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I have a question

This woman who's a 27 year old, religious virgin and has aspergers has been fixated on me for the past 2 years. She's asked me about 15 times during that time for me to be her boyfriend. Recently she sent me texts and messages saying do you want to be my boyfriend? Yes or no? I know you love me I have the texts to prove it" I reject her every time because she wants a celibate relationship.

Recently she became a lot more hot headed with me and stated saying I should go out with her because no other woman will have a sexual relationship with me and if they would they'll be ugly (she looks like an ogre herself though)

I gave her an ultimatum of meeting me half way between celibacy and a sexual relationship by contemplating giving me a handjob in a few months of being with her or i'll leave. I told her several times that she didn't have to do it though but it would end in the relationship ending. She agreed to do so but then she refused and asked me "Will you be my boyfriend? Yes or no NOW!!!" so I said no and she went telling everyone we mutually knew I sexually harassed her.

As a response I went to the hottest escort I could find, took some very intimate pics, sent the milder ones to her and said she was my new girlfriend and then said we went looking at baby clothes............She started going apeshit and asked me why I was looking for baby clothes and reacted with disgust when I told her we had an active sex life.

My question is that was my response over the top or a case or a well justified comeback?

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I think you two deserve each other, you're both fucking retarded
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>>17118076
>My question is that was my response over the top or a case or a well justified comeback?

Whether or not it's justified is irrelevant, you're a fuckin' idiot.

Seriously, she bothers you all the time stalker-mode about a relationship that you are clearly not interested, and when you make an offer that means you both come to a compramise, she freaks out and scream sexual harrassment?

What the fuck you think she's gonna do now you've "triggered" her?

Enjoy your false rape allegation mate... That's what happens when you're dumb enough to fuck with crazy instead of waiting it out until they get bored of you.
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>>17118082
I would have contemplated it but didn't realise just how mad she was at the time. She was pestering but not crazy until I asked.
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>>17118076
Fag
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>>17118076
>27 year old, religious virgin and has aspergers has been fixated on me for the past 2 years.
>Recently she sent me texts and messages saying do you want to be my boyfriend? Yes or no? I know you love me I have the texts to prove it"
>she wants a celibate relationship.
>Recently she became a lot more hot headed with me and stated saying I should go out with her because no other woman will have a sexual relationship with me and if they would they'll be ugly

>>17118098
>not crazy


Sure...

I just think your stupid.

You've cocked up, it'll bite you in the ass, just be sure to learn from it.
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I embrace OP's degeneracy. That shit's impressive, mfw this isn't a troll post probably
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>>17118098
I also did it for fun and to alleviate frustration. I have aspergers and people seem to really, REALLY belittle me about my sex life and lack of luck with women and Iv'e never been able to defend myself from the almost incessant mockery due do almost never being in a relationship. When a 27 year old, virgin baptist starts having a dig at my poor love life with the intention of using it to manipulate me into being her long term partner, personally, that's the moment when it's no longer appropriate to keep turning the other cheek. I dunno if I'm wrong though.
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>>17118076
Mate, she is into you, she has just the "god wants me to do this" syndrome.

You are supposted to promise her stuff, bang her, marry her and then have kids.

But you both are a bit retarded so first you need to decide yourself if you want to be her boyfriend.

And throwing pics of sexy girls into face of your girl is beyond retarded.
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>>17118148
She's not my girl. I just asked her for a handjob as a much milder fuck and dump (if I could get it). I never would have stayed with her for longer than a few months and never intended too.
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>>17118153
Ok, maybe if you told her this in the first place, you wouldn't have to face the consequences now.
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>>17118076

Just block her number you fucking retard and stop feeding her attention. If she tries to start shit just show your mutual buddies her deluded texts from before.
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She already blocked me, several times but keeps coming back. I already shown the texts to mutual friends and they also told me they had similar problems with her. They also hate her now.
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>>17118157
I told her from the very first time that I wanted a sexual relationship
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>>17118076
Your mother must be so proud of you.
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>>17118076
Does she really have Asperger's (diagnosed by a child psychiatrist)?
Sounds like she may have been spoiled while growing up by parents who didn't understand the diagnosis, or maybe non-autistically developmentally delayed, this isn't typical behavior for an aspie. (the serious religion isn't really either, desu: im having a hard time imagining a parental approach that could produce her behavioral patterns yet also instill a strong fear of God, especially in an aspie)

And to answer your question: sounds retarded to me, perfect comeback if you were trying to stoop to her level.
Maybe she's developmentally delayed, but you have some growing-up to do yourself.
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lol wut
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>>17118817
She was recently diagnosed. Her mother is also a religious loon so it might be a combo.

To me it just seems wrong to ignore it. I been doing that all my life and if anything the negativity of being seen to be a "nice boy" seems to have gotten worse over the years. All that seems to happen is that it now attracts unwanted attention from the desperate forever virgins who realise their only hope is with the really quiet and introverted men. Sadly because quiet and introverted men are also seen as pushovers, then said forever virgins thinks it's a green light to harass men into relationships.

The reality is that she probably would never have started in the first place if I was actually fucking some woman. To me it just seemed sensible lose the image of single, nice boy pushover traits when it probably caused her to latch on in the first place. She seems to hunt men like that and silence just makes her hunt you harder.

She seems to ignore men in sexual relationships and only seeks men who are introvert and single because they owe it to her or something. No really isn't an answer.
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>>17119029

You should just rape her and instill fear into her. You do know girls don't actually scream rape when they're actually getting raped and sexually harassed ,right? lol

How does her body look doe
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>>17119101
I'm serious. Though I never heard of a story of a man raping a woman who had a desperate crush on him
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