So this girl that I have known for the past 6 and half years finally let me out of the friend zone three weeks ago, and everything was going great and we were both dropping serious hints for a future together and I am starting to feel actual attachment towards her. Our new found quasi relationship was going well or so I thought up until this weekend, I last spoke to her Friday night and ever since she has ignored my messages I have sent to her late Friday night before I went to bed. I only messaged her once yesterday wishing her a good day which never got a response, and today I haven't heard from her at all. I also haven't messaged her today either to avoid being seen as clingy or as a beta. Could she be testing me somehow, should I just wait it out tonight and send her a message tomorrow checking up on her since I haven't heard anything, or should I just move on completely?
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Well after 6 and a half years you sound like you don't really know her that well still, so yeah you're probably better moving on.
>>17124231
I know her rather well actually, we just have a habit of being good friends and drifting apart on occasion. We have both seen each other at our lowest, we know each other's personalities, and both of our relationship needs. I should also point out she is openly trans, and I have made it very clear to her that I am no way ashamed of her because if I was then I would have no business talking to her, and if my family ever asked me about her being trans then I would completely honest because it would be disrespectful to her to lie about who she is.
>>17124231
But also, I would like to add that the option of simply moving on seems to be the better option because I am getting older now and I no longer have the time to waste on someone else who isn't feeling the same as myself.
How did the whole getting out of the friendzone thing happened?
>>17124328
It pretty much happened because she moved closer back to my hometown and she messaged me one day out of nowhere asking if I wanted to hang out as friends, and I agreed. Then as we were hanging out and taking a stereotypical moonlit walk with our arms wrapped around each other's bodies, we sat down on a bench and had conversation then she asked if she could kiss me and of course I agreed, then afterwards we left and rode around town going nowhere in particular until we ended up at my house where things heated up quite a bit.
