Hi /adv/, I'm the worst at giving blow jobs. My longtime bf's ex was a fatty who could deep throat and I literally don't know what to do, and he's too frustrated to teach me. I can get it wet and act like I need it but do I literally suck on it or treat it like a face fuck? Porn is good for the external show but I have no idea what I'm doing once it's in my mouth. It's pretty pitiful and I'd like to just git gud. I feel like I'm the only person missing the program here. Any tips or help on what the fuck to do with my mouth/lips would be great, trying to suck a d well this week.
>>17103477
male or female ?
>>17103477
>ex was a fatty
>you have to live with the reality that he is imagining her while doing anything sexual with you
>you're losing to a fatty because you fail at the most basic of sex mechanics
Hahaha oh wow, I hope you have a good career planned out, because life is going to be hard for you.
>>17103479
both, obviously
>>17103482
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>>17103477
You aren't really just sucking on it- I run my tongue up and down his cock while its in my mouth, firmly trace circles up the shaft, and running my tongue along the bottom of the head of his cock. You'll figure out pretty easily what he likes once you start trying out new things.
I honestly recommend taking it slow until you want him to cum. Be confident and just do whatever you think would be enjoyable. It's fun to torture them with it. If you enjoy deepthroating, it isn't bad to learn. I cum handsfree from it now.
Also, your boyfriend sounds like a douchebag. :^)
Suck on it like it is nobody elses business
>>17103477
I'll tell you about BJs if you tell me how to eat pussy. Here it is:
eye contact is essential. no hands whenever possible is super hot. lick and suck the balls as well. You want to get a bit of saliva going and if it gets into a messy drool type situation that's also kind of hot. You want to mix up up a little with BJs. like start with the straight on head bob type thing... then using the lips on the side up and down the shaft... then back to the head bob and maybe trying to take as much as you can and hold it... then using the tongue all up and down all over to lick up the drool... then come down to the balls and get them nice and wet. Obviously stick with one of those longer if he seems to be really into it and move on the others from time to time but keep coming back to the one he loves as a kind of tease and reward thing. And remember to keep that eye contact. Firstly you can tell what he's liking and secondly it kind of makes the guy feel like you are his private fuck toy. make use of the lips more than tongue most of the time but what is hot to me at least is when a girl is taking it deep and she puts her tongue out while she is doing it.
Anyway I hope that helps.
>>17103477
IMO, as long as you aren't getting your teeth in there, blowjobs are more about enthusiasm than technique.
>>17103508
Actually, this is helpful. I think my self-spectating while trying to is making me shitty. I will suck that thing hard next time, because this is between me and that hard d.
Thanks!
