Women during sex
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Hello, /adv/.
I'm a 22yo virgin girl. It's not much of an issue, since I don't actively search for a relationship or look for intimacy.
But I've always been curious about what it's necessary to do to enjoy sex. What turns on a guy? What is a girl supposed to do during sex? It would be nice to read some experiences.
I don't really want to be a starfish if my first time ever comes.
>>17100832
Guys like to know that you're enjoying their efforts, so moans, compliments, body movement in rhythm with theirs, those things are all nice.
Inexperienced guys will be ragingly insecure and will be watching closer for affirmation from you of their sexual prowess.
>What turns on a guy?
Literally most things.
>What is a girl supposed to do during sex?
Be there.
It sounds like you should make your first time with a more experienced guy who knows what he's doing and can teach you.
Everyone is different, but there are some common themes, everyone likes to feel appreciated and special.
What sort of experiences are you interested in hearing about?
>>17100832
Watch softcore porn and you'll get a pretty good idea.
>>17100832
I've been with a lot of women, and the ones that are clearly "trying to be sexy" aren't the favorites. 2 that i remember the most, and keep me awake late at night thinking about years later, were different. one was just so demure, the "librarian" type, shy about getting completely naked, didn't sext too much etc. but man.. when you got her going.. its like she literally NEEDED my dick, she made these soft little moans and hums, very enthusiastic about oral and doggy, would play with her tits, would grab my back and pull me into her the speed/motion she wanted..
damn i'm getting hard just talking about her, I'm going to have to look her up
>>17100832
Find sexual things that you like. The more things that you like and the more you like them, the sexier you will be.
Well, it's official. I'm old and out of date I guess.
My advice is to be with someone you're truly passionate about- your desire to please and be pleased will go a long way towards learning quickly the ins and outs (so to speak) of maximizing the pleasure for you both.
It truly doesn't hurt to be with someone more experienced, and being with someone equally inexperienced works, too, if you like to laugh and enjoy learning by both your mistakes.
You'll be fine. Don't be a starfish, and don't be a porn actress. Be open and interested in learning, and prepared to have a great time, despite any fumbling and awkwardness. You'll be fine.
>>17100832
honestly its really great when a woman has a decent clue of what she likes/feels good. so get a vibe, use it, figure yourself out a little.
then when doing it w/ a guy, feedback is all that is needed. if it feels great, don't keep it a secret. if you want some little adjustment don't keep that a secret. if the perfect motion, angle, etc is achieved? pls say "just like that".
if you are not too afraid to give feedback, all the other good stuff will sort of just happen naturally and you'll end up doing whatever your sexy happy sex responses happen to be. which is a lot better than faking them when you don't have the exp to be good at faking shit.
>>17100855
First experiences or the best sex that you ever had. I want to know what did the girl do to make it a good experience overall. Even though is a motion of two.
>>17100872
It's not a thing about trying to be sexy, more about giving and receiving pleasure. Sometimes it's a bother for me to explore my body, but I'll get on the task.
>>17100895
>>17100899
I appreciate both advices. Thank you both for taking your time
