Tl;dr there's this qt 3.14 that has sucked me off, gave me a handjob, been talking for a few months now and it was all awesome, but I am still unsure about her since I think she still has feelings for her ex.
I don't know if she wants to be my GF or FWB ( which there's no fucking way im going for it ) since I have feelings for her but I said fuck it to myself and will ask her asap when I go to her place because I need a Yes or a No, I can't feel this anxiety about her anymore.
If i get rejected what the fuck do I say and how do I leave to not make it awkward or pathetic? Don't want every girl in my city then talking about how I fucked up.
And any tips in general about asking her, I got an idea, but any small tips appreciated.
no one?
>>17104060
background info
how many times do you see eachother what do you do etc?
>>17104060
this girl is a literal whore.
For your own good find someone else.
Not much you can do but play it cool really and act like you didn't care that much about her answer, wait till you get home to cry lol
Literally just went through this a few weeks ago
>>17104749
19 yo, 1 bf and sex partner besides me.. not sure how she is a whore.
>>17105121
do you really believe you are the only one that receives random bjs and hjs from her?
>>17105121
Not that guy but let me explain... Sucks dicks off, gives handjobs to guys she talks to for a few months. Doesnt seem like quality gf from the get go here. You still think she has feelings for EX aswell?? Jeez man, also "every girl in city talking about me?" grow some balls, suprised she sucked your dick with that kind of beta attitude, well unless she's a whore which information is leaning towards.
Regardless of this, if you want to date her, ask her out and if she accepts good for you and if you get rejected move on. Simple as that.
>>17105141
True.
Is asking through text too Beta? since I don't know when I'll see her and I need a simple yes/no asap, tired of this shit
>>17104749
I don't see how this girl is any more of a whore than OP. Having sex outside of a relationship is super common now for both genders.
It's not like shes making pornos in a backally with half of the college
>>17105282
Asking Via text is a little Beta. But fuck it who cares?
If she likes you she'll be happy that you two are an item. If she doesn't like you/doesn't want to be an item its better to know sooner rather than later so you can move on and cut all emotional ties.
In person would be better, but will you handle rejection well? And if you don't know when you'll next see her don't wait around forever
>>17105282
When you ask a girl out, you NEVER do it through text, it shows laziness and weakness which is not attractive.
The direct way, hangout with her ( just you two ), somewhere where theres not other people around ( a park, your house etc), then you flirt with her (this is a must. After she responds positively to your flirting say how you think she's got a cool personality and if you she wants to be your girlfriend.
>>17105309
If a girl is on her period is it a red flag to wait ?
And I think I'll just ask when I go to her place to watch Game of Thrones ( if she wants to this week havent seen it yet myself ), fuck texting just thought about it myself and that would be lame
>>17105309
Thought so as well when I thought about it.. fuck texting in general, I hate that shit, but I am just growing tired of this "not being sure" thing. The sooner I know the faster I'll be happy/recover.
I think I'll just ask her if I go to her place to watch Game of Thrones this week ( if she wants to havent seen it myself yet ), just laying down in bed after the episode, some touching cuddling flirting and then I'll just pop the question, is it a good idea?
>>17105337
Perfect time to ask, when you're at her place and after you finish the episode ( don't be a cuck and interupt game of thrones episode ).
No it's not a red flag, seriously dude? Don't get duped by the media's portrayed of women being on their peroid. They can be bitchy on and off their once a month and if they're in pain(extra moody) they won't want to hangout with you anyway. Are you going to let her boss you around because "she's on her peroid"?
>>17105341
Yeah that sounds like a good idea, after the episode and flirting ask it, i see no problem in this.
