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>guy I'm dating wants to know my kinks
>/adv/ says relationships are built on trust and confidence and I should share my sexual fantasies
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>"hey potential bf my fantasies are: a lot of super gorgeous fictional people, mostly guys, doing various sex stuff with each other"
>"I never fantasize about me or you but maybe if you could pretend to be one of them for me"
>mfw he disappears off the face of the earth
Why do guys do this? I don't have any kinks about stuff. It's not the act that excites me it's the person who's doing it. I don't get aroused at the idea of sex but I do get aroused at the fantasy of my animu husbandos going at it. Get it? Dunno why that's so hard to accept.
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Because they want you to think about them during sex, not faggy animu characters. How would you feel if your bf said he has many animu waifus and asked you to pretend to be one of them?
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>>17111668
how many girls are even into animu husbandos? i have that faggy anime look going for me (not intentional) i know some like but i dont know about most. anyway he probably reacted this way because he wants you to imagine him during sex, not a fictional character.
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>>17111675
I wouldn't be jealous honestly, I have my own husbandos and it's not like 2D is real despite being superior. As long as I'm his only 3D girl I don't mind if he spends time with 2D. Plus it'd be cool to meet someone who understands how you feel (/a/ doesn't understand how I feel they want 3D girls to be exclusive to them just like their 2D waifus and get mad when you think about someone else 2D or 3D)

>Because they want you to think about them during sex
Then they should impress me. I'm not going to think about you during sex if you don't impress me.
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>>17111686
Then you just need to find someone that's more compatible. Not everyone is comfortable with the idea of their SO having 2D husbandos and waifus and think they are fucking weird. Find some otaku dude that jives with your kinks.
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>>17111685
Two words: Diabolik Lovers

OP, whenever someone asks about your kinks they usually don't want the truth, they want "I think about you honey, doing stuff to me you fantasise about"
Find a guy who's into animu, normal people don't take kindly to "I diddle myself silly to Griffith"
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>>17111685
Why does he want me to think about him during sex when he doesn't particularly turn me on? I mean just talking to him, I didn't do any sex stuff yet, just kissing and I'm not repulsed (I have been repulsed by guys I've kissed before), but talking and making out with guys I don't get the same tingle I get when I look at something like this sequence in FF7. There's something in his eyes and the flames and this sequence that 10 years later still gives a good shiver I don't get with real men.
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>>17111713
BAIT
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>>17111723
I'm genuine anon. I thought 4chan would understand waifus and husbandos.
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>>17111713
>Why does he want me to think about him during sex when he doesn't particularly turn me on
because he wants to turn you on. its hurts him to know you dont find him sexually appealing. i would be hurt if my partner found fictional characters more sexually attractive than me. he is probably worried that he cant satisfy you and is therefore worried you wont even have sex with him. at least its fictional characters though so you wont be actually cheating
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Fuck

I think guys always get weirded out when I tell them how much I like gay guys (especially non Canon gay ships) doing the dirty.

I rarely fantasise about myself. Maybe that means I like voyeurism??

On the other hand my sexual inclinations include pretty hands, male backs, and guys cross dressing. The last one is a little iffy.

So instead I keep it to myself and now everyone thinks I'm boring and vanilla.
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>>17111668
nice b8

fake as shit but on the off chance there really is someone this stupid. when a man asks you about your kinks, its because he's hoping to make sex w/ you more fun.

your response was fucking awful. ofc he dumped you. but any person would know that, even a yaoi loving subhuman hambeast would. so this must be fake shit
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>>17111736
That's literally one of the most common fantasies ever.
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You did the right thing by listening to our advice and everything went properly in that exchange. You discussed your sexual preferences, it turned out they were incompatible with the sexual preferences of your partner and now you are both going to find other people who are more compatible with you. What would you have preferred? Dating this person for 6 more months before opening up about your sexual needs and then breaking up, wasting six months of your life for nothing? You clearly have made the best out of the situation. You write as if you were supposed to be guaranteed an happy ending, that because you did the right thing then you should have been rewarded with sex/relationship. It doesn't work like that. That man has his own sexual preferences and it's not because he wasn't interested in homosexual roleplay that you're "not accepted". It's a form of sexist to believe that men must always deliver sex regardless of their feelings, and to react as if refusal is a personal attack on your person.
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>>17111746
Maybe on r9k fa.m. but I have yet to come across anyone sexually attracted to hands
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>>17111736
well as a guy i would actually find it quite hot if a girl was into this but only if she also wanted to have sex with me. it would only be put off if the girl was not attracted me. im a guy and i even think some anime guys are hot as fuck so i do see where the appeal comes from. if guys in real life looked like anime guys, i would fuck guys alot more often.
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>>17111751
Tbqh if a girl liked you course she'd wanna be with you both sexually and romantically. Can't really deny a person their personal preferences though, just gotta fit in with them. It's not like your gf would want you to renounce porn right?
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>>17111713
>he doesn't particularly turn me on
Then why date a man at all? You are looking for a roleplay partner, not a relationship.
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>>17111750
No, I meant gay guys. Like half my hetero friends fantasise about guys going boarding school on each other.
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>>17111759
Yeah but half the straight guys I know get a little creeped by it. Mostly because they think even the slightest connection, however indirect, to something faggy would rob them of their masculinity
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>>17111763
Yeah I know. Guys get really freaking touchy about that.
But that's why it's just a fantasy I guess. Doesn't have to be realistic.
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>>17111735
But what can I do about it if he's not sexually appealing to me? I have my tastes in sexual attraction, not my fault only 2D meets them. Men say they can't control their dick I can't control my arousal either, I don't want to lie to feed someone's ego, I can't lie about this. It's dishonest and it's bad for me and him both. I'm getting lonely though, I want a guy to hold me and cuddle me when I'm down, to protect and help me along life. I don't mind having sex as a chore with someone as long as I get time to take care of myself too and they don't hurt me. Being alone all your life gets real sad sometimes.
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>>17111755
yeah, i see where you're coming from, i wouldent mind if it was her preference and fetish although if it was a case of "im only going to have sex with you if you pretend be an anime guy" i would be put off, i wouldent mind role playing sometimes though, just not all the time.
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>>17111772
I still can't fap to jensen x Pritchard tho
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>>17111776
That would be creepy as hell famalam. I don't think you'd have much to worry about if you generally date reasonable people
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>>17111756
Because I'm lonely. 2D is not real.
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>>17111785
Go find a guy that's into animu since normies are gonna be put off by you liking 2D. /thread
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>>17111777
Me neither but I'm not into guys.
If I was though, the scruffy dominance of Jensen and the faux-disinterest of Pritchard as he pretends he doesn't care for hot robot dick would be neat though.
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>>17111773
i guess you cant really do anything or at least i dont know. i think telling him the truth was the best thing to do. most guys wont want to be with a women who perceives sex as a chore, sorry. i hope you do meet someone though, it just might be difficult for you to find the right partner.
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>>17111787
But guys into animu tend to be horrible jerks who hate 3D and if you do anything remotely different from what they expect from their perfect waifus they'll treat you like shit. I don't want to go through that experience again.
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>>17111791
Yeah guys are a real handful so you're a lucky bastard. I still don't understand anyone who wouldn't jump at the first opportunity to get on that sweet auged ass though
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>>17111785
I understand that you're lonely and it sucks but you need to be honest about your personal needs. The way you describe the situation, you desire a platonic friend and a roleplay partner. This can be found in the same person, this can be found in two different persons, but this is not quite the same as seeking a relationship partner in mainstream dating. If you seek things in the wrong places then you will return empty-ended and I fear it's what happened here.
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>>17111668
>guy I'm dating
>potential bf
when did dating and being someone's boyfriend became mutual exclusives?
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>>17111807
I don't know mate. It seems pretty straightforward to me that some people may be dating but may not call each other bf/gf yet.
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>>17111806
I don't really want a platonic friend. I do want to enjoy sex and I want to be loved. I'm just sad a guy who could get me to enjoy sex and make me feel loved only exists in the realm of fiction. :(
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>>17111817
that's retarded as fuck.
As for OP.
When someone ask you about your fantasies, tell the most vanilla ones and that will likely could be done with the person you are telling them to.
Any girl saying that her fetish is being gang raped by a whole black neighbourhood shows a lack of selfawareness and wit.
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>>17111835
But shouldn't you be honest about your desires? For your own good I mean. Relationships built on lies normally do not last, and when they last they're toxic and damaging for everyone involved.
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>>17111823
>I'm just sad a guy who could get me to enjoy sex and make me feel loved only exists in the realm of fiction. :(

I'd reccomend killing yourself.
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>>17111823
You can't have your cake and eat it too, OP. Not only do you require the poor dude to pretend to be Sephiroth to get your jollies off but you will never find him attractive enough to be his own man in bed. How is that a great deal for any guy getting with you?
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>>17111843
why are you such an edgy bastard?
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>>17111841
Honest if it affects the guy at all. Keeping a bondage kink secret would be stupid since you might not feel sexually fulfilled with vanilla sex.
Wanting L and Light suck each other off isn't a realistic fetish so your sex life with your boyfriend would gain absolutely nil by admitting it.
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>>17111851
>Wanting L and Light suck each other off isn't a realistic fetish
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05sJHM0cVW8 i was listening to this while i read that
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>>17111835
>that's retarded as fuck.
I assure you that it's perfectly common in all aspects of modern society.
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>>17111841
i think that's just for extreme cases.
if you can ONLY get off by being tied up and being treated like the whore you are, that's something that should be mentioned early on in the relationship so your partner knows what kind of stuff he could expect out of you.
Your fantasies just come as gay dudes doing gay stuff to each other, that would be clearly a turn-off for your heterosexual partner there's no wonder why he is trying to keep his distant.
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>>17111823
There's nothing wrong with platonic love. If you want to spend affectionate time with someone despite not being sexually attracted to them, then I think you describe platonic love.
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>>17111845
I'm just saying, being lonely sucks. You people should know.
>Not only do you require the poor dude to pretend to be Sephiroth
Eh that would require too lengthy and costly a preparation just getting the look right, the logistics alone would kill it. And I guess a guy wouldn't like it if I thought of another guy while he's fucking me. fictional or not. I'll just stay single and keep masturbating, it does feel pretty horrible though, how to stop feeling lonely? Relationships are clearly out of the question.
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>>17111668
Guys basically want you to have kinks they like or have kinks similar enough to tailor to their own. It's also an easy way into getting you interested in sex. When my bisexual boyfriend (big mistake, never date a bisex, they're all whores. Unless you want to fulfil yoru fantasy, I guess) asked me about my kinks, he shot down all of them except the threesome. Whenever we were going through a slump in our relationship, he would try to "revitalize" things by offering to give me my dream threesome. Long story short, giving me my "dream threesome" meant him finding another hole to stick his dick in while I watch.

You don't start talking about "kinks" until you're well into a relationship that has other foundations than sex. You can also find a guy who can get you aroused during sex and then find out how open he is to the idea.

....and rereading your post, I realize you're most likely a troll.
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>>17111886
But I don't want to spend time with someone I'm not sexually attracted to... I do want to be sexually attracted to someone real but none does anything for me, I don't find anyone particularly attractive. I've only found attractive guys in fiction. This wouldn't have be a problem if crippling loneliness weren't getting to me, but I think if I settled for someone my vagina isn't particularly impressed by I will just end up regretting it later.
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>>17111875
So far I can only get off by masturbating. I haven't found someone I'd get to have sex with.
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>>17111919
I'm sorry. I don't know what to say to make it better. Sometimes our sexuality doesn't develop how we want and it sucks. Some people are asexual and don't want to be asexual, some people are constantly horny and don't want to be horny, some people are pedophiles and don't want to be pedophiles. It's not something we can decide for ourselves. Maybe it will get better for you, maybe you will eventually find a guy that you are sexually attracted to. However for now you need to face the music and be honest with yourself. You should seek the relationships that satisfy you, not the relationships that you wish would work. If you are not sexually attracted to someone then don't date them as if you were; you hurt both yourself and others. Sorry.
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>>17111850
Why are you such a faggot?
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>>17111947
Sigh. Life is so hard.
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How to make the loneliness go away?
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>>17112000
You stop being an asshole. You want to use a guy for his cock and some warmth, but you have no interest in loving him. Many guys might be fine with that, but don't expect all of them to be okay with just being a space heater with a dildo attached.
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>>17112046
Where did you get the idea that I have no interest in loving him? If he could get me interested in him, I would love him. Too bad a guy who could do that doesn't exist. Doesn't mean I'm going to force guys I'm not interested in into a relationship. In the OP I was more pissed at people claiming sharing and confiding is important and guys claiming they're all open to hear your kinks but when you tell your honest mind they all flee and say you should lie and pretend things you don't really think.
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OP is a faggot that doesn't deserve love
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>>17112067
When your honest kink is a presupposition that no one will ever be good enough for you, what the fuck do you expect? You aren't even entertaining the thought that there is a right person for you out there. You're assuming right off that your fantasies will always beat an insufficient reality. That will crush any guy interested in more than your pussy.
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>>17112067
Oh but don't get me wrong. As someone else said it is better that you be honest, because keeping something like "you're not good enough for me because you aren't Sephiroth" bottled up would only be a cancer for the relationship.
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>this is what happens when those fanfic girls from Gaia grow up

Jesus Christ how horrifying
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>>17112098
Haaaaaaa!
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>>17112098
Those girls from Gaia are in their thirties by now Anon.
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>>17112108
Late 20s 2bh, like myself
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>>17112115
I used to be on Gaia occasionally and I'm 31. Oh god I'm 31.
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>>17112119
It could be worse, you could be OP
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>>17112123
Well, I mean at least I'm into real people, yeah.
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>>17112085
I'm getting old anon, I'm about to turn 30 now. The older you get the less the chances of finding someone for you, that is a sad fact of life. Most people don't entertain the thought there might be a right person for them out there when they realize the time they could actually do something with their life has already passed and now they just must be productive adults and follow their daily routine of eat-work-eat-sleep. I'm not assuming, my fantasies have always beaten reality, they just have. It's another fact. I've never met a guy I was impressed by and now that I'm old I'm too tired to keep looking. If I could make the loneliness go away there wouldn't be a problem but unfortunately it's there and I don't feel like picking up heroin just to make it go away. At least venting about it makes me feel a little better.

>When your honest kink is a presupposition that no one will ever be good enough for you, what the fuck do you expect?
I dunno, I'm not sure it's even a kink, I just don't know how to describe it. I never had any sort of fantasies about myself or any other real person, sexual or non-sexual. All my fantasies sexual and platonic alike have always been about fictional characters, sometimes from my favorite stuff sometimes people I made up in my head. I'm attracted to the male form so these fantasies involve guys, the female form does nothing for me. That's how it is. If someone asks me what are my sexual fantasies, I just show them a yaoi manga and tell them I self-insert in the uke. If I just described the sexual acts done in yaoi manga it wouldn't be the same thing, because it would lack the component that makes me like those acts, and that's the character I'm in love with. Sexually, the same thing done by a character I don't care for doesn't appeal to me, only when my favorite character does it do I like it, that's how I am. I have never met anyone who made me fall in love with them like Sephiroth or any other of my animu loves have.
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>>17112092
But why do people act like they're mad at me for being honest? I don't get it. Can't they at least keep their civility?
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>>17112163
People want you to think of them during sex. They don't want you to think you're sephiroth and they're cloud and you're banging eachother in a pool of mako. Because that's fucking weird. Even in the most bizarre fetishes, they usually still relate to the sexual attractive of that partner, not replacing them with something else
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>>17111668
the kinks you can share with other people AFTER YOU FORM A COMFORTABLE RELATIONSHIP. you autist. theres no point in telling some one fetishes you can't act out with them.
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>>17112158
>I'm about to turn 30 now

Well, OP, better start getting yourself some cats. Hey, you could even name them after your husbandos.
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>>17112169
But I just can't focus on someone I don't find attractive. When I used to feed a bunch of lies to guys I rejected they bitched I was saying a lot of obvious bullshit, when I start telling the truth they bitch they don't wanna hear the truth. I don't understand people.
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>>17112182
Maybe find people you're attracted to? Like a normal person?
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>>17112171
Other anons say you should tell this kind of stuff right away before you're too deep into the relationship. Which one is it?
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>>17112182
>I don't understand people.

I bet. That's why you're single and in love with cartoons.
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>>17112185
Dude it's not my fault my vagina never tingles for anyone. You don't decide these things.
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>>17112185
>implying OP is a normal person

You're giving her too much credit, man.
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>>17112204
Bitch you're too Gaia I can't handle it
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>>17112201
And why's that a problem for you?
You are being oddly insulting and aggressive, like my being single and in love with cartoons somehow personally insults you, even though my being single doesn't affect your life in any way.
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>>17112209
Don't believe me... but that's how it is. Vaginas don't get wet on command.
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>>17112216
They do in my presence
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>>17112211
How am I insulting you? I'm simply pointing out that you're single and in lovewith cartoons. Show me the insult.
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>>17112220
(you)
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>>17112225
Bitch don't give me a forever alone meme when you can't get off without pretending Peter Pan is giving Hook a blowjob
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>>17112231
Don't be so insensitive, guy's lost a hand, what is he to do?
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>>17112221
My apologies if I'm mistaking you for some other anon. I really do not see the point of you repeating things that already been said though, many other anons have said a guy would want me to think only about him during sex, but I don't see why I should do that when I'm not attracted enough to someone to think about them sexually or romantically. I can't fake orgasms and keep up a false relationship like that, it'd make me feel horrible with myself. I think if I could meet a guy who wasn't repulsed by my fantasies and accepted the fact my only sexual thoughts are about fictional characters, I could come to love him and focus on him too, I don't think I could make him part of my fantasies but hey, I wouldn't mind getting him off and taking care of myself in another moment. But apparently guys like that don't exist since you said they all want you to focus exclusively on them and I don't want to reject the things and characters I love, they're part of me and they've gotten me through some really bad times so it feels like a personal insult being asked to reject them. It feels like being asked to rip off a part of your heart and throw it away. No way I am doing that, I like myself as I am.
So knowing no guy will ever accept me as you guys have confirmed, and knowing none is so physically attractive my vagina will get instantly wet at the sight of them, being single and in love with cartoons is the only good option I am left with.
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>>17112283
You must become the crazy cartoon lady you were born to be
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>>17112288
No crazier than most of /a/ really.
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>>17112292
Slightly more crazy
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>>17112283
It's not the only option you're left with. It's the only option you're giving yourself by saying you want to be loved by someone you will not love in return. And you keep trying to justify that by saying "I might develop feelings for him later" but that's all contingent on him being okay with you being an asshole for an indeterminate amount of time first.
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>>17112292
Yeah, this is true.
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>>17112296
I don't see how am I being an asshole. I'm not going to be instantly in love with someone I don't even know. First I want to know them well so I can be sure they're the right person for me, and that involves sharing sexual fantasies. I cannot love someone who doesn't accept my sexual fantasies, it means they don't want me to enjoy sex and they are only looking for their own pleasure. I don't feel anything if I'm not mentally into it and the only thing that gets me mentally into it are my fantasies. I'm not actually asking anyone to dress up if they don't want, that's not a requirement, but I do expect a good partner to let me keep my thoughts. A man that expects me not to have any sexual thoughts of my own is not someone I want to be with.
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>>17112318
>I need my cartoons to get off
LOL

OP, thank you for existing. I was a bit down but now all I have to do is remind me that at least I'm not you.
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>>17112327
Why do you think a lot of girls and women obsess about yaoi and write porn fanfiction?
Because that's the only way they get off. Since my teenage years, touching myself did nothing, imagining myself in a sexual situation did nothing, thinking about the boys I knew did nothing and they never appeared in my thouhts, reading porn fanfic about my favorite characters? I could have orgasms without even touching myself. It's the only thing that works for me and I find it really rude a guy would get offended at not being able to deprive me of the only thing that gets me off.
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>>17112345
Gaia girls are not normal girls
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>>17111668
This was an internet friend you never met in real life, right?
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>>17112350
You'd think a place filled with normie-hating robots would understand, but nope.
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>>17112345
How fat are you? Don't lie.
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>>17112356
It was a guy who was pursuing me while I was down in my life.
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>>17112362
That's >>>/r9k/, /adv/ is one of the normiest boards here.
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>>17112369
You are both socially retarded right?
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>>17112371
Looks like /r9k/ is right about normies only able to think of themselves then. To you, a man should occupy all of a girl's thoughts even if he doesn't get her off and you get offended when she just wants to masturbate to something else.
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>>17112379
>all
If you're at the point when he's putting his dick in your pussy, yes you should only be thinking about him at that moment. Likewise, he should only be thinking about you.
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>>17112376
I dunno, I never bothered to know more about him after he disappeared and we were just going out to see if we could like each other. Going by what you people said about men I probably dodged a bullet. I have a job and get along well with my coworkers and know how make meaningless small talk to keep uo appearances and apparently that's good enough for society.
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>>17112389
He dodged the bullet, not you.
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>>17112379
Dude that was my first post in this thread.
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>>17112379

Why are you dating someone who doesn't get you off? Masturbation is fine, being unable to slip out of your cringey yaoi fantasies so you can enjoy sex with another person is weird. My boyfriend doesn't always make me cum, but he's hot enough and sex is fun enough that I really enjoy it anyway. You sound really indifferent to the whole experience, so why even pursue it?

>this is what it looks like when all the fat girls from my high school anime club finally start dating
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>>17112388
I never got to that point and I don't think I will since, as you said, no guy will ever accept my fantasies even though they're how I get myself off. If he's not excited at my fantasies, fine, but then I want time and space to masturbate so I can get to enjoy some pleasure too. It's not good if I do stuff for him and he doesn't even let me have my time for myself. I'd rather not feel forced to ditch a tried and sure method to give myself orgasms for someone who might do the job as well but he also might not.

Do men really have such frail egos that your partner masturbating to guys who don't exist makes you feel insecure?
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>>17112379
>le robots are smarter and more compassionate than filthy normies meme

Robots are trash and should stay on their own board.
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>>17112399
>Why are you dating someone who doesn't get you off?
I'm not. We weren't dating as in two people who already like each other going out, we were going out to see if we could like each other. Do you usually jump into a relationship with total strangers?

>You sound really indifferent to the whole experience, so why even pursue it?
Are you suggesting I do completely abandon the whole idea of finding someone right for me and just stick to the single life?
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>>17112405

>Do men really have such frail egos that your partner masturbating to guys who don't exist makes you feel insecure?

You're so mentally disturbed, you have no understanding of the human condition. This isn't a 'guys have frail egos' thing. This is about having a sexual connection to your partner, something you have absolutely no concept of.
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>>17112405
>no guy will ever (make me feel good)
>I want time and space to masturbate (when he fails me sexually)
You will never at any true intimacy with such a self-absorbed negative mindset. You refuse to even give real life a chance, so your loneliness is entirely self inflicted.
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>>17112418
>>17112420
I feel like we're going in circles. You want me to feel a sexual connection to someone for no reason, I tell you I can't find anyone I'd like to have a sexual connection with except in fiction and for some reason this seems to upset you. What do you want me to do, hurt myself pretending I like someone I don't like?
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>>17111686
>Then they should impress me. I'm not going to think about you during sex if you don't impress me.
Why are you getting into relationships with people who do not impress you?
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>>17112434

Just be asexual. Buy some blowup doll of sephiroth and attach a dildo to it. You fictionkin motherfucker
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>>17112434
>for no reason
>for no reason
>for no reason
Do you completely not understand the concept of love? I'm frustrated because your expectations are all over the fucking place. You came here to ask for advice on why you are alone. You are alone because you are incapable of feeling intimacy for a human being. You will not give people a chance. Maybe you should find a nice gay couple. They can fuck while you watch, and then the three of you can cuddle after.
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>>17111835
How is it retarded? Is it not retarded to deem every attractive and SEEMINGLY cool person your boyfriend or girlfriend? People date and get to know each other before entering serious relationships. I've only ever heard middle school and high school kids equate "dating" to "commitment"
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OP, imagine it this way. I envision your conversation about sex going like this:
He asks you "what turns you on?"
You reply "not you."
What do you expect the guy to do, if not walk away from an obvious bitch?
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>>17112405
You are either an excellent troll or an absolute retard.
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>>17112444
I'm not getting into relationships, none so far has passed the screening phase.

>>17112460
>not you
Woah, I never said that. My reply's always been "Yaoi, hentai and smut fanfiction of my faves."
I envy couples who can do cosplay sex. Lucky bastards.
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>>17112481
Are you retarded? No, seriously. I'm asking politely and legitimately.
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>>17112417

>Are you suggesting I do completely abandon the whole idea of finding someone right for me and just stick to the single life?

Yes, actually. If you're so emotionally underdeveloped that you can't understand why the majority of men wouldn't want to hear that they'll never satisfy you like goddamn Sephiroth can then you're not ready for any kind of relationship.

I'm embarrassed that we share a gender you unempathetic fucking troglodyte.
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>>17112481
You might not be using those words but those are entirely your intent. "You do not and will never turn me on because only Sephiroth fucking Cloud can" means that neither of you have anything to gain from a sexual relationship.
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>>17112452
I do give people a chance but they always fail. I just ask the bare minimum to respect my porn and my fantasies and my masturbation habits, but guys can't even do that. Even though they expect th girls to respect their porn and their masturbation habits and they get pissed if you don't want to indulge their fantasies.
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>>17112492
Dude that's what gets me off. Can't do a thing about it. Do you want me to lie?
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>>17112502
And how would you know about guys if you live in Toontown with Roger Rabbit?
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>>17112502
If I was with a guy that regularly fantasized about a 2D chick, I don't think I could be with them. Because it's 2D, if that's what they prefer, I'll never measure up.

In response to an earlier post, from my perspective, if my partner expected me to impress him to prevent him from fantasizing about fictional women, I wouldn't stay either. Sex shouldn't be about impressing each other, at least not in my mind. For me, it should be about making each other feel good and bonding with someone you care about. If you have sex with a dude but just fantasize that it's a fictional character fucking you instead, I feel like that's not really bonding with your partner.
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>>17112499
There might always be the possibilty someone might get me to feel something romantic for them, I dunno. I'm not going to feel anything for someone who doesn't accept my fantasies though. They're part of me as anything else.
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>>17112509
Screening phases.
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>>17112515
This is a future cat lady.
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>>17112518
Like the other dude said, you're dying alone. I hope you like cats.
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>>17111668
Are you that grill who cucks his bf with a vibrator?
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>>17112515
Your fantasies wouldn't be an issue if you weren't so dismissive of reality. Are you a virgin? The power of cock compel you.
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>>17112532
Nah, she doesn't have a bf. She's way tooooo crazy.
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>>17111668
It's ok op I did the same thing just my bf asks if he to dress up as my favorite husbandos, then I dress as his waifu. You need more adventurous men not sensitive ones.
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>>17112560
Straight sex doesn't turn her on. Haven't you been reading? She wants to dress up as Cloud, not her fuck buddy's waifu.
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>>17112569
Woah I never said anything like that. I'm not opposed to straight sex.
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>>17112775
No human male turns you on and you only get off to gay sex. Straight sex does not have any appeal to you - you are only pursuing it out of some feeling that you're expected to.
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>>17112775
You're a gay fictional male trapped in a woman's body
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>>17112792
I never said I ONLY get off to gay sex though. I fantasize about straight sex also, just a lot less. I don't make the female form the center of my fantasies because I'm not a lesbian.
I also never talked about having to dress up as anyone to enjoy sex. It'd be nice I'm sure but I don't want to force anyone into it. I'm just saying, I have these fantasies and I don't feel comfortable being with someone who doesn't accept them. Accepting them means letting me masturbate alone to them in peace, at the very least. I am one of those women who don't feel anything if they're not mentally into it and I've never met a guy who would get me into it. A few times I've felt like trying to maybe see if some guy and I could be compatible but we never got past the getting-to-know-each-other phase because I ended up nit liking like any of those I went out with so I didn't pursue a relationship. I am not willing to risk getting used for sex and not enjoying anything, and even if i did find someone who made me enjoy sex, my fantasies would stay. Masturbating to them feels good and I have no desire to stop.
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>>17111668
My wife cosplays for me cause she knows I like it. And in turn I'll either cosplay for her or fullfill something she wants. We'll usually take pictures of each other for later use and then have great sex. The guy you're talking about probably just didn't like the thought. You just need to find someone who does.
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