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ONE QUESTION....NO MEMES....NO BS...STRAIGHT UP LEGIT ANSWERS....FROM GIRLS PLEASE

Does height matter? And how much? Does a guy have to make up for it in other ways if hes shorter?

Whats the cut off point?

Please honest answer and no bully
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Just date short girls faggot.
My bf is like 5'2, I'm like 5'1 it doesn't bother me at all. The only way dating a short guy would bother me is if he was shorter than I am, so if you're 4'11 date a midget/dwarf kek
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Most girls just want a guy tallER than them.

On average, the IDEAL is 4 inches taller. Anything more than that gets closer to too tall territory, and shorter get closer to too short (because it gets closer to being shortER than her).

It's all completely relative to the individual girl's height.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691293/pdf/12713744.pdf
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>>17053513
>http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691293/pdf/12713744.pdf

Thanks anon. I will go an hero now
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>>17053527
Why?
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I usually like guys that are my height or taller, but I'd overlook it if he was a few inches shorter. I'm 5'8".
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>>17053485

Well for the record I am a guy. I know you want answers from femanons, but from what I've observed, yes, height does matter. Every girl is different, but the general consensus is that girls like guys taller than them most of the time. Some girls like guys way taller than them. I myself am 5'10, I've never had height affect my dating life, but I have spoken to a lot of girls and when this comes up they always say they are not very attracted to short guys.


There was a great experiment done where they took a guy who was like 5'10, 6'0, and 5'2 and gave them all backgrounds. It was said the guy who was 5'2, was independently wealthy, had his own company, was very successful, etc. But all the girls denied dating him because of his height. I can't remember who did the experiment but it was I think a British university of some kind. You may be able to find it somewhere.
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I love wearing heels, so I can't date a guy under 6'. It looks really awkward at formal occasions.
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>>17053485
As a 6'6" guy I can confirm that height matters. Not in the way you think though. Us lanklets are equally fucked as manlets when it comes to dating.
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>>17053485

>does height matter

yes

>and how much

it depends. to some people not at all. to most women, to some degree.

>does a guy have to make up for it in other ways if hes shorter

kind of. as in, he has to be appealing enough that the height doesn't matter. not jus tattractive, but someone she has excellent chemistry with.

>whats the cut off point

for most women its any man shorter than them, for many women, they will not mind if you're no more than an inch or two shorter. some wont care at fucking all.
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>Does height matter? And how much?
It matters that he's a couple of inches taller than me. Every other girl I've talked to about this feels the same way, unless they're tall girls. In that case, their height and taller.
>Does a guy have to make up for it in other ways if hes shorter?
I don't think he could, he'd be a literal midget
>Whats the cut off point?
I'm 5'0", so I'd say 5'3"ish is the cut off point
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>>17054463
6'5 here, I agree with this anon and can confirm. Girls just want a guy taller than them. Not a tall guy, just someone that is taller than they are, even if he is actually a manlet compared to others.
As a tall guy, I am told way too much that I am too intimidating, since I'm so tall, have a huge beard, tc. It's a meme that girls want a tough guy.
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>>17053485
depends how tall the girl is if she cares
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i dont think theres anything you can do to make up for it. you just have to look harder for the girl who doesnt mind/likes you being short which does put you at a disadvantage but theres nothing you can do. good luck :)
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>>17054513
I'm your height and my fuck buddy is 5'1. She says I'm too tall but only when we are standing for kissing. Once we lay down all she thinks about are my big hands and dick I think. Doesn't matter much.
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Yes, it matters, but it's not the be-all-end-all. I'm 5'5" and the tallest guy I've dated was 6'5", the shortest only 5'6". I like height, I find it attractive, but other things can make up for it.
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>>17054626

Did you cheat on the 5'6 guy lol?
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Just accomplish things. Girls love accomplished, successful men. Just being confident and working towards something ambitious can be enough.

Like trying reclaim your mountain stronghold and the arkenstone. Or destroying the one ring. Bitches love it when you destroy the one ring.
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I don't really look at height very much. I'd like for them to be at least the same height, but preferably taller. I'm 5'6", so above 5'6" is preferred, but my first boyfriend was around 5'5", maybe a little shorter.

I think for most girls, it does matter a lot more. Height is relative though. I'm in my mid twenties in a graduate program. This guy is around 5'5", but very personable and gets along well with everyone - you know just generally outgoing and well-liked. The girl he's seeing right now is 5'2". So like other people were saying, it doesn't really matter as much if you date shorter girls.

I also think that girls ARE more willing to overlook your height if you make up with it with other attributes.
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>>17053485
Looks mean FAR less to grils than to boys. Girls are looking for Nice Guys who will treat them well, and if they find that they overlook any physical limits.

Meanwhile, have a look at www.tallmenshoes.com
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>>17054657
>this is what manlets actually believe
Will they ever learn?
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>>17054756
>Looks mean FAR less to grils than to boys.
>Girls are looking for Nice Guys who will treat them well

Carlthecuck.jpg

You're kidding, right? Anon, pls.
This is a person's life, not a joke.
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>>17053485
>Does height matter?
No. It literally does not, for me personally. I'm a rather tall girl so most guys I meet are short anyway.
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>>17054756
>www.tallmenshoes.com
That is the saddest thing I've seen in a while.
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>>17054174
>overlook
KEK
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5'6" guy here. Height doesn't matter much at all. There are many more important traits, such as status, looks, confidence, personality etc. Just don't be insecure about your height and you will be ok. My gf is 5'10" for what it's worth.
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It's not the height, it's the attitude. I'm 5'8 and 6'1 in my highest heels so all of my exes ended up shorter than me on occasion. Some of them felt really insecure next to me because of that, which is a major turn-off. Just don't be a whiny little bitch about your height.
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>>17055214

Bitch at least go two inch heels in that case you massive slut
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Height probably is important. Guy here, I've had first dates where they said they were glad I'm tall. I think there is more to it but I could be wrong; I'd think a girl rather date a guy who is 5'11'' with a good body then some beanpole.
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>>17053485
As a grill, it only matters that you're taller than or the same height as me. I could overlook someone being shorter if they were great in other regards, but tallness is desirable.
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>>17055234
Bitter virgins from /r9k/ have stumbled here again.
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>>17055234
No.
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Last woman I dated was noticeably taller than me. I'm 178cm, she is 185. Drop-dead gorgeous body, 6-7/10 face. I'm a piss-poor artist, she's a successful restaurant manager.

Dated her for three months. She fell in love with me, but I broke her heart when I told her I couldn't promise her monogamy.

I'm the living proof that height and money got nothing to do with it, if you know how to talk to women.
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>>17055374
>tfw 190 cm
>want to be dominated by a taller blonde girl with long legs
>the only chick near my height I've met is ugly af

Suffering.Your story made me really jealous.
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>>17054657
>Or destroying the one ring. Bitches love it when you destroy the one ring.

Just make sure you bring a lot of lube.
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>>17055397
I not dating her anymore, alas.
Just saying it's possible for shortish guys to jet pack.
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>>17055374
So how did you do it. Has to be something you're not telling us here.
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>>17053485
Yes it fucking does. Get over it. Find a midget.
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>>17055509

Learn how to hold a conversation like a man. Learn how to build attraction. Learn how to eat pussy 'like a fucking hero,' as she put it. (One step down from the single mom who told me I ate her out like a god, last year.)

I don't know guys, just be a good man. And treat yourself as one. Back straight, shoulders down, chin up, eye contact, confident speech, good mood, positive body language, remember to wash, remember to touch the small of her back, don't be so serious, take no offence, don't be a doormat, never get needy, show her a good time, make her feel safe, walk if you must, stay if you want.

Lot's of great books on the youtubes.
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>>17053485

The cut off point is this: if she is wearing high-heels, the top of her head still must not pass the bottom front tip of your nose.
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>>17055547
None of that will get a manlet a woman doe. Has to be something your not telling. >>17055520
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>>17055563
>this is how I did it
>hurr durr no it won't work
>it worked for me
>reeeeee ur wrong it cannot work

Go back to /r9k/.
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>>17055569
Why so defensive doe. Cant eat pussy before you eat pussy so has to be something that attracted this girl to you in the first place. What are you not telling us in this story. Or are u just making shit up.
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>>17055559
>if she is wearing high-heels, the top of her head still must not pass the bottom front tip of your nose.

Human head is about 9 inches, from bottom nose tip to top of head is like 6 inches, high heels is another 4 inches
that makes a 10 inches difference at least.

Guys under 6', prepare your noose kek or, just date children.
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>>17055585
>or, just date children.
nothing wrong with that :^)
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Yes. For me personally, he just has to be taller than me by a bit. I'm 5'3", so the shortest I'd accept would probably be 5'5".
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>>17055563
It will in the actual real world were people are more than just mindless machines with measuring sticks. Women are feeling creatures. Make them feel right, and you're golden.

>>17055571
I'm not him. I will be here all day if you start asking intelligent questions. I can assure you I'm not making it up.

Do you want me to write you an essay about all the things I did that I'm not telling you?
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>>17055623
In the actual real world women have no interest in manlets.
Women care about two things, feeling protected by a big man or being blacked.
When will manlets learn this?
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>>17055623
>Women are feeling creatures. Make them feel right, and you're golden
wisdom.
[ I'm one of the guys who love to post manlet meme on /fit/ but I cannot deny the truth of this ]
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>>17053485
I feel like my height preferences mimick my crushes/relationships. My first "boyfriend" in 8th grade was on the shorter side and i went for shorter guys for awhile. I dated an average height guy later and decided that "in the middle was best".. Had a crush on a shorter guy and went for them.. My current boyfriend is 6"3 so I feel like I'm into taller guys now but it's all honestly kinda wtf
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>>17053485
It matters only somewhat. I am 5'4 and I had a preference for taller guys (like, really tall guys). However, if someone's personality really attracted me, that overruled height any time.

My husband is only about an inch taller than me. When I went on our first date, I remember feeling like... oh he is shorter than I expected, but he has a very large powerful penis and that made me forget about his shortness.

The only downside is he can have a very bad temper and be rough and verbally abusive sometimes, I think to make up for his shortness. But there is no need for it.
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height matters.

if you plan on making babies

large people are not genetically compatible with small people

if the baby gets the mother's skull dna
and and the father's eyes and teeth which are too large for it's skull. the baby will need glasses, oral surgery, braces, possibly hearing aids.
size is very important. eyes too big for the skull's eye socket bulge out the front of the face or turn egg shaped . egg shaped eyes can't see even with glasses.

father has big nose, mother has small head
kids will have a HUGE nose

father has a big chest, mother has a small body. organs don't fit inside the body. baby born with organs outside, if it survives pregnancy

mate with someone your own size
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>>17055520
lol that pic has Asians.
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>>17055604
Aww, my bf is 5'5 maybe a smidge taller and I am petite and we have beautiful petite baby girls that are going to be gorgeous when they are older.
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>>17053485
To me it matters. Tall guys instantly make you swoon. I've gotten excited just seeing some of them. Too tall has the same effect as being short it just looks comical.
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>>17055647
hehe if you have a boy name him Frodo
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>>17055647

And if they're boys?
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>>17055651
imagine the guy on the right is 4 inches taller than the left, which would you want
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>>17055675
we abort them.
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>>17055680
left, regardless of right's height, honestly.
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>>17055675
They will inherit their father's monster schlong and never have problems with women.
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>>17055691
aww, I wish you two happy :))
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>>17055691
huge schlong here. nothing but problems with women. try having a relationship, when you got bitches hitting on you erryday. gf be like jelly all the time. "who was that woman you said hello to" my grandmother, you insecure idiot. even if she wasn't my grandmother she's like a hundred years old.
I only date porn stars. regular girls are crazy
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>>17053485
I am 5'6", I dated guys from 5'7" to 6'4". Wouldn't probably date someone shorter than me.
Attractive face and healthy body matter more than height.
And, anyway, a stable guy with a good personality and very smart would always attract me more than anyone.
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Height matters, but there's no set rule like "you must be 5'11" or higher" or anything like that. Most women will be happy as long as you're taller than them. Taller women are usually more lenient on this, and are more likely to date a man that's a few inches shorter. I know a woman who's around 6' tall, and every guy I've seen her with was shorter than her.
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To girls everything about appearance matters. Dick size and shape matters, you need to be at least 6 foot, etc.
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>>17055721
kek.
As the wife of someone with a huge schlong, I sympathize for you!!!
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>>17055627
Manlet is a state of mind. Charismatic short guys have no problem getting pussy.

It's surprisingly easy. You chose to be a loser. You chose to be a manlet. All you have to do is choose to not be a manlet anymore.

But you don't want to, you /r9k/ reject. You want to live the rest of your life without a gf.
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Personally, I find shorter guys sexually more attractive than taller guys. But there's no denying that women just prefer taller men. My father, my brother, my husband, all my serious boyfriends, and even most of my good platonic boyfriends have been over 6'2". I'm 5'5", average/short height female. I'm not sure why I'm "karmically" driven to be with tall men, but that is not necessarily my sexual preference. However, I've found that the short men who approach me or date me have been ROYAL pains in the asses arrogant over-compensating muthafuckas. To me short men are bigger womanizers and players than taller men. I think because they have to compete against these naturally alpha men so hard while knowing that all these guys have to do is exist.
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>>17056247
(cont) and that makes them bitter so they revert to their beta manletness and blame all females for going for someone taller.
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>>17055146
kek
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Height is statistically one of the biggest, if not the biggest trait that attracts females.
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>>17053485

I think most women prefer tall men just because it makes them feel more feminine. I've dated men my height (5'6) up to 6'5 and was happy with each of them at the time. I'd never write a guy off for being shorter than average if I knew him but based on looks alone, I would always scope out someone taller.

That's not to say shorter guys can't be just as hot, I just don't want to look like a huge monster next to him. If he could make me laugh though, I'd probably overlook this.

>tfw 6'4 bf tho
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>>17056333
Oh, it's the statistics guy again. When you try to give him examples of short guys who have no trouble getting girls, he'll just go "m-m-muh statistics don't lie! You're wrong!"
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>>17056455
>statistics guy

lmao


Anyhow it's not like being short means you can't get some. It just means it's significantly harder than for a tall guy.
I didn't even imply that it was impossible, just stated a well known fact.
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>>17053485
Taller than me = turn on
Shorter than me = turn off
Same height = neutral
I'm 5'7"

This is not to say that height is a requirement, it's just a pro or a con like any other quality. Therefore, if a short man excels in areas that a tall man doesn't, I would like the short man better.
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>>17056476
>significantly harder
No, it's not. Height is not even in the top 5 of important qualities.
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>>17054756
>>>17053485 (OP)
>Looks mean FAR less to grils than to boys. Girls are looking for Nice Guys who will treat them well, and if they find that they overlook any physical limits.
>Meanwhile, have a look at www.tallmenshoes.com

>over $100
>look like $50 shoes

What a joke.
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>>17054216
What a ridiculous reason. I get girls being attracted to tall guys, but not wanting to look awkward when you wear heels sounds borderline insane to me.
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>>17056506
Yes it is. Pretty much every study agrees on this mate.

It's not rocket science.
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Height doesn't matter if you have a good personality and are funny.

Height does matter if you are a boring person.
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>>17056506

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbG05ePWRQE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22gtSCJd9jA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4afoy8qmDRk

It's known widely to science that it is one of the most important.
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>>17056506
I can't speak for everyone but as far as physical qualities go, it's one of the most important.
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>>17053485
>one question
>asks four questions
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>>17053485
Depends, usually I like guys taller than me but that doesn't mean it's just been exclusive to taller guys. Girls want someone to make them laugh and let them have a good time. The guy I like right now is half a foot shorter than me but he's hilarious and friendly and confident and I don't see his height as an issue in the slightest bit
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>>17056531
Which is why ugly, poor, boring, fat, tall people are always getting girls. And good-looking rich funny fit short people never get girls.
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>>17056605
Are you just baiting or do you seriously have reading comprehension that is this bad.
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>>17056613
All the traits mentioned are far more important than height.
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>>17054216
That's actually pretty smart
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>>17056626
That's just something that's factually not true mate. Nice try though
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>>17055680
Left
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>>17056631
>factually not true

Do I detect a guy who's a desperate virgin, and blames it all on his height? Not on his massive insecurities and other flaws?
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>>17056652
I'm not a virgin nor particularly short. I just don't understand why you would lie about known facts in the internet.

But hey nice that you went straight into the insults.
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>>17056658
You keep using the word "fact". I don't think it means what you think it means.
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>>17056658
When they start using petty insults, you know you've won the argument.
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>>17056666
Nice quads. Too bad they were wasted on such a useless post.
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>>17056663
Fact means that's it's scientifically proven. Which this happens to be.

I think you are just baiting at this point though.
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>>17056668
Post a link to a scientifically proven study that shows the most important and attractive thing in a man is height. More important than looks, social status, money, confidence, personality.

You're obviously baiting, so let's see how you can get out of this one.
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>>17056667
Not as useless as you think, seeing how you felt comoelled to reply to it. I simply pointed out that instead of using arguments you used petty insults, which pretty much show where you stand.
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>>17056692
>petty insults

Nope. None used. On the other hand, using the word "facts" to describe things pulled out of your ass means you have lost the argument.
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Fuck reading these threads always ends up making me feel like shit.

Then again low self esteem and shit along with the height. Ah well.

Porn it is.
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>tfw 174 cm
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>>17056746
What I find interesting is how it's the guys making other guys feel like shit. You always hear about how girls are mean to each other, but it's obvious that it happens with guys too.
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Height doesnt matter to me. I know everyone on here is saying it does but i think its cute if a guy is my height or slightly shorter. Im 5'4. I actually hate taller guys, makes me feel small plus its harder for me to do stuff.
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>>17056921
>I know everyone on here is saying it does
But they're not.
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op here. cant believe this thread is still going.

so it looks like the general consensus is to buy those shoes with lifters or an hero
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>>17053485
My boyfriend is a few cm's taller and I think it's great to have the same height for kissing and sexy times. It's other people like my parents who go "why didn't you pick someone taller?"
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>>17053485
Guy here. My brother is 5 9. Im 6 1. He has a qt gf. I dont. Does that help?
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>>17057561
Only if you're listening to the guys ITT.
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>>17054657
>I have to wait until I'm fucking 25+ to get a girlfriend
fuck that
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I've dated guys shorter than me before.
As long as they can make me feel safe and loved, it doesn't matter what they look like.
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>>17053485
I'm 5'2 and my bf is like 5'5 or so. He's handsome in the face, has my ideal body type, we have great chemistry.

My bf has friends, is outgoing, confident, ambitious. Honestly any girl would be a fool not to date him over his height. Which is why I jumped on that shit. Love my boyfriend to pieces.
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