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Why is trying to talk to women so hard?
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I am a average-below average guy. I am 25 and just can't talk to women. I hate "yoloing" shit and basically doing something without knowing what will happen.

I like to weigh my options and prepare for things. Dealing with women doesn't allow me to do this which stresses me. I look visibly stressed when talking to women I want to date. People have described me as looking never calm.

Does my demeanor make women uncomfortable? I don't see a way around it because talking to women inherently stresses me out because each woman is different but they all find random men creepy.

I actually think this is why there is a influx of perverts in cities. Men are just "yoloing" interactions with women because almost nothing works in making progress with women.

It makes perfect sense why guys rub their dicks on women on a crowded train. They probably tried all other types of talking and nothing works.

Perverts are not born. They are created.
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Also, I don't condone perversion on transit. I was just saying... It's not as simple as the media makes it out to be. They think it's just pervs being pervs but it's really just desperate dudes trying anything for female attention. They are at their wits end.
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>>17115088
>I actually think this is why there is a influx of perverts in cities. Men are just "yoloing" interactions with women because almost nothing works in making progress with women.


You sound more like your problem is that you've stewed your brain in 4chan and porn to the point where you have no idea what actually goes on in reality anymore. You're right, perverts are created, and you've made yourself into a pervert.

If you want to learn to talk to women, stop thinking about sex constantly and talk to them the way you'd talk to men.

Do you know how to talk to men even?
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>>17115107
this. its not really that hard. just talk to them the same way you talk to men. i do it all the time in uni. women are actually quite easy to talk with, they do go on a bit sometimes though lol.
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>>17115088
>It makes perfect sense why guys rub their dicks on women on a crowded train. They probably tried all other types of talking and nothing works.

This is so retarded I don't even.

>I
>don't
>even
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>>17115116
he is a classic edge master
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>>17115107
You can't talk to them like you talk to guys, otherwise you'll just come off as a friendly dude wanting to be friends.
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>>17115107
Honestly, in this day and age... You can't escape porn. I tried many times and since my life is void of female attention, I have no other choice but to go back to porn.

It's really boggling how few opportunities I get to talk to women my age. I don't even want to remotely talk to women age 18-20. But that's all there seems like there is in this shitty city.

Where are the women aged 25 or so at?! I feel like women ask too much of men. I have to jump through hoops just to talk to them.
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>>17115129
>you'll just come off as a friendly dude wanting to be friends.

And coming off as a creepy pervert that wants to lick their feet has been working so well for you, right?
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>>17115132
never know until you try
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>>17115130
>You can't escape porn

You sound like a lardass whining about how they can't escape food while they buy it at the store and then stand in front of a fridge stuffing it in to their stupid face. Of course you can, dumbass, you just lack the willpower to do it.


>Where are the women aged 25 or so at?!
Literally everywhere but on your lap and in your mom's basement watching porn with your sweaty pervert ass.


>It's really boggling how few opportunities I get to talk to women my age.
Try going outside.
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>>17115137
It's not a matter of willpower. It's a matter of purpose. Why would I quit porn and have nothing to replace it? You don't just quit porn and masturbation. It serves no purpose. Think of it as quitting your job before you have a new one. You just don't do that.
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>>17115147

That's like a grossly obese lardass saying they'll quit overeating once they find a handsome lover to give them emotional support in place of food.

If porn is such a great replacement for companionship, what are you whining on about anyway? You've got porn, what else do you need?

Enjoy your permanent loneliness as you stew in porn, pervert.
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>>17115130
>I tried quitting porn many times

>>17115147
>Quitting porn serves no purpose

Keep lying to yourself.
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>>17115163
Tell me what I could do if I quit porn. How would it help me?
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>>17115171

Why did you try to quit?
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>>17115130
you sound like you're trying to fob off responsibility for your decisions onto anybody but yourself. that's probably part of your problem.
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>>17115147
>Why would I quit porn and have nothing to replace it?
>have nothing to replace it
>nothing
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