A good female friend of mine just complained to me she only likes men who turn out to be assholes, to which I replied (figurative ) get your shit together or get rekt.
Are women serious about this shit?
Genuinely asking
You're correct, but you should also not be friends with her.
>>17088253
Lots of women are self destructive.
There are some women who enjoy over drinking, hard drugs, and lots of promiscuous sex generally.
Those are the women who like jerk-y men.
I'm a women and I can't stand assholes.
I also can't stand self-destructive women who typically date those same assholes.
It's a hole group that I try to generally stay away from.
That's not to say that everyone who drinks or parties is one of those people- but the people who do it in excess for attention/sympathy/victimization are ticking time bombs.
So not all women feel that way, but lots do.
Luckily it's pretty easy to spot which girls you need to stay always from.
>>17088263
Well said
>>17088263
>>17088259
I know what you mean and I always thought I could spot a woman like that from a 100 yards. But I have been friends with her for over 1 1/2 years and never even once did she tell me about anything regarding dates.
>>17088271
Hm, sometimes looks can be deceptive. Did/do you like this girl? Or are you just surprised?
Does she have any other "red flag" qualities? (Excess drug use, constantly shit-talking, starting drama, sleeping with lots of men, moving through men quickly)?
Or did she seem like a mature,respectable girl till now?
>>17088271
So how is it any of your concern beyond friendly bro-versation?
Its like guys who like bitches
>>17088253
Girls date guys that end up being assholes, guys date girls that end up being crazy. People often seem good at first, and then the asshole/crazy comes out
>>17088282
It isn't, I didn't really ask, we were just on the subject
>>17088280
3-4 months ago I thought I did, but I think that was just infatuation.
Not really. She does like to drink, but given that were students in Germany, that doesn't mean much since everyone likes it.
And in all the time I've known her I've seen her make out with 1 guy (not a stranger) twice, other than that I've never heard about her hooking up with someone or being in a relationship.
>>17088253
She doesn't necessarily like assholes but more the personality that they offer. She prefers some who is
> Confident
> Cocky
> Self-assured
> Dominate
