>go out with girl two weeks ago
>after that we studied together for 8+ hours twice
>today I text her "hey beautiful with a smiley"
>she says I don't think you should call me that we only went out once
What did I do wrong?
You got rekt
You put her on a pedestal, that's what.
>>17098091
The only thing you did wrong is think like a male.
A male will see a date and hanging out with a female as a potential romantic partner.
A female sees this as sizing someone up and putting them on the back burner unless he meets ALL her criteria.
>>17098095
>>17098096
Damn
>>17098103
So what should I text her now? I'm confused
You should start calling her ugly, instead
>>17098095
/thread
>>17098122
See if she wants to go on another date and go from there. Don't be a pushover though.
>>17098142
I don't even know what to text her
>>17098197
Text her 'what if we went out twice?'
>>17098200
That's actually not bad, what about this "didn't know calling someone beautiful is third base"
>>17098279
No, sounds like you're getting upset/bitchy.
Instead go with
>Alright, so let's go out again and see how you feel about it then.
>>17098286
The thing is we've already spent a lot of time together, I was thinking calling her beautiful was ok
>>17098200
Say this! It's more like banter.
>>17098324
With a smiley or no?
>>17098091
Guys I'm thinking I would send this: "I see. I thought we had a good thing going." Yay or nay?
>>17098200
Absolutely this. She might think it's funny if she's into you.
Could just be testing you to find out if you're beta or not. I suggest assuming she's into you and make jokes out of it.
>>17098423
What? No, that would be idiotic.
Say, "so let's go out twice, then"
"then let's go out a second time ;)"
>>17098423
Literally fucking no. Make a joke
Your proposed response makes you sound like a pussy who got disappointed because some girl was kind of mean to him.
>>17098200
Say this.
>>17098433
>>17098434
I'm kinda hurt you guys, because I don't wanna be a beta and joke about it
>>17098442
You'll be a beta by taking it seriously lmao, you know nothing about women
>>17098091
>Type in /a/ in URL bar
>Browser goes to /adv/ instead
>Think this post is some new meta kind of shitposting
Anyway I would respond with some shit like
"Oh right, I meant hey ugly :)"
>>17098442
>>17098446
Seriously man, she's just trying to give you shit.
She wants to force you into a position where you become emotionally dependent on her responding to your texts, or wtf ever.
Don't become her natural satellite man.
Early on in a relationship, it's important for whoever you're talking to to get the sensation that you have other options.
Acting all disappointed and sad "because you thought you had something good going" is the opposite of this.
>>17098462
I get what you're saying,but her text this time has no emoji or smiley with perfect punctuation like it's serious. I dunno why I think if I joked around I would look weak and like I have no other options
>>17098479
Every text you've suggested and countered with has been awful and will make things worse. Only pepe could save you
>>17098479
When you act like this in a relationship it basically shows that you put them on a pedestal. Don't do that. It ends in being a weak vulnerable codependent whipped little bitch.
tl:dr
Treat her like you would your m8s. That's what you should be with each other anyway.
>>17098500
>>17098511
I have IRL I actually treat her like a friend and she likes it (but with more touching and hugging), but she's weird in text. Like usually we joke around and stuff while texting, but this one felt like "stop, I don't actually feel that way" I mean what the hell.
