What's the statute of limitations on asking a girl out after your friend has been turned down by a girl he was into?
Context: My friend was into this girl he was sure was into him, but he was afraid to ask her out so I kept pushing him to be more brave (because I want him to be happy. Eventually he did and got turned down. I think she was more into me but I never did anything about it. I was thinking two months. Is that too short? I just don't want to be a dick to my buddy.
Ask him first.
>I just don't want to be a dick to my buddy.
Then don't. Are you fucking stupid or something?
As soon as a buddy is interested in a girl, you put her in the NOPE pile. Learn to be a decent human being. Forget the ho and get someone your mate isn't interested in or hurt by.
>>17094868
I figured I would ask him first before I did anything, which is why I'm asking how long I should wait. I definitely would not do anything without asking him first.
>>17094851
Not worth it OP, 2 months is way to short...I'd think more like 2 years or maybe a year honestly...and I'd still ask depending on the friend....even then still not worth it depending on how into her he was.
Friends mean way more than girls.
>>17094874
>As soon as a buddy is interested in a girl, you put her in the NOPE pile.
That's complete bullshit. It's not like they fucking dated.
>>17094905
This is why you people have issues in the real world. You don't understand basic things.
>>17094905
He still had feelings for her, only 2 months ago man. He still has feelings for her, and if you did this that would be a complete slap in the face and definite end to your friendship lol.
>>17094851
depends how into her he was. essentially if you want to do right by your friend, even if it means never being with the girl, then you gotta not be with her.
>>17094905
depends how into her he was. even if he was immature and got way more invested than he should have, its still his feelings at stake. you gotta decide, whats more important: his feelings or you dating this chick.
even when you dont have feelings for a girl anymore, it hurts a lot knowing she turns you down and gets with your best friend