My significant other and I are both bisexual and have a (very one sided) agreement. We are able to have relations with people of the same sex AS LONG as the other is told in a timely manner and we both take the proper safety precautions. I say one sided, because I've simply looked before, and he had a fit. I have caught him twice lying to me. I consider that cheating, because I was not told and had to find out for myself. Now, I am 8 months pregnant and I've been finding questionable shit on his phone on top of him acting strange. He denies everything up and down. There was a doctors appointment where my doc told me he was a little worried about my baby growing a little slow. That day I told my SO. The next morning I had a feeling to go through his phone. I saw fetal developement in his history, and directly after that craigslist history under M4M looking to get his dick sucked. He denied that up and down. He says he's only "looking". Yesterday I went through his email and found one for a gay dating website that was definitely new. What do? Unless I have actual proof he'll just deny it all.
Wow.
Why would you act like you are ok with something that you are clearly not ok with?
>>17118493
Part 2 to my dilemma;
Sometimes I am convinced he may be gay and just with me to be normal. He doesn't look at me during sex ever, he doesn't get the concept of foreplay (me and his ex are besties and both have had this problem) and he never compliments me or anything. All the porn he watches is sissy/trap or gay. I just dont know anymore.
Sounds like he's not bisexual at all.
>>17118498
I'm okay with it as long as I am told. For my own safety. I take it as cheating when I'm snuck around on. And I get aggravated when I simply look to hook up with a girl, and nothing sexual actually happens, and he has a bigger problem than I do when I find out months afterwards he hooked up with someone.
>>17118493
>Getting pregnant by a half gay cheater
Ayyy lmao
Just hope the kid isn't born with some STD. Gay community is nasty.
This is some real cuck shit
>bisexual
This is why people with mental illness shouldn't get into relationships.
Good luck m'lady.
>>17118493
>have open relationship
>only rule is that you tell each other
>still probably okay to have unprotected sex
>going to have a kid with somebody who wants to run around and suck dicks when he has a kid on the way
I've yet to meet a single "Bi" that isn't a worthless, thoughtless degenerate. Enjoy your drama. I hope you're just making up shit for 4chan.
>>17118514
I see you feel for the open relationship with rules meme.
Every single open relationship is more open for one of them than the other. It's usually the person who suggests it in the first place.
The arrangement isn't how you think it is. This is just a loophole so he can fuck dudes in his spare time.
Why the fuck would he follow the rules?
Why the fuck would he let you sleep around on him?