Hello /adv/, what should I do?
So here goes the story. I'm 19, a guy and I've never had sex.
What's so bad about it? That I'm constantly reminded about it by my "friends", every argument ends with "At least I've had sex." or "You're still a virgin." Everyone who knows I'm a virgin constantly mentions it. My "friends" pressure me into getting a paid escort, which I don't want to do because of moral reasons.
I don't even know when it became such a problem. I didn't care at first but as the years passed I was left the only virgin and now it's just constantly being hammered into my head. A day doesn't go by where I don't get mocked.
It's not like I don't want to have sex, but I've became so afraid of rejection that I can't get my stupid brain to realize that if I don't try I won't succeed.
So my question is, is it my fault? Are my so called friends at fault? How should I overcome my fear of rejection and/or humiliation?
>>17108040
This is the only advice you need to hear: change friends.
I was virgin until 22, am now 26 and have no difficulty getting laid anymore.
You need to stop caring and have friends who motivate you to work on yourself.
change friends
>>17108040
It's hard to lose your virginity if everyone knows you are a virgin I guess.
Your sexuality is your business.
I'd try to slowly move away from your old friends and make new friends that don't know/ don't give a fuck about that sort of thing.
Girl friends are good too.
>>17108089
When I say girl friends I don't mean girlfriends btw.
A good girl friend is a good way to find a girl to fuck.
>>17108040
People that rip on others for being a 'virgin' are the type of people who give way to many shits about sex and they are toxic people to have around in your life. They are obviously fucking with you and your self-esteem so there's no point having them around for much longer, get these people out of your life but don't do it in a harsh negative way because that shit will come back and bite you in the ass. I'm sure you have other people in your life you can hang out with that do not bag you out for being a virgin hang with them, meet their friends and meet their friends' friends. You're gonna get laid don't worry about it and trust me when you do you're just gonna wonder to yourself "Is that it?"
>>17108040
Lie.
You do realize that they are all lying about their sex lives - or at least wildly exaggerating - don't you?
All guys lie about their sex lives. It's part of the male bonding code.
So invent a story about a girl you met on vacation and had a wild one night stand with and will probably never see again.
