Virgin here who has watched way too much porn and now dreams to perform on the same level as Chad and Tyrone. Basically came here to see if anyone could point some directions on getting started which brings me with two questions.
Are there any good books/videos/information sources on female anatomy, how the body works, and how to be good in bed in general?
Also, does anybody have any good tips on keeping one's penis in good health and working at maximum efficiency? I worry of ED or premature ejac.
Lastly before someone gets the wrong idea, this isnt something i want to do out of spite of women or to be some hardcore alpha or whatever. I genuinely just want to be great at sex, primarily for mutual enjoyment.
>>17118114
>dreams to perform on the same level as Chad and Tyrone.
Good news - porn is fake and every girl has her own special ways she likes to be fucked and odds are it's nothing like your average porn pounding. Porn can be fun but the best thing to remember whenever you watch it is that it's Chock Full o' Lies and you should believe nothing that you see in it.
>>17118114
>how to be good in bed in general?
Go to literotica or some similar place and just look at the highly reviewed "How Tos" that lots of people have written.
>how to eat pussy and ass
>how to give a good massage
>how to take a girl's virginity
>how to touch her so she feels good
etc.
>>17118114
>Also, does anybody have any good tips on keeping one's penis in good health and working at maximum efficiency?
Don't grip it hard when you fap. Don't train yourself on kinky porn, use your imagination, stories, and plenty of vanilla.
>>17118114
>sources on female anatomy, how the body works
Your library probably has "The Joy of Sex" and if you want to know more about female reproduction than most girls you can also read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility".
Finally, don't expect to be good at sex at all without doing it a few hundred times, and don't expect to be good at sex with any individual person without doing it with that specific person a few hundred times, because every person is different.
>>17118114
Communication is the best way to please your partner.
Oral is awesome and a lot of the time, better than sex for women.
But you're already off to a good start if you actually care about pleasing someone other than yourself.
Most men just want to get off.
The guys who try usually do better just off of that.
>>17118162
>porn is fake and every girl has her own special ways she likes to be fucked and odds are it's nothing like your average porn pounding. Porn can be fun but the best thing to remember whenever you watch it is that it's Chock Full o' Lies and you should believe nothing that you see in it.
gotcha
>Don't grip it hard when you fap. Don't train yourself on kinky porn, use your imagination, stories, and plenty of vanilla.
is that all? I thought there were possible excercises I could do.
>Finally, don't expect to be good at sex at all without doing it a few hundred times, and don't expect to be good at sex with any individual person without doing it with that specific person a few hundred times, because every person is different.
note taken
thanks for the reply, and for directing me to that website, lots of info, thanks.
>>17118195
>is that all? I thought there were possible excercises I could do.
Kegels I guess. I've never done them because I've never felt like I needed them, can't really help you much there.
>>17118114
Well, find a dude.
Open legs.
Profit?
You're probably going to be terrible first time anyway. Most people are.
Also it's not some kind of act like porn.
Porn is like wrestling, sure stuffs really happening. But it's not real.
