"Is it ok to obsess over a girl? Explain why"
Obsession is unhealthy. It's not ok to obsess over anything. You shouldn't obsess over your pinky toe.
Only if you are fucking her.
>>17117055
Is any obsession healthy?
It is okay to commit your mind, body, and soul to a person. To make them as big a part of your life as you are yourself, but only if they do the same for you. I obsess over my girl but she does the same for me. But it must be remembered no one-sided relationship is healthy or even fun.
>>17117055
obsess? no.
think about and have a fond spot for is an okay place to be if you're not dating. much more is weirdy and can be a slippery slope of more weirdy
its not healthy, being clingy is not good either
what if she rejects you or she meets someone else and leaves you
>>17117063
Gotta go with this.
>>17117129
Thanks I needed this
>>17117091
Thank you anon I'm not alone.
oneitus only leads to bad places if that's what you're getting at.
>>17117055
NOOOO literally never okay, this is why this board if flooded with depressed shits wondering why their oneitis left them
the only time it's acceptable is if you've been together for 10+ years and possibly have a child together
but heres the kicker... you won't obsess over her anymore if those things are true, love and lust fade with time
You should probably see a doctor because you might end up killing them or yourself, which might not be a good thing,but Romeo and Juliet say otherwise. have you devoted a shrine to them in your closet yet? Seriously! I hope it isn't for me, and even though I'm perfect, I've fallen for people but it isn't like I'm totally obsessed or anything maybe love is he answer. If you are really like someobody maybe you will just end up a danger to others.
the answer is an emphatic "Fuck No." you're better than that, OP, hold yourself in higher esteem. make your intentions known to her early on, and MOVE ON if nothing's gonna happen.
ironically, moving on quickly is the best thing you can do to increase your worth in the eyes of a woman who has rejected you.
