not be virgins and will start, around this age, to be more confident with themselves and their sexuality and have some experience, so suddenly it seems 10 times more scary to approach girls now, than when you were still a teenager (if i hadn't had bad skin back then, i'm sure i'd have had the confidence to get it over with)

I think you should see it from another perspective; maybe if people like OP (and myself) DON'T go visit a prostitute, it may mean several more years of painful romantic isolation, whereas we could possibly have gained some courage by visiting the prostitute and might have started pursuing romantic interests.