How do I accept the fact that attraction for girls is literally all social status and looks? It's depressing to know they don't love or care about someone as an individual like men do.
>>17104108
You don't accept it because it's not true.
Who hurt you?
That's not true. Personality, attitude and skills are also important, a lot more important than looks. Social status is still the most important one though, just do something with your life, how hard can it be?
>>17104122
>social status is important
Sheep speak.
>>17104111
>>17104120
It actually is very true generally speaking for most women to find that to be the most important factor for seeking out a mate.
Why do people get so offended when people say that? I don't know about OP but I don't hate women and I haven't been hurt in ages. I'm actually fairly indifferent about this kind of stuff. Heck I actually have a few female friends I hang out with and converse with from time to time. I honestly just treat the the exact same as I treat the men in my life.
I don't get people getting so but hurt she when people make a statement about how they generally perceive women to behave. You all are kind of acting silly.
>>17104124
In my experience girls are a lot more attracted to rich people, people with a lot of friends, people with good jobs and people who are appreciated by others.
Everybody I talked to who interacted with the opposite sex enough to form an opinion based on real life rather than movies, tv shows, articles etc confirmed this.
Every well-researched book on social interactions, psychology or attraction that I have read confirmed this.
You are a child who doesn't know what he's talking about. Go out and talk to someone or pick up a book instead of offering "advice" on this board and contradicting me with memes.
>>17104131
Because its an over-generalization.
It implies that all women are incapable of thinking for themselves. Sure, most women are, but not all of them.
>>17104136
Why should anyone care about what what others think of them?
>>17104108
>care about someone as an individual like men do
Don't make me laugh. Men never did and never will care for women as "individuals" when to comes to attraction.
Their attraction is 100% lust for beauty and youth.
I never met a single man who wouldn't see beauty above all else when it comes to women.
>>17104139
Because we are social creatures. We have a need to communicate with and be accepted by other people. We live a comfortable lifestyle because we work together and we benefits from each others efforts. We thrive because of our peers. Our quality of life is determined by how others perceive us, if everybody thinks we're smart, skilled and nice then we will have a lot more opportunities, a lot more friends, a lot more people who are willing to help us in different ways. Overall, your life will be better. If everybody thinks you're a dumb, incompetent asshole then you will be shunned and marginalized. You will fail at your job, you will have no friends, you will find no help from anyone. Your life will be hard, empty and unsatisfying.
>>17104149
>Your life will be hard, empty and unsatisfying.
Harder, yes.
Empty and unsatisfying, that's debatable.
>>17104141
t. broken /soc/ camwhore
>>17104158
nice assumption. Sad you don't actually have anything to say against my point.
>>17104164
besides that its another over generalization?
no, beyond that, its a solid point.
>>17104137
>Sure, most women are, but not all of them.
As you said in your post that doesn't change anything. Whats wrong with generalizing?
Also forgot to add, to answer OP kind of for his question.
We are just different. We actually are here today because of the different mating strategies that men and women have. Sure society has changed alot but the human psyche is pretty much the same ad it was from antiquity. Is it right for this day and age? Probably not, but get over it. Stop chasing pussy if you don't like it. You'll be alot happier.
>>17104153
You can't live a happy life without friends or at least acquaintances you can socialize with. Well, most people can't.
It's in our nature to crave connection with others and acceptance, but there are a few people who don't need it. That's pretty much a disorder though and it's quite rare. The vast majority, almost all of us need other people to like us.
>>17104170
>independence is a disorder
You enjoy your life as a slave while free men take all you've abandoned for the sake of social status.
>>17104120
>>17104111
>>17104122
it's true, why do people always try to dispute this? women DO NOT love like men do.
>>17104108
dude looks matter for everyone
im a guy that used to be out of shape, noone gives a fuck about you until you look good
>>17104188
Well men do tend to put alot more in relationships for the most part, but we only honestly "love" women just for access to there vag.
>>17104173
It's not independence that's a disorder, don't put words in my mouth. It's the lack of need for social interaction and inclusion, I thought I was pretty clear on that.
And while we're on the subject, try living alone with no help from anyone you fucking self-centered manchild. Hunt or farm for your food. Build your own house with materials as you find them in nature. Build your own tools. Take care of yourself when you're sick without medicine made by others. The list goes on. That's what it means to be fully independent, it's simply not efficient.
And how exactly am I a slave for striving to have a good social status? What do I loose because of it? You do realize that the people with the highest social status are those who have their own businesses, who live off investments or who have decision-making jobs. They are the most independent people in our society, not jobless hippies who are supported by relatives or government.
Grow up
Fucking redpillers. Keep the cancer in the containment boards, creep.
>>17104219
What exactly in this thread is redpilling or cancer?
>>17104219
>get out of my safe space
>>17104199
>completely misses the point
>>17104230
No, I didn't miss the point. If I did you would've just told me exactly what that point was, you wouldn't have missed the opportunity to show me how dumb I am. You just couldn't form an argument, but felt the impulse to reply so you wrote that pointless post.
Grow up
>>17104236
>If I did you would've just told me exactly what that point was.
Why would I bother hand-holding someone who can't for a moment examine a critical perspective?
>>17104108
You just do, complaining about here isn't going to change that fact.
>>17104243
Why would you bother replying at all then?
Fuck off already mate, it's obvious that you have no argument but are too stubborn to admit it and decide to yell instead "you're too stupid to understand what I'm saying".
>>17104251
>Why would you bother replying at all then?
I visit 4chan for the same reasons as you...
>>17104253
To pretend at socializing and fill the emptiness created by lack of private life, childhood abuses and crippling depression? Ok, but how does that answer the question?
>>17104131
maybe because some of the people who reply are women so they have actual personal experience unlike what you just pulled out of your asshole
>>17104111
Women always want something from you they are not going to date you unless she is gaining something like status from dating you or being provided for.
>>17104124
That is why women don't like singers or movie stars right because they dont care about the status it will give them.
>>17104124
>I'm wiser than the rest of you sheeple!
>>17104108
You'll accept it once you start using it to your advantage.
>>17104108
OP, you're upset because the specific girls you're choosing aren't choosing you back. You're engaging in the exact same behavior you accuse them of, because you're not going after girls you see as less attractive or desirable.
Ironically, girls can smell that shit a mile away, and the stink of that bs will lose you more interest than will your average face or your average life.
>>17104108
Not true lel
I got dem big oll titties even though I was a social outcast and a dork just because I was kind of tall and had dem latin good looks.
Here is a pro tip M8
You ready?
Stop being ugly
>>17104136
Men like this as well you goober>>17104136
My sister does not give a single fuck about social status and looks. Her boyfriends are mostly just intelligent nerds who are science majors (she is an intelligent nerd / science major as well as a woman whose hobbies include cosmetology.).
This weird idea that 4chan has that all women like the same thing is just bullshit for immature individuals who don't yet realize that women are people too.
>>17105714
>My sister does not give a single fuck about social status and looks. Her boyfriends are mostly just intelligent nerds who are science majors (she is an intelligent nerd / science major as well as a woman whose hobbies include cosmetology.).
So she is ugly?
I wonder how long it's going to take for these threads to become a bannable offense. There is never any quality discussion that happens here.
>>17104224
>get out of my safe space
Your safe space is /r9k/, and one board is more than creeps like you deserve. Go back where you came from, or grow the fuck up.