Have had a girlfriend for about 9 months >me being boring,

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2016-05-09 00:30:45 Post No. 17123861
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:30:45 Post No. 17123861 [Report]

Have had a girlfriend for about 9 months

>me being boring, down to earth
>she's down to earth, quiet as well

Then later on suddenly a whole bunch of shit comes up about her past; like having threesomes, a fuckton of one night stands, her dating/fucking a multitude of guys around the time she met me.

Although, I'm not interested in her past because we've all done shitty stuff; I feel like leaving her because she LIED about this stuff.

Is it fair to be evasive of another persons judgement ? It seems to be coming from an insecure place.

Next, as this all was brought out into the open -she suddenly brings up that she had a boyfriend who died in a car accident;

So she's been only giving 60% into the relationship between us.

How is this even a fair or nice thing to say to someone?

Is this even salvageable or should I move on?

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:36:42 Post No.17123879
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:36:42 Post No.17123879 [Report]

>>17123861
>Although, I'm not interested in her past because we've all done shitty stuff; I feel like leaving her because she LIED about this stuff.
There's nothing wrong with that, and it may be for the best.

>Next, as this all was brought out into the open -she suddenly brings up that she had a boyfriend who died in a car accident; So she's been only giving 60% into the relationship between us.
Then it sounds like she's just with you out of comfort. Who you are doesn't necessarily matter, because anyone will do to help fill that void.

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:37:20 Post No.17123880
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:37:20 Post No.17123880 [Report]

>So she's been only giving 60% into the relationship between us.
>60%
How do you reckon?

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:38:44 Post No.17123882
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:38:44 Post No.17123882 [Report]

>>17123880
Her words, not mine.

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:41:56 Post No.17123892
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:41:56 Post No.17123892 [Report]

>>17123882
Use for companionship, but quietly look for another partner

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:46:37 Post No.17123910
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:46:37 Post No.17123910 [Report]

>>17123892
I'm not going to lead her on. Should I leave her then?

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:57:22 Post No.17123942
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:57:22 Post No.17123942 [Report]

>>17123861
what the fuck. what spurred her to unleash this sudden wealth of information?

>anon i have to tell you i lied about us being exclusive when we started dating
>oh by the way i used to be a massive whore before then too!
>and my boyfriend who i loved died in an accident
>also i don't really put much effort in to our relationship

what a stupid cunt
i'd drop her without a second thought

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 00:59:14 Post No.17123949
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Find a new gf preferably one that doesn't have baggage.

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 01:01:39 Post No.17123955
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 01:01:39 Post No.17123955 [Report]

>>17123861

Is it just one person making these threads everyday?

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 01:03:20 Post No.17123964
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 01:03:20 Post No.17123964 [Report]

>>17123942
I caught her lying