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So I'm engaged to to a man I love with all my heart. He's sweet, funny, caring, and handsome. But sometimes sex really hurts because he's circumcised. I know this to be at fault because I've had sex with one other person that was uncut and it never hurt.

It basically starts out fine but then gets very abrasive and hurts no matter how much lube we use. He basically pounds me raw and it takes him a lot of time to cum. He's also said erections sometimes hurt.
I love him and the intimacy I share with him but I just wish it wasn't painful. I honestly feel such anger at his parents sometimes for choosing to cut him without even thinking about it.

My question is, how beneficial is foreskin restoration? Has the damage already been done? Is there any way to make it less painful? Should I tell him it hurts me? I don't want him to feel self conscious or embarrassed.
I just want to stop avoiding sex due to the pain.
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Yes tell him it hurts. Those damn circumsized mutants
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>>17095691
It's not his fault, it's his stupid parent's :( we both agreed that if we have a son someday he will not be cut and break their family tradition. They're not even Jewish, it's so retarded.
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>>17095680
>foreskin restoration
Is that a thing that actually exists? Jesus Christ.

Anyway mutilating his penis further probably isn't the answer. Yes talk to him about it. I don't see how lube doesn't help. Maybe try better lube.
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>>17095694
It pisses me off when people think circumcision is some big Christian thing. Christians didn't start doing it in any real numbers until the 19th century, and that was largely to discourage masturbation. People used to see circumcision as some weird thing which Jews and Muslims did.
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>>17095711
Who sees circumcision as some big Christian thing? I thought most people recognised it was a Jew thing and an America thing (since all your doctors are Jews).
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>>17095680
0/10 bait
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>>17095716
I wish it were. I really do.
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>>17095711
Yeah his parents are honestly idiots and probably just did it cause his dad was cut or some Jew doctor told them to.
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>>17095691
How do I tell him without hurting his ego though..?
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>>17095730
There's no way to tell him without hurting his ego. You just have to hurt his ego a little. It's okay. He'll survive so long as you don't act like a cunt about it, and judging by this thread you won't. Just be open and honest about it and it should turn out fine.
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>>17095734
I'd never want to do anything to hurt his feelings, I love him dearly, I'm just afraid he'll feel like his penis isn't good enough. I wish his parents never mutilated him so I wouldn't have to have this conversation with him... Part of me wants to yell at them for causing both of us pain.
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>>17095714
Americans do, and probably only Americans. Though I guess misguided religious reasons annoy me less than totally unjustified 'health benefits'.
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>>17095680
It's not his dick, it's the fact that he's doing it for too long at a time. Are you guys doing it, straight pounding, for more than 15-20 minutes at a time? Because the average is around ten minutes, but that doesn't include intimacy and buildup, foreplay, etc.

The pussy has very sensitive flesh and pounding it for too long is going to bruise it and make it swollen. You may also be relating the other instance ,with the guy who had foreskin, because often times men with foreskin cum quicker. Their dick is covered most of the time, so they are not as de-sensitized.

You're man needs to fap less so his sensitivity comes back a bit (if he is fapping too much, Idk), and you guys need more foreplay-him especially.

I have this same problem OP, and trust me, it's not a lube problem, it's the fact that your pussy is not meant to be pounded continuously for so fucking long. It needs breaks and preferably for you to cum at least once between said breaks to relieve you a bit.

We fixed our sex largely through more foreplay, getting toys for both of us so we can both take breaks and work on each other while still being intimate (talking, caressing, etc.), and communication. I tell him now when it's starting to hurt and he slows down, or we change positions, or we stop to put on some porn or something.
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>>17095680
Bait
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>>17095680
Why is there a dick pic on worksafe board???
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>>17095680
You're an idiot to assume it's his cut penis, one variable changes and you blame the only thing you see. It doesn't even make sense, I've had sex plenty of times with my cut penis and my wife has never had a problem keeping wet, even for hours sometimes. You probably aren't as attracted to him. Get off your high horse.
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