Femanon here i have a guy friend who is ugly and when i say this i mean like 2/10 and he always whines about how other guys getting hotties and he do not know whats problem with him why he cannot get girls how i most politely convey him that THIS is the problem
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Well one way to get him to stop complaining would be to fuck him.
>>17126012
Believe me anon, because i give a fuck about your opinion
>>17126016
In a loving committed relationship already
Tell him he's ugly? You don't seem like you care too much anyway.
>>17126008
The problem is NOT that he is ugly. Google "Ugly men with beautiful women" for proof.
The problem is thagt he broadcasts desperation and worthlessness. If he feels no girl will ever love him, then something in his behavior or body language will give off "I'm un-love-worthy" signals.
Girls will overlook his looks if he's attractive in other ways. They can't help being repelled by "loser" vibes.
>>17126008
His problem is that he complains to a woman about women.
What a fucking moron!
>>17126008
Can't you just tell him?
>>17126093
Maybe, maybe not. A hideous guy is not going to get chicks unless he's rich or very charismatic (the kind of charisma that can't be taught).
Not much you can do as a friend. No one likes to be told that they have little to offer and that is ultimately what you mean. The other anons are right, everyone likes a cute guy or girl but all the more for a man it is ultimately about the bigger picture. If you are astoundingly smart, acknowledged and charming, that in itself is enough to make you incredibly attractive for many women. Obviously this is not his case.
If he asks, I'd pointedly say that you don't want to offend him, but perhaps he should think about how much he expects from a partner (because I'm sure he wouldn't be happy with a hot bimbo who's cranky all the time and hates sex... so being hot is merely the entry level bar) versus how much he can realistically offer as a boyfriend compared to other guys. If you get more crude than that he is just going to get defensive and deflect anyway, being able to take personal criticism graciously is extremely rare all the more in young people.
>>17126047
So?
You wanted advice, well there it is!
Can't you help improve his looks/give him advice to dress better? He is your friend after all
