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Stay or cut contact?
2016-04-30 21:19:30 Post No. 17093638
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Stay or cut contact?
Anonymous
2016-04-30 21:19:30
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There's a guy in my class who I recently got to know, we've been 'seeing' each other for a few weeks. We haven't said anything like we like each other but we have hooked up, we flirt but we don't act romantic like going on proper dates. We tend to keep it casual like just going out to eat together then maybe studying together in the library, things like that. We don't act couple-y, as in we don't hold hands or hug goodbye or something like that.
We have both broken up with our exes a few months ago. I broke up with mine in January whereas he broke up with his in December. However they broke up because the girl had to move overseas whereas I broke up because my ex and I were fighting too much. I am over my ex and don't have photos of him on social media nor do I talk to him.
This guy claims that he doesn't miss his ex and he hardly ever mentions her, when he does it's to say something kinda bad. We started getting closer these days, like we'll talk for a long time on the phone and he still wants to hang out even if I don't want to hook up. If we're in the library and I say I wanna leave because I'm tired he starts whining and forces me to stay.
Then a couple days ago I saw he posted his ex's photo on his instagram saying "your smile is the cure to everything", ... I don't know what to make of this. I feel angry inside, but at the same time I'm like "why am I angry? we are not a proper couple or anything, he probably just thinks we are hook up buddies". But I don't like the feeling, like if we're talking for hours together but I know he's missing his ex the whole time..
What should I do ? I haven't really been in this situation before,