She works overseas and plans to be there a total of about 5 months. She works in fashion with a group of models (male/female). Regularly she and a group of models (including males) goes to night clubs. She gets paid to be there and gets free drinks. She essays they're boring so she gets drunk to pass the time. They go for about 5 hours staying out until 3am.
We've been dating for about 8 months, 2 months long distance.
She pretty much knows she has nothing to worry about with me getting a gf or cheating but she's hot and every guy would want her.
I haven't complained about it cause she says she needs money and this is one way to close the gap. How do I trust her?
It fucking sucks not knowing what's she doing. I might few passport and go visit her
>>17092968
post your gf to prove any of this is worth reading
if you're suspecting that she is fucking guys from clubs why not just hire a private detective to spy on her? there is service like this available everywhere
>>17093026
Not OP
But this sounds like a fun beginning to quite the story desu senpai
>>17092968
>Overseas
>Going to clubs
Leave now, it's only a matter of time before she cheats on you and blames it on the alcohol...then keeps doing it time after time.
Women always take overseas and clubs as free passes to be whores.
Save your dignity and the heartache and leave before it's too late.
Don't cuck yourself.
>>17092968
Cheat on her preemptively. Get a Tinder. You won't feel so bad when you find out she cheated on you
>>17093054
"I'm breaking up with you for going to clubs and getting drunk in foreign country, fuck you whore!"
I hate clubs and shit, but this just sounds insecure as fuck. Also I probably wouldn't have dated a girl who goes there so I don't really know how I'd feel in anons shoes though.
>>17093066
Op here, this seems like a reasonable response. Thank you. I do t see her throwing the relationship away as I help hrr rent her house out while she's away.
I'll trust her until I have reasons not to. I am being insecure
>>17092968
Why have serious relationships? They sound like alot of stress honestly, but yeah just break up with her and learn from this experience I guess.
I've been single for 6 years now and honestly aside from my time as a teenager, its been the least stressful time of my adult life (I am in my 30s mind you.)
Also you can still manage to date and the like with out getting coerced into a relationship, just don't bring up relationships with women you talk to and if they do bring it up just be honest with them or even tell them that you would like to take your time before that or whatever.
Be careful though alot of women but not all will try to manipulate you into a relationship with them at that point i would say bail.
Good luck friend, you will get over her soon within the next year or probably sooner.
Best of luck to you.
I work in the fashion industry too
I wouldn't date a girl in the fashion industry
That's all I have to add
