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Same situation, considering suicide. But whenever I wanna do it I feel more alive and want to explore the world and do crazy shit.

My advice is not to worry, because it's only gonna get harder!

>>17099301
Don't kill yourself please.

>>17099301
Op I hope you didn't read this guy
>taking advice from someone currently suicidal

Attempted suicide myself a while ago, so I feel like I have a little ground to speak on. Why the fuck would you say it gets harder? You're at your lowest point, brother. no worries.

My advice to you and to OP:

If srsly having problems with suicide/depression, try to get yourself out of bed for long enough to see a therapist. If you're in college there's usually university therapists for free, or if you can't find one, just tell someone you think would somewhat understand (mom or something). It'll make the situation real, and you'll finally be able to do something about it. You're fighting a fight you don't know is happening, my man. Telling someone makes it real, and you can fight back, sorta. If that makes sense.

otherwise, take time for yourself. Getting with a girl is great, but it doesn't really change your life. For the most part, you still wake up with the same problems every day. Sounds cliché on 4chin, but seriously try to stop doing things like watching porn, try to eat right, get a morning routine, keep exercising, etc.

I know sometimes it's super shitty to hear people tell you what to do when you're not doing so hot. It's totally up to you, make these decisions yours. But u got dis brothers

>>17099217

you already made a thread like this asking why she mislead you by going to prom with you. that being said, if you 'dont think your ugly' then post a picture. worse case scenario you get soem advice on how to look better.

for the social stuff, here comes:

>dont just hit on a woman

its no secret that women are the ones who are approached, and they make decisions on which men to keep in their lives. that being said, desperately drooling over each and every girl as if they are a potential love interest is silly.

give yourself more value by not letting a woman sway you on first impressions alone. before you ever begin to say anything remotely flirtatious, talk to the girl. see what she actually acts like when you interact with her. have a normal conversation. if there isnt anything special there beyond her looks, friendzone her. or simply stop talking to her. you do not need to hit on each and every girl that looks good enough to be your partner.

doing this gives you more value, and the psychological effects are great. in addition, women will take you more seriously. instead of being 1 of 500 men in new york who went straight for the kill, you took the time to get to know them. whether it goes anywhere or not, this approach also just gives you practice talking to girls in a casual context. its less pressure than trying to impress them.

>>17099217
>Sick and tired of being lonely, relationship wise, while all my friends have nice girlfriends.
Many of us know that feel.
>I feel like there's nobody out there for me.
Maybe there is, maybe there isn't. None of us can be sure. We can't see the future. Maybe we'll meet the girl of our dreams tomorrow, maybe we'll die without ever catching a glimpse.
Just gotta keep trying and be patient. We might get lucky.

>>17099301
>considering suicide. But whenever I wanna do it I feel more alive and want to explore the world and do crazy shit.
Then you should absolutely not commit suicide. There's no reason to even consider it in your case.

>>17099455

This is the way to get a relationship, not just pussy.

>>17099675
I dunno how to talk to girls, it usually just gets super awkward