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2016-05-10 22:09:13 Post No. 17130561
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2016-05-10 22:09:13
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Everybody's ignoring me. It's making me so goddamn depressed. I can handle it and perhaps even understand if it's one person shutting me out, but it's literally everybody I trust or even remotely a friend. They don't even have connections to each other, so it's not a group thing.
None of them ever initiate anything, whether it's plans or talks. One person started pretending I was a stranger after a year of close contact. Another went full snark towards anything I say, only to ignore further responses. A third person didn't even bother with that, ghosting me entirely. And so on and so on.
I'm not an extrovert person, but even I get lonely and in need of contact sometimes. Yet here I am, with a reasonably sized social circle that went to zero overnight. And it's been going on for a while now, so it doesn't seem to be them just being busy.
I tried asking them if something's up. Told one girl friend she seemed quiet lately and brought up some other topic along with it (dumb mistake) because it felt unnatural to say. She gave some shit non-response to that topic and ignored the other thing entirely.
Asked another friend outright if something's up. Got nothing more than "I'm busy and tired" and apparently it's been that way for half a year now because nothing has changed for that long.
What's the matter with me, /adv/? Why do all these people hate me? I know it's a melodramatic thing to say and I'll probably regret it after hitting Submit, but being blown off for the few dozenth time in a short period by another person I thought could actually put up with me hasn't exactly put me in a rational state of mind and I'm anonymous anyway. Why do friends just fucking ignore each other like that? What hints was the other person supposed to get, if any?
