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2016-05-11 11:45:46 Post No. 17132427
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2016-05-11 11:45:46
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This may sound like the dumbest problem to have but I really struggle with it and need some guidance /adv/. Recently my female best friend found out her husband cheated on her. Shortly after she confessed to me she's been in love with me for 5 years. This keeps happening. Every friend I get close to falls for me and ends up leaving/resenting me for not returning the feelings. The worst part is I feel like they build me up and put me on the pedestal I can never live up to anyways. I am nothing speculator looks wise and I'm mentally crazy/emotional. But I feel like I'm going to be stuck alone forever because no one wants to be my friend. This is the second female best friend to do this. Last time she ended up hating me and we haven't talked in ages. I don't think I'm gay but I do absolutely love my best friend. I think she's beautiful and we get along like I never have with anyone else. But I feel like she's just reacting to her husband cheating(even though she assures me that's not it). I don't want to reject her while she's still going through being cheated on. But I don't want to feed into it and lead her on either. I keep thinking if I had just gone for either of these girls I would be treated so well and know we would always be happy. But am I gay? I have never been with a woman and I love men. I mean I'm pretty old fashioned and pro gender roles. What do I do? How do I make friends that won't fall for me? I'm not even worthy of any of these people it makes me feel like a fraud.
