Hey people i need help. Recently I noticed my orgasms were getting less pleasurable. I would still ejacualte normally but it felt not as good. Now it is to the point where when I climax all sensation goes away. I have some pleasure right before then it leaves. What causes this? I really need help because i have a very apathetic mindset where if theres nothing to keep me here I would just kill myself, not like depression but I need help with this.
>>17117611
Stop. Masturbating. Stop porn.
If you don't have a girlfriend to have sex with. Masturbate once a week. Watch porn only when masturbating. Stop choking your boner to death while masturbating.
I'm not kidding. Humans are not designed to have sex or be exposed to sexual acts more then this. Your sex addiction is messing with your body the same as every other drug.
>>17117618
I dont actually donit that often. I know guys who pass me up by alot so I dont understand it.
>>17117611
>I really need help because i have a very apathetic mindset where if theres nothing to keep me here
Also get a life. There are more nice things in this world then you may think.
>>17117619
You do it less than once a week? Tell me the truth.
>>17117621
Thats not what i need help with. If you guys arent here to provide possible solutions or explanations then fucking leave. Thats the inly point of this board.
>>17117622
No. Usually ince a day. I really just want to know the cause. I highly doubt its that bc i have been doing that since i was 15 and its been 4 years. I was thinking maybe something food or medicine wise. Or in my mind.
>>17117627
This is the only solution to your problem mister Teenage Edgelord. I won't leave and I'll laugh at you when you off yourself because you didn't wanna listen to good advice.
>>17117627
Looks like someone didn't get the answer they wanted
>>17117640
>offers unsolicited advice not relating at all the the request
>gets mad when he is told thays not what the thread is about
>hurr durr its good advice kys
God 4chan is becoming even worse than what it was. In most of these threads people just insult the poster or give no effort for a solution. At least the first guy was going for a solution to my problem.
>>17117631
I gave you the only advice there is to that. If you won't listen your problem.
I only want to add some more info. If you hit your thirties your body will drop even more of your libido. Once every two weeks, even every month will be enough and any more than that will cause the same dull feeling you already have while whacking off.
Embrace your human body boy. Didn't think you'd age that fast, did you?
Lol.
>>17117645
Fuck you cunt thats not what the question was about. If I go into threads giving advice unrelated to the topic no ine would take me seriously either. I asked about x and he gave y. There is no correlation. Fuck you
>>17117647
I am the first guy you shit head....
Even more info. I am a 30 year old married woman with three kids. Didn't expect that did ya?
>>17117651
Ok that makes sense. My dick hasnt been feeling the best either. Ill try my best but its not easy. Im just not ised to not jerkin it. How long should i wiat and when I start again how many times a week should i do it?
>>17117655
Why are you talking about different things then? The question was about my dick and you are giving me life advice.
>>17117655
And who gives a fuck who you are I am on here for help i dont care who you are if you can solve my problem.
>>17117658
Good boy. Now read my first post again. If it doesn't help stop completely until you randomly get boners.
>>17117662
Because the time and energy you put into your addiction to feel good for a very short while you could invest into things that improve your character and your life. This would balance you out and provide you happiness all the time not only only for a short while, after which you fall back into depression again.
>>17117666
Ill try it. I guess ill try to do more of other things instead. I always tried to avoid the fact I was addicted to porn. I was able to fixate my entire obsession with porn to one woman, so it would be easier to control. I think that will help. I also realized a new medicine I have been taking timeline correlates to me dick getting numb. Do you think i should atop taking that? I think i am suffering other side effects from it too.
>>17117679
I can't tell you anything about your medicine. But I can tell you even if it caused this, be aware that eventually with or without medicine your libido WILL drop with your aging body.
So rather take care of your addiction it is the better solution in the long run.
Also what medicine do you take? Anti depressants?
>>17117679
Yeah. Ill stop masterbating and looking at porn. Maybe start exercising again and working more hours. Start reading more, less games. Idk. Hopefully it evens out before i ship to bootcamp
>>17117688
I take sleeping pills. One of my doctor wanted me to take them but i refused and then stop seeing her. I didnt want to believe I was really depressed. I try to just force myself through it. Idk if thats working or not.
>>17117694
Depression stems from stress. Try listening to your body and find out this way what causes you stress.
This is very different from human to human. Some people think it's very stressful to be around other people for example (social anxiety) but other people even relax only by spending time with their friends.
Find out what it is for you and try avoiding stressful situations as much as possible. If you can't, be sure to have enough regeneration time (for social anxiety guys enough alone time for example).
Keep up the things you enjoy (vidya) only replace them if you find other things you enjoy even more.
>>17117689
Just one more info. You're a virgin I suppose. If you fix yourself and are stable enough to have a relationship, you'll be surprised how mindblowing your orgasms feel when you have sex with your loved one. If you do it the way it's supposed to be (no masturbation at all) that is.
