Hi /adv/
normally I don't have a problem getting a boner and whacking one out but whenever I'm with my girlfriend I get too nervous to get it up. I can get hard while my pants are still on but as soon as they're off the panic sets in and I get soft quite quickly. I can easily get hard alone but I've had an extremely low libido for the last few months, so I've barely wanted to fap anyway.
I'm starting to worry her patience will run out soon and she'll find a guy whose dick actually works. anybody know how to deal with this? without drugs preferably
Did you try getting hard in another room and then charging in and jamming it in before it can go soft?
>>17103938
Ugly as fuck girls a dick wont be getting hard for
>>17103938
Try not whacking one out for a couple days before you get her alone. Guaranteed to stay hard if you haven't came in a couple days. Focus on your breathing, it will keep you relaxed and distract you from the task at hand. Good luck.
>>17103944
Can you imagine if someone actually did this? "ok, are you lying back on the bed? Really ready this time?? OK, here I come!!!!"
>>17103938
stop watching porn and jerking off
Same shit here man, I dont know whats going on, it was my first time as well and in worried its gonna happen the next time we meet as well, if you find out how to solve this shit tell me, ita fuckingg degrading, im only 21 years old.
Maybe you prefer dudes
>>17105439
op here, I'm 22. drives me fucking nuts. it's been getting progressively better. at first I stayed soft even fully clothed so I figure it's just going to take some getting used to. it's taking a toll on her self esteem and upsets her though which is my main concern.
>>17103938
Easy solution. Get chill. Stay cool. Make yourself not stressed. How to do that?
You simply get rid of though that sex is super important action which you must never mess up. It is same as being nervous about eating breakfast. What worst can happen?
>You will bite off glass,
>get bleeding from mouth,
>spill milk all over room,
>your brother will post it on youtube, insta 1M views+
And? You survived. You can try better next time.
Same with sex. If you mess up, you have another try next time. Just don't think about it hard. Lay next to your sexy girl, ask her what she likes, how wet can she get, just play around with her body or if you feel lazy make HER to play with yours until you can't contain yourself any more.
We live in a era where sex is put on pedestal like something you have to start doing asap, make it without any fails and the best way every time. And that is just stupid, you can't make 100% breakfasts without any fails.
