I keep running into problems with my girl but keep forgiving her. When did you finally throw in the towel?
>I don't like how you play dnd all the time anon :(
Cya bitch
>>17077156
Picture yourself how your relationship will be the next 10 years. If you're not happy, then why waste the fucking time?
>>17077156
She told me I was the second guy in the relationship. I told her she could have the other one, told him about it, and cut that bitch off.
My life is fucked enough. I don't need to add that trainwreck into the situation.
>>17077156
When she asked me if I liked her. I played it off at the time and she asked if I was mad, cause she said I was like a brother to her. About 10 minutes after that she called me like 5 times. I was pissed. But when I picked up she like starts crying like 'omg i trusted the wrong person (me)....this always happens to me'. I knew she was driving and didnt want her to crash god forbid. I told her to calm down and we'll talk tomorrow cause it was like 1am. Then next time I saw her it was awkward. But eventually I was like are we going to talk about the other night. She was literally like "i dont want to talk about it, so we're not talking about it". I was like damn bitch, selfish and rude.
DROPPED
I spent a lot of time at it because she's got legit reasons to have problems, and because she's wonderful otherwise. But when she got pissed that after I came out and said hello, I said I was going to finish up the episode of the show I was watching, and she flipped out that I didn't love her.
We still fuck but she knows I'm fucking other girls now.
>>17077156
Constant attempts to undermine the relationship by dramatising. Some little thing like being 15 mins late with a scheduled phone call would become a huge issue over me disrespecting her. She was always looking for a reason to start a fight, over nothing.
She wore me down time and time again until I'd had enough and was ready to call it quites. Then she'd give me one of her amazing blow jobs or we'd have a dynamite time in bed and I'd think things would get better.
Repeated this cycle too many times to count and then finally dumped her. Took 2 years to get over missing her in bed.
>>17077361
>after I came out and said hello when she came home*
>>17077273
Kek
When I caught her blowing my best friend in my room while I was in the shower and his gf in the living room.
I just broke up with my long-term girlfriend yesterday; we were togetherfor three years. She has BPD and refuses to accept that she has a serious mental health problem. It's been like this for the past year, fucking emotional roller-coaster. Constant rage fits from her, super emotionaly abusive- she blames me for literally every problem in her life, lies to me, breaks my personal boundaries constantly. Just can't take that shit anymore. Nobody should.
aftee my boyfriend was a general shithead and cheated on me and a bunch of other dumb shit, he said he wanted to take a break. I said ok and honestly got over him in like a day since he was such a jerk to me. When he came back 3 days later saying "ok break is over now?" I was like "sorry I'm over you"
After she got mad at me for going to the bar with my friends from high school while I was at my dad's cottage. (I had invited her, and it was 10 minutes away or 45 minutes walking).
Took a few months to unravel afterwards, but yeah.
when i got abused by him and he kept telling me rape was primal
>>17077846
It is but smashing pussy and beating the shit out of you isn't.
He better have roughted you up for calling it rape
>>17077722
im going through the same shit. he has tons of boundries but wont respect mine. caught him doing something he said he wouldnt do because it would hurt me last night while i was puking my brains out. people with BPD have 0 empathy but expect you to have tons for them
>>17077876
so if i rape you without hurting you its not actually rape? where do you live i'll be sure to show you a good time
>>17077876
no i said stop and he didn't stop you dumb ass an he admitted to doing it , but doesn't think it was wrong
My last girlfriend was emotionally abusive to a light-medium degree. She studied abroad during one summer, and she got trashed drunk way too much and cheated on me and refused to talk about any of it when she was sober.
A year later, I broke up with her. It basically followed this process:
She broke my heart while she was gone.
I stayed with her because I thought I loved her.
She came back, and I slowly started to realize I didn't love her anymore, and that I couldn't forgive her cheating.
I was scared to break up with her cause she emotionally abused me.
I eventually realized I couldn't accept it anymore and just said I needed to be by myself.
after about the 100th time my gf accused me of still loving my ex and wanting to be with my ex instead of her.
So now I'm not with either of them.
the second time she did the thing she promised to neeeever do again; have a complete flipside bpd meltdown and lash out at every single person in her life. i tried every avenue to get her to therapy, and to hear her tell it you'd think i was breaking her arm every night after dinner.
i think the killswitch on tge relationship was when she said a bit of writing i had done for her, that had previously made her very happy, had in fact 'made her feel bad tho' because i could write better in my native language than she, a german, ever could. made her feel bad. for being good at english. that i was born into speaking.
yyyyyyyup.
>>17077156
What kind of stuff?
he stranded me in Canada with no phone, no money, and nobody to help
>>17077156
she cheated on me with her ex abusive husband. it was a good thing now that i look back. she was fucking crazy. she was obsessed with the new age shit.
>Car battery died
>Phone died
>Friend offered to let me charge my phone
>Call her and tell her friend let me charge my phone
>She said "I thought you didn't have any friends"
>She hung up
Sad part is, I still want her.
She told me I had a negative attitude. Which is complete BS because she was always the mopey sad sack and I would always try to cheer her up. I think she was just projecting but still, fuck that, and fuck her.
>be 18, he was 24 and 500 miles away
>family hates him, i think im in love
>chosing where to go after school (unis etc)
>he begs me to come and live with him (in his mums house), go to a shitey college and abandon my family and friends
Nope.jpg
I had to write him a letter to break up because my parents took my phone, laptop etc and i decided i wanted to go to uni and actually have a life and find a 'real' bf
(I met him on /b/)
>>17077156
Girl borrowed money from, then started hanging out with another guy. I got mad, she broke it off. Never got my money back.
I'm off women for a while... pain the the ass.
2 years
Lying
I forgive her
Cheating, not sexually
I barely forgive her and i hate myself
Lying again
I forgive her
Lying again
Fuck it im done
>>17077156
> me 19, she 18
>2 years
>i have mental issues(that i never showed her,used to have neurosis but its probably grown into something serious and im going to check myself soon)
>i try to be nice
>she behaves like a immature bitch
>friends keep telling me im 100 times better than her and that i need to find someone who cares about me(since i have issues and i need help)
>start drug abuse again
>2 suicide attempts
>she doesnt care only distances herself
>snort a line of coke>get my self esteem back
>Dump the stupid bitch
>Life wasnt so bad after all
>talking to 3 different girls that have something towards me atm.
Moral of the story: never sta with a bitch just because your spirit is broken. Especially those bitches that take advantage of it
Two years of constant sexual conversations with other dudes but I kept forgiving her. 2 weeks before Valentine's day I catch her doing the same thing with a nigger so I tell her to stop talking to him, she says no. I told her we were done.
she refused to consider my feelings in any way, started being flaky as shit, lied and thought she was good at it, and would throw a tantrum whenever she had to do anything even remotely related to being an adult that I wasn't handling for her.
one time a week that she cooked and I didn't help because i just worked fucking 12 hours? that's an angry mumbling about me being an oppressive asshole or some shit like that. cleans literally one room out of our place for the first time in like 3 months, that obviously means I'm an asshole, and she needs to disrespect the place and cause actual physical damage to it while cleaning as a "fuck you"
yeah I really, I really really really just.... man, the fuck was all that about.
>>17077156
I was dating her for almost 1 year. Since we began dating I noticed that the bushes across the street start to have feces in them. Never really paid much attention because I figured it was a dog or another animal(lived in a rural area). Anyways, my neighbor came up to me one weekend while I was out mowing the lawn. He was asking me if I noticed any homeless people in the area. Long story short, he set up a night vision camera, the camera had a view of across the street. 1 week later he knocked on my door and showed me the video.
I was in shock, it was my (ex)gf shitting in the bushes. I asked her about to see if she was going to admit to it. Showed her the video. I broke up with her on the spot.
Apparently she took shits in the bushes at night/early morning almost every day or two.
>>17080461
woah did she ever tell you why she did this?
>>17080468
Just shrieked saying I invaded her privacy. Claimed that she loved me and didn't want any other girls at my house and by doing that it would leave her scent to ward off any other women.
>>17080498
details on pee. did she also mark things? this is so weird
>>17080498
Fact is stranger than fiction sometimes. You'd be surprised how 'normal' someone can appear and then do things like shit in bushes nightly or, "did things with her pee".
>>17077156
Love your pic, man.
>>17079507
Why did it take you so fucking long?
I went back to my ex's home state with him and stayed with him and his family and he treated his mother and sisters like absolute garbage. Definitely very emotionally immature, probably had some mental illness. He would throw temper tantrums and go to his room and slam the door, and then get angry at me for not coming upstairs to comfort him. I told him I wasn't his mommy, went home, and broke up with him.
Found out my ex lied about a car accident. Apparently her mom got in a fairly serious wreck, but she didn't tell me about it until nearly a month later. Said it had just happened that afternoon and used it as an excuse to get out of a dinner date.
There was a lot of other stuff but this was the last straw. Can't be dealing with liars yo
>>17080420
>the black man was the last straw
lol
>>17080554
love, TARS, love
>>17080461
>>17080486
What the fucking fuck am I reading here..
Holy shit.. can you tell more about her?
>>17078961
I'm getting major déjà vu here. Did you post about this before? On /cgl/ maybe?
>>17080486
what the dick man
>>17077156
anyway my last straw last time, well it was the same issue the last 2 times, depending on your definition of "relationship." in both cases the guy was not only depressed, but so hellbent on being negative and refusing to change that I just couldn't deal. I have dealt with a lot of depression, even ended up on disability partially because of it. and I have been down on myself a lot, at times to the point where it's frustrating to my loved ones. and I have had long periods of time where I wasn't strong enough to help myself out of it very well. so I understand that mindset pretty well.
but I've also learned ways to at least give me some hope and some ammo against depression, even if it sometimes feels like I'm just pissing in the wind. I am at least trying to get better even if some part of me is fighting against that or weighing me down. and to see someone who has just given up and flat out says that they are permanently and irremedially broken...I don't believe it's true. and if it is true, I can't deal with it. it speaks too much to the hopelessness I'm already fighting against in myself. I can deal with a degree of mental illness from others, and in fact there's a lot of solace to be had in going through mental health shit together. but someone who's declared themselves unable and unworthy to ever improve is just a fucking albatross to me.
>>17080461
>>17080468
>>17081976
>>17082022
Lel you guys need to reverse image search before you believe these things
http://www.yukonoptics.co.nz/pulsar_recon_550r.html
>>17078961
>stranded me in Canada
>with nobody to help
Bitch, your story just ain't adding up.
>>17082030
honestly I didn't even look at the picture, didn't realise it was related
>>17082035
not that anon but just because canadians are friendly doesn't mean one will automagically show up next to you like a leprechaun any time you get stranded in canada.
>>17077722
holy shit are you me
>>17079001
THAT WAS MY BROTHER, and yeah he needed to gtfo mom's house. thank you for breaking up with him; has a place of his own now. always made me suuuuper uncomfortable that he tried to bring anybody over. mom is a clingy toxic piece of shit and i'm glad he,s away from that.
seriously, thank you. adulthood you are winning it A+++
>>17080429
how there gonna be so many victims of bp-ass-d women on 4chan. do we all just retreat to the loneliest of e-webs crowds to recover from the absolute shitfuckening that was their disorder?
or do interweabs just naturally find ill goddamn partners because of our hobbies?
>>17077156
When I caught her cheating because I was away for work.
It's happened twice now (2 different girls).
>>17082324
well bpd people are a lot better at starting relationships than they are at keeping them, so they end up back on the market so fast, it's not surprising that a lot of people have dated at least one.
and yeah, 4chan isn't exactly full of well-adjusted people.
>>17082386
... weird. but true!
I didn't ever visit/post on 4chan UNTIL i broke up with a BPD. Mine was a total monopolizer of my time, though, so I guess it's just that I have nothing better to do now and all my old hobbies just remind me of her (and nothing so cathartic like thumbing through troll rants to feel better about laifu)
my ex bf had some temper/anger problems and it would come up if i needed to talk to him about something and he didn't want too... it was about our lack of intimacy and if he is just permanently hooked on trap porn and can't get up anymore and it had lead to sex once a month for a while and i moved out, broke up... miss the good times but it was toxic and scary... i couldn't talk to him without feeling scared or embarrassed.
>>17082049
And you better pray they aren't Indians.
>>17077156
>I literally had sex with you I didn't wanna do that, and you can't buy me a bracelet?
Fuck that bitch
>Looking for an excuse to break up
Stop being a fucking faggot OP
When she cheated while I was overseas.
>>17082002
Probably lmao. I'm so fucking salty about it still.
>>17082035
I'm from the states, I came back to visit him. He ended up taking my phone and passport, and basically holding me hostage. I had to throw a well placed temper tantrum in public to get someone to call the police for me. I stayed in a women's shelter for a few days before getting a temporary emergency passport and going home.
>>17082485
Holy shit it is you
>>17082493
Hi again
I broke up with my girl when she wanted to become a man a date gay men...Fuck that relationship.
>>17082485
You know what? I'd be salty about it too.
