Hey, /adv/ I think I fucked up. I have girlfriend of 7 months and for the last week, we think she`s pregnant. Period is irregular and late for like 4 days already and yesterday she had nausea and for the last week she feels tired, but maybe that`s, because it is deadlines in uni. Idk, what to do /adv/, I love her, she loves me, but sometimes she says that shes not sure if she wants to spend her rest of life with me. Her mom wouldnt let to do abort and we are pretty young Im 21 and shes 19. That should I do ? Sorry for all this nonsense, but Im stressed, maybe I will rewrite everything if its confusing
>>17092030
1) have her piss on a strip
2) congratulations!
Seriously, tho, sit down and talk with her about it.
My advice is that if you can help her have her baby, you should, and you should want to do that because it's your feckin' kid too, man.
If you can help her have it and find a nice family desperate to have kids who will adopt it, you should, and you'll feel better because you did the right thing.
>got a friend who is a 10/10 human bean desperate to have babies, can't, is having to fork over 20k to adopt IN THE COUNTRY, but she and he husband are working her ass off to do it
I seriously hope you been using birth control?
If you did it correctly, it's a very low chance.
Wait two more days, then if she doesn't get her period, get a pregnancy test. Hopefully, it's just a scare. If it isn't, well, you need to talk to her and decide what you want to do
>>17092934
We were using only condoms and it didnt brake or anything
>wouldnt allow her to have an abortion
you're 19 and 21... either way you're "allowed" to get an abortion
I'm 21 and have had an abortion. One of the easiest and best decisions of my life. I wasn't ready to have a kid, and I realized that, so I let the little clump of cells go before it ruined my life and I ruined it's life. Much better to abort than to give a real, live, child with a consciousness a shitty life.
>>17093479
Her mom and my mom wouldnt let abortion to happen. Gfs mother is very religious so it is not an option
>>17092030
Well the very first thing you need to do is go and buy a pregnancy test. The ones you get from the shop are exactly the same as the ones that doctors use, they just come with a plastic handle and retail packaging.
There really isn't any point in worrying about any of this until you know for certain if she's +1 or not.
>>17093495
That's why you don't tell them. Holy shit, are you an adult or not?
>>17093557
My gf will tell her mom, basically she knows a lot about our relationship
>>17093571
Ugh. Red flag. Dump her.
>>17093588
Why? I love her and now maybe Shes pregnant, i dont think it is time to do that and i'm not going to.
Have you even had her take a pregnancy test? They are just as accurate as if a doctor tested it for her.
>>17093918
Not yet, because she missed her period only for couple of days so maybe it still will happen
>>17093947
*sigh* why the hell you worrying then? A pregnancy test would solve your question if shes prego or not. Smh
>>17093970
Because period is missing, she had nausea its only few of symtoms but still i'm worried
Just go get a pregnancy test for her and have her take it. This stress and worry that is piling up on you currently is not good for you.
>>17094014
It is really bad for our relationship too actually.
>>17093993
Yah and i just fucking told you to get her to take a fucking test. God, are you both that fucking stupid. Like i said why would you worry about it being a possibility when you could of easily found out if she really is or not idiot? Fuck!
>>17094041
I will do it in next 2 days, I know it's the only one way to know if shes pregnant
