Is it ok to not say "I love you" to your partner?

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2016-05-06 22:16:30 Post No. 17116394
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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:16:30 Post No. 17116394 [Report]

Is it ok to not say "I love you" to your partner?

I've been in a relationship for a year and a half.
We've said it before, but not so much over the last 6 months.
I wouldn't say it's a sign of the relationship breaking apart.
But I only ever say it if I feel I need reassurance, and when it's said back to me it feels forced and constructed. I doubt my own sincerity also.

Is it normal to avoid the phrase altogether?

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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:18:30 Post No.17116400
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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:18:30 Post No.17116400 [Report]

>>17116394
no. its normal to say it the point where it means nothing anymore.

why does it even concern you? thats certainly not normal.

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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:49:40 Post No.17116487
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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:49:40 Post No.17116487 [Report]

>>17116400
>why does it even concern you? thats certainly not normal
I reckon it's thought about by a lot of people.
What if I'm saying it when I don't mean it?

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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:51:24 Post No.17116499
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Anonymous 2016-05-06 22:51:24 Post No.17116499 [Report]

>>17116487
I'm not a scientist, but I believe if you say it when you don't mean it...it means you don't love them

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B'Aww Thread 2016-05-06 23:33:17 Post No.17116601
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B'Aww Thread 2016-05-06 23:33:17 Post No.17116601 [Report]

>>17116394
I would break up with my partner if he never told me he loved me. Despite his actions, I still need words of affection in my life; it's a bit psychological.

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Anonymous 2016-05-06 23:44:50 Post No.17116634
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Anonymous 2016-05-06 23:44:50 Post No.17116634 [Report]

>>17116601
My ex used to tell me she needs to hear it sometimes
Just telling her randomly and when she was having a bad day did a lot for her