How do I make my GF enjoy anal?
We've only done anal twice and she hates it but does it because she knows I like it. What can I do to make her love it and cum from it? We've only done it in the shower but I just got an enema kit and lube for tomorrow. The position we tried in the shower was just her standing and leaning over pretty much.
How do I make her enjoy it? How do gay guys enjoy it and how are there girls who crave it? I played with her clit while doing anal and that's the only thing she liked about it.
>>17114385
Ask her to fuck you with strap on and then you will see why she hates it.
>>17114391
Why the fuck do gay guys like it?
Pretty sure I hear there are plenty of girls who love it as well. Am I just doing it wrong? She loves the sex and everything about it except anal.
>>17114420
Guys have a prostate, girls don't...i think that's the primary reason
I'm gay, I didn't like anal at first because it was uncomfortable. Not everyone will like it. But I would suggest to your girlfriend to try it by herself with a dildo to get comfortable with it.
>>17114385
if she doesn't like it why are you still trying to get her to do it
leave it alone dude, it's not for everyone and you're just gonna fuck up your relationship
>>17114458
>if she doesn't like it why are you still trying to get her to do it
I ask and she says sure because she knows I like it
>>17114498
Yeah, and every time you pester her about it, anal sex is getting built up more and more into an awful chore that she does "for you," bringing any possible chance for enjoyment on her part to absolute zero. Not every girl is going to enjoy anal. Either quit while you're ahead or break up and make finding some girl who enjoys anal your #1 priority.
This thread is making me sick. Im glad I came up before boys had desensitized themselves from watching Anal porn and expect it. It makes me sick
I can't imagine what it's like for the average young adult now.
I turned 18 in 2008, and it was only just starting to turn into the "desensitized" era that we're seeing now.
Basically from what I've experienced, unless your girl wants it already for whatever reason, then you're going to have a quite a struggle getting her to want it.
Most girls shouldn't want it, evolutionarily speaking, but when it comes (huhu cums) to factors like mate retention, things like anal sex become more appealing.
When I was a teen I put a couple things up my butt for the prostate things (thanks Eurotrip) and honestly it was that bad so unless a dude isn't careful then there isn't much to worry about.
That being said, most young guys aren't careful and are sold on this idea of porn that every woman either wants or has had anal.
tl;dr break up with her
jk but don't pressure her
>>17114385
Everyone is different. Some people get turned on by being whipped, but it's safe to say most don't.
Some women may enjoy anal, but it's safe to say most don't. It hurts.
The real question here is why you are so determined to make your girlfriend undergo a painful experience just to keep you happy.
>>17114498
you're selfish
>>17114458
>if she doesn't like it why are you still trying to get her to do it
Fuck you feminist sjw faggot.
>>17114391
It seems you tried anal recently too with the amount of asshurt in your post
OP if you end up doing it a third time and she still doesn't like it then just fucking stop
The only way you can be doing it wrong is if you're going in dry, which if you are, then take the namefag's advice you retard.
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>>17114556
I haven't been to \adv\ in a while. Has sjw's like this invaded this place? Anal sex has been around as long as sex itself. It's been recorded in many ancient civilizations.
>>17114640
and fuck you facist cunthole. how bout I bend you over and stick a cucumber up your ass and you learn to like it?
Go fuck yourself
>>17114853
not them but there's really not much physical enjoyment to be had for chicks receiving anal. there's nothing pleasurable in there for them. its like expecting a girl to cum from only sucking dick. some might if they're super into it but most won't
>>17114857
You know what your butthole is for?
Cock. You only poop from it for 10-20 minutes a day. The rest of the time it's for tight, delicious sodomy. Why do you think it's stuck between those yummy buttcheeks? It's like a little pink cherry of a target between two big vanilla frosted cupcakes.
You just need to learn your place, sweetie pie.
>>17114385
Start with fingers you stupid fuck.
Like, seriously. Lube up her butthole and just dig in there with your index finger. Do that for a good solid week.
Graduate to two fingers.
Really get her anus used to stretching.
Maybe get in there with your tongue every now and again.
Get a few tiny butt plugs.
And then after a few weeks of solid prep and a good supply of lube, her butthole will be ready for your cock and she'll actually enjoy it.
MOST women, and men, can eventually enjoy anal stimulation. The problem is that most of the time, their partners are over eager and jump right to the end game, instead of properly preparing their anus and making it nice and receptive of larger insertions over a few weeks. Shit takes time, nigga.
>>17114385
>We've only done anal twice and she hates it but does it because she knows I like it.
A) you have an awesome girlfriend
B) you're treating her like a dick and on the verge of ruining a good thing
C) spare no time or expense in making anal pleasurable or at least painless, you ass. Work on lubing, stretching, fingering, rimming, and positions until you can drop a potato down her ass without her making a whimper.
>>17114385
people work there way up. you gf has probably never really played with her ass before so its going to hurt her alot. well guys g spot is in there ass so that why they enjoy it but even guys have to work there way up, gay guys dont start taking big dicks straight away.
Just one question: Op said he tried it both times in the shower. Isn't it bad for the lube (I hope OP used lube)? Wouldn't it be better to lubed the girl in the bed? I mean, the water might wash the lube away?
She'll never enjoy it. She's not supposed to enjoy it. It's all about you relishing the power of the act.
>>17115057
>Work on lubing, stretching, fingering, rimming, and positions until you can drop a potato down her ass without her making a whimper.
That would be needlessly excessive. A tater-tot, rather than a whole potato, should be an adequate representation of OP.
>>17114385
>We've only done it in the shower
>The position we tried in the shower was just her standing and leaning over pretty much.
Jesus! This is exactly why she didn't enjoy it. Water tends to wash away any lube and shower sex isn't always the most comfortable anyway. You need to spend a lot of time getting her super aroused with lots of foreplay, fingering and lots of lube. I've found doggy is the best position for anal.
Make sure your well lubicated and have her try it out by herself wit a dildo. No one enjoys anal straight of the bat, it takes a while for it to become pleasurable, but not everyone enjoys it the most. Your girl may just prefer other things but she's being nice to you, witch is great to hear.
If you really want to make her enjoy this but after awhile of doing the things I mentioned formally, she still doesn't enjoy it and still wants to make you happy, you could try hypnosis. Is she willing to try it and give it a good shot then this could do a lot to change mind set and make anal a more fun experience for her.
You can find videos and MP3s online but most either wouldn't be what your looking for or would charge you. The best site I know of is Warp My Mind, you have make an account to download things but they'd have a few free files for your needs. Make sure to read the descriptions if you intend to try this
>>17114385
you boys absolutely kill me. You see a few girls that get paid or one or two amateur videos of women getting into it so you know for a fact every hole is a gogo. Selfish foolish boys.
Tried anal for bf and it hurt, tried again and it hurt, tried enough lube and stretching and it hurt. No more anal for me period. Keep your dick out of my ass. However, I don't have a gag reflex and suck dick like a champ and my clit so sensitive you blow on it I shudder and love, love, love how warm a dick feels in my vajay. 2 out of three ain't bad.
>>17115066
In my experience water makes it worse, its wet but not slippery in the right way. You need oilyness.
First of all
>>17115051
>>17115057
>>17115099
Glad to see that after a bunch of unneccesary shaming and sjw bullshit, great advice has already been given
Secondly,
You are a dumb fuck to just stick your dick in her ass, especially without enough lubricate or during showering
and finally
Experience is key. After she is prepped, you still have to proceed slowly with steady graduation in speed, rotation and power. If you are not afraid of exploring yourself, I suggest co-experiencing it. Gives you the best grasp on how to do it.
>>17114385
I don't like it cause the lube and precum and watery shit leak out of my butt for a day and makes a mess. Not work the ick
>>17115110
Pretty much this. Butt stuff seems to have to be ingrained in you mentally if you're a girl, because it just hurts so not-good for me.
>>17115110
that is quite a bigoted statement. Just because you do not enjoy it, doesn't mean it applies to every woman on earth. there are people who cum from various actions unrelated to vaginal pleasure. I met a few of them aswell.
This is a scene of pure stupidity and senseless behavior reenacted from sight, rather than having actual thought put into it. I am certain that unless he has some non sexual trait, like alot of money or great social skills, that after the third failed attempt, that she will even lose sexual interest in him.
>>17115126
you are talking out of your ass. What the fuck did I just say. "of women getting into it" Your assumption however is that is the norm and all you need to do is refine your technique, find that secret switch and you can create an ass whore out of any ass. Most of you boys have never even considered a woman gets to decide if you use their orifices.
>>17115143
There is no secret switch, but there is a right way and wrong way for anal sex. If someone only experiences it the wrong way, they're never going to be into it. Op seems to care if she enjoys it since he asked how to make it better for her.
>>17114423
I know girls who love anal
People are different from each other
>me and my siblings all got these from our crazy aunt
>hmm
>experiment with mine
>try anal while simultaneously use vibrator
>feels fucking good. The slight pain gets me off
Whenever I walk into a store and see these, I never view them in the same way again. Mfw I used a fucking bubble wand as a long anal dildo. Pic related
>>17114423
Women have a similar gland to the prostate, it's also said that anal sex stimulates both the g-spot as well as the interior of the clitoris that wraps around the vag.
>>17115497
well there you have it, the elusive g spot is accessed through the ass
