Should you really trust your gut, /adv/?
I have a feeling that my partner is lying to me consistently based on the fact that I have been lied to in many past relationships and am pretty good at picking it up by now, but it also might just be me being paranoid.
>>17109911
>I have been lied to in many past relationships
Why is that, anon?
>>17109917
I'm pretty naive and have been unlucky in the last ones (3) that i've had.
The first one was a compulsive liar and the last two cheated.
>>17109911
Are they doing something in particular to make you think this?
>>17109942
Small inconsistencies and slip-ups that are hastily covered up.
>>17109946
Like? Sometimes we will be paranoid and make something worse than what it is.
>>17109946
Like what? Sometimes our paranoia turns nothing into something huge.
Well you should trust your gut in situations where logic does no good. It takes time and wisdom to know which is best in what amount in any given situation.
What would your partner lie to you about?
>>17109946
I think it's fair to say that a liar is proven by huge inconsistencies, not small ones. Look for something significant and documented.
>>17109911
If you can't trust your partner implicitly, you shouldn't really be in a relationship, anon.
As someone whose past partners have lied to them, if you go looking for dishonesty, you'll find it. It may or may not actually exist, but anything and everything starts to seem like lies when you're in the mindset of catching them in a lie. This current person is not your ex.
How'd you know the people in your past relationships were lying?
