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>too quirky and eccentric to fit in with chads, bros and jocks
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>too quirky and eccentric to fit in with chads, bros and jocks
>too /fit/ and not 'liberal' enough for hipsters and artsy types
>too social to fit in with nerds and gamers
>don't fit in any scene
>don't want to die alone

what do?
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do your own thing and fuck what people think.

you'll find some like minded people eventually.
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>>17124467
the moment you stop trying to fit in is the moment youll be yourself.

and whatever comes of it will be you.
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>implying the scene people follow is black and white
Anon people aren't polarized in one group, they're a collection of different styles. The same way one of those faggots could see you as a fit/jock fag, you see them as hipsters. Sure you might lean a bit more one way but perception is everything. If you want to befriend people I'd say don't make excuses on why you aren't making connections and try to find the small things you do share in commen and don't look at what you don't share in commen negatively because that's the fun of friendship, learning and incorporating each other's lifestyle.
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>Registered republican
>Does not do drugs
>Likes video games and good enough to have reached top 10 ranking in an MMO
>Did sports through out highschool and have practiced half a dozen martial arts
>Believe in the martial arts credos of respect
>Can drink basically anyone under the table
>One of the most serious, self reflective people, and seemingly intense people you'll ever meet
>One of the most sarcastic and subtley dry and mischievously silly people you'll ever meet
>I will switch between the two at a drop of a hat just get a laugh out making fun of me/you/everyone
>Basically a walking encyclopedia and can tell you anything from why your beer tastes like shit, to how electric cars work, to why they used to put brick dust in chocolate

I've been friends with all types, while distinctly being in absolutely none of the groups. Everyone accepts me because it's pretty obvious IDGAF and just do me with no judgement or pretenses

Stop worrying about fitting in and just do you. People are pretty easy to get along with. Smile, laugh, be friendly, that's all it basically takes. Finding people you gel and sync with though, that's another thing altogether and it completely transcends any cliques, personality types, or common interests. You're not going to find those people by limiting and distracting yourself trying to fit in to exactly one group.
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I'm almost in the same exact boat except I fit in with nerds and gamers since I'm quite asocial

There's people out there for everyone
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>>17124472
>>17124490
This, why do you feel the need to fit in with these groups?
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>>17124467
Yo bro there's a bunch of people like you man.

Chill and just be you it lol make you meet people like yourself or you'll find people who mesh with you.
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>>17124467

>chads, bros and jocks,

this is your strongest supposed argument, sure, but there are plenty of these people who are eccentric. being a true 'bro' is considered an eccentric almost weird thing to be. its never shown in a positive light except for in gay porn.

>too fit for liberal hipsters and artsy types

try harder. there are plenty of fit hipsters and artsy types. especially hipsters, jesus they all seem to be ripped or at the very least a healthy lean. artsy types dont care if you are muscular, as long as you appreciate art an can connect with them on that.

>too social to fit in with nerds and gamers
>cuz all nerds and gamers dont know how to do anything but sit in the basement amirite

i think the issue herei s that you are a closed minded person. or worse, you are a legitimate asshole no one like and you attribute it to THEM being superficial. my friends are all nerds and gamers and they are the most social people ive ever hung out with. they meet at least twice a week, sometimes just for board games in the house sometimes to go out and do crazy shit or play laser tag or what have you.

sounds like YOU are the problem,. not your eccentric fit sociability.
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