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Ask them out. This is something we cannot explain to you. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
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>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships.
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking.
>Brandon
Fuck off
>>17020007
How do I maintain eye contact with women?
How do I not internally freak out when I'm talking to them? I've gotten much, much better at it, but it still happens at the most random times and I'm tired of it.
Girls:
I'd like to ask out a certain girl, but I only see her when she's working, and she's generally busy, in addition to the fact that it seems inappropriate to bother someone at work. Advice?
I don't want to post a picture, but I don't understand why some girls call me "the best looking guy they've ever seen," super charismatic, and then have other girls just totally disinterested.
How can I be so far on the ends of the spectrum depending on the person?
>>17020034
Maybe you're attractive in a super unusual kind of way, to the point where you come back full circle and are ugly to some people.
Or maybe these girls just aren't interested in your looks.
Is silence bad during dates?
>>17020007
Why do you need so much attention, like creating a second thread before one ends, are you an attention whoring psychopath?
>>17020018
There no fix for it. You gotta realize they're nothing special and there's literally no reason to be nervous.
>>17020021
Not a girl, but had a talk bout this topic with mixed circle of friends. It's just that people have different taste in men/ women. Plus: "You're not my type" or being desinterested doesn't necessarily mean she thinks your ugly.
>>17020073
If one of you feels akward with it, yes.
If it's a comfy one, no. In fact, that's quite good. Enjoy the moment.
>>17020052
I'm very traditional and clean cut attractive, like did the Abercrombie stand in front of the store thing back when that actually meant something.
I've been compared to Ryan Reynolds, Sebastian Stan, and John Mayer before, but I'm more blonde than them as a group. I'm definitely not as ripped, but I'm not fat or anything either.
I've also been compared to Seth Rogen and Bobby Flay though, so I don't know what the fuck some people are thinking, because those are not like the others at all. Everyone always seems to compare me to someone though.
Maybe it's my sense of humor? I'm like a Conan O'Brien/Seth Rogen type in delivery, but I don't know.
Girls with guys and guys with girls
Does romance/closeness come naturally to you with this person? Was there any point at which you had to force your interactions together?
I always had to fake it, but then I met this girl. No longer do I have to spend 10 minutes thinking of the right response. No longer do I have to do weeks of research to figure out what she'd like to do as much as I would. No longer do I have to pester someone daily just to get acknowledgement, as she's just as proactive as I am.
For the first time I realize that "jus b urself :^)" doesn't require any effort.
Sorry for the bragging, but is this how a normal healthy relationship is supposed to be? After all these years, this is the first time I've met someone like this.
Gonna repost this, as I still could use some advice.
I spent some time with the girl I got a crush on again today.
We watched a movie together, but unfortunately, she had some writing assignments to do, so she couldn't stay with me in the common room for that long after the movie. Because we weren't alone there, I was unable to muster up the courage to make any moves on her, or talk to her about how much I like her. We just sat next to one another on the sofa.
I am thinking of trying to ask her out for a walk or something tomorrow, so that we could be by ourselves, but I dunno if that is a good idea. I don't really want to ask her out to the movies or just to hang out in the city again, as I don't know what to do there (plus there ain't really any good movies playing right now), and I don't want to bore her.
In the end, I just want to figure out how I can get to spend more time with her, that doesn't just involve us sitting on the sofa watching movies/videos from youtube in the common room of the apartment complex, while random other residents also are there.
The few times we have stayed up late (nearly to 1 am), and have been basically alone together, have been nice, but I can't really count on either of us being able to sacrifice our nightly sleep that way very regularly.
So in short, how should I proceed if I want to spend more time together with this girl? I want to make it evident to her that I like her, without seeming like some awkward creep.
>>17019728
Not her but I think it's because girls and boys view sexuality differently. As in, I don't mind porn but I'm not a huge fan either because it's mostly bad bordering on ridiculous and I'm too lazy to search for the 1-in-100 video I like.
I think a lot of girls feel that way and instead read smut or simply fantasise. Men are more visual, I guess?
>>17020096
I personally don't really like those 'traditionally attractive' guys because they're just not my type. I prefer 'normal' guys. Maybe those girls are the same.
>>17020034
Different people have different tastes. This is not rocket science.
Guys, do you notice if a girl has a 'signature scent' or is it just "she smells nice"?
>>17020115
Get over it and ask her on a date.
>>17020115
Ask her on a date. Say "date" to make it clear. Good luck.
>>17020147
>>17020150
The problem with that sorta is that I got no clue where to take her. There really isn't much that I know of in this city, that we could go do, other than movies, or going to eat somewhere I guess. I don't want to bore her.
>>17020101
It's being in a compatible relationship. A lot of people get into relationships and just stay together even though they're incompatible, since too many people think it's more important to be in any relationship than have a healthy relationship.
>>17020126
This is kind of what I was thinking, but it bums me out. Two of my ex girlfriends both told me that I was "extremely intimidating," and not in a physically threatening way.
It sucks if that's true, you'd think it'd be a plus.
>>17020143
I do, but I don't know how many other guys do. When I started dating a girl I was with for a long time, I was very attracted to the way she smelled. It didn't occur to me until later that she used the same perfume an ex of mine used, and they had somewhat similar body odor.
>>17020168
Well it is what it is. There's not much else you can do about it but hope that a girl likes it
Girls, do you ever get smelly? (If you answer anything other than no, you are wrong)
>>17020166
Have some confidence that you're not going to bore her. Take her to dinner, and if you do bore her then it will be first and last date. What have you lost by finding out it won't work?
>>17020073
Silence is nice sometimes really, just not for long periods of time and not looking dead in each others eyes unless something is about to go down.
I want to take a friend I started having romantic interest in on a date , something casual . Is going to the pub ok ? Can I spin it off as just "having a drink between friends" if I get rejected ?
>>17020201
If you want to take a girl on a date, you make it clear it's a date. Don't do something ambiguous and then later try to claim she led you on by accepting your invitation when it's perfectly plausible she thought you were just asking her to do something as friends. Grow some fucking balls
>>17020183
I don't think that I bore her normally, as we have spent a lot of time together in the common room of the student apartment complex. I mean, why would you stay up all the way to 1 am with someone who bored you?
But again, as I don't really know even any restaurants etc here, so I wouldn't know where to go.
I guess I could hope that she stays here for some weekend or something, and ask her out to come to the local zoo with me. She was open to the idea the last time I asked, but due to her work hours, and the zoo closing so damn early, going there together on week days turned out to be impossible.
I just want to spend time with her, without random other residents of the apartment complex being there to bug us. Their presence makes me choke up even further.
Is chilling together for netflix for a date like going to the movies? I feel more comfortable in my room or hers.
Girls, when a guy is checking your tits or ass out what is the usual thing that gives it away?
>>17020210
I am aware of the fact that I'm a puss , but I also dont want to lose her if she rejects me
>>17020256
What would you lose? And why would a girl want to date a guy who can't even ask her out properly?
>>17020256
You know the fucking options. If you don't ask her you'll never know.
>>17020248
It's mostly his eyes being directed towards my tits and/or ass that gives it away.
>>17020272
Why do you have such big tits and/or ass, though?
>>17020284
I basically have the body of a teenage boy, B cups and barely any ass.
Guys:
My boyfriend and I rarely fight, but today we had a fight. TL;DR, he was jumping to conclusions and not really listening to me over something, then doubled down with the "Whatever, I literally care so little about it" defense when I called him out on it. That pissed me off and communication was a bit rough for a few hours.
I then got the news that one of my friends broke up with her boyfriend and it really shook me. I burst into tears and I started telling my boyfriend how much I appreciate him and how thankful I am that he's there for me. Communication has returned to normal since.
I don't mean to sound childish, but has this experience diminished the impact of the argument? I really hate it when he does his "I don't care" shit and I really wanted that message to hit home, but the fact that I was emotional and clingy and communication went back to normal almost makes me feel like he's thinking "Haha, I got away with it".
>>17020264
>What would you lose?
A potential friend. There are girls who I was into initially, but we got to know each other and the idea of romancing them sort of wore off, and we became friends, so I could see why he'd want to take her on an ambiguous date to test the waters and chat her up more personally, to try and gauge her interest. Assuming he finds out she's into someone else or not really into him, and he can get over that, they could still end up good friends.
Where can I go to make friends ages 25-35? Gyms, libraries, museums, and parks aren't really a good setup for talking. I've tried various Meetups, but for some reason there are always criminals mixed in with the normal people. I'd like to find some other bookish introverts. I thought about taking continuing education, but I'm not sure that would have what I'm looking for either. Any ideas?
>>17020325
>I burst into tears and I started telling my boyfriend how much I appreciate him and how thankful I am that he's there for me. Communication has returned to normal since.
Honestly, that'd sound really nice to hear out of the blue, but from what you're writing it sounds like you let him off the hook when he was acting immature, but that's from the very little you've written about the actual argument. Maybe now that you're both cooled down, try and bring it back up and tell him you should settle it for real now, because you're worried it might fester into a bigger issue, and talk it out level headed.
>>17020372
How would he be losing a friend? If he's ambiguous about it and she 'rejects' him, he's still going to stick around. If he's straightforward about it and she rejects him, then it's up to him whether he wants to stick around. It's on him, not her.
>>17020380
Start a book club. Choose books ladies like.
>>17020398
Some girls don't like guys who linger around them after getting rejected. If they're established friends then maybe they have nothing to worry about, or maybe it would make their current friendship too awkward. I know girls who've talked about wanting to be left alone by their rejectees because they felt they were trying to play the long con to get into their pants. That's more on the girl than the guy, but it's a possibility.
Girls, how do I get my ex-gf to stop posting mean shit about me all the time on facebook, tumblr and instagram? She kept sending me emails after I broke up with her asking why and how she loved me and all that and how everything feels so pointless without me. I told her it was because she was just mean to me way too often and I didn't deserve that. I never once called her a name, yelled at her, or got angry at her. For a year I never said anything bad at all about her character or anything she had done but she was still so mean to me and judged everything I did. How I was never good enough. She just made me feel really shitty about myself and stressed me out because I might disappoint her if I wrote her a card and the writing wasn't good enough or if the sex wouldn't be good enough and other things.
Now shes just posting a bunch of lies and other shit that never happened at all. Like.. I don't understand why should feel to tell everyone I know that I left her for another girl when that's clearly not what happened. I literally don't even talk to any other girls.
Basically telling all my friends I'm a huge shitty person. I don't talk about her on any of my social sites or in person to anyone else. This is the only time and just because it's anon.
>>17020515
Block her.
>>17020143
I notice at least, but I'm not sure if other guys do. It doesn't exactly come up in conversation.
>>17020515
Ask OJ
>>17020101
Worried i won't be able to find someone like this before I die.
>>17020168
>extremely intimidating
I've heard this and i'm a socially awkward introvert, i can't explain it either. To me, everyone else is intimidating.
>>17020380
>I'd like to find some other bookish introverts.
From my experience this is like saying "i'd like to find the meaning of life" or "i'd like to win the lottery"
>>17020536
I have. But I get messages from my friends like "dude I didn't know you were back with your old ex (before this one)" or "man that's really shitty what you did to her. How could you cheat?".
And I'm like.... what.
It's the spreading lies to everyone I know that's the problem.
can a girl get turned on by you kissing her arm?
I basically started at her shoulder and moved down slowly, and eventually my face was like right next to her thigh. She was trying to say something and she kept not being able to say it over and over, but she was like that the entire time when we were alone.
Also this is going to sound dumb but why would a girl be against kissing but then let you message her and every time you touch her back she starts moaning
>>17020540
>>17020536
Also to add even my father heard something she said and was trying to lecture me on wanting to have sex with underage girls. Which... what the fuck? The shit she has been telling everyone is crazy and fake as fuck.
>>17020554
massage*
>>17020554
Definitely, yes. Easily.
And maybe she's shy or afraid of things going too fast. Could be anything really.
My gf really likes anal sex, but after we finish she always gets up and goes to the bathroom for like half an hour. What is she doing in there?! She turns the fan on so I can't hear.
how do you handle a situation where a girl wants to date you but emotionally isn't ready to date again cause they just broke up with their bf?
>>17020564
I'm just guessing, but showering and cleaning herself?
>>17020554
Heh, this reminds me, back in middle school the kids around here used to play "Are you nervous?"
It goes like this: player A touches player B somewhere, and asks "are you nervous?"
Then they keep sliding their hand around inch by inch and asking "are you nervous?" until B says yes (eg starting at foot then moving up to crotch). Then they usually switch.
Of course, while others were playing that, me and my autist/freak friends were playing dungeons and dragons and other imaginative shit. Needless to say, our sex lives have been less than glorious.
>>17020564
You rearranged her poo.
So she had to take a reorganized shit.
I've done that to a girl once. I felt awesome.
I know every girl is different...
but, girls who like getting their hips touched and held. Can I ask why? Is it psychological or physical?
>>17020592
Both? It makes one feel secure and wanted.
>>17020596
Can a random guy do this to you and make your panties drop?
>>17020598
No.
>>1702059
That's pretty good to know and yes I will keep in mind that not every girl likes that. That's gonna be a good thing to know...
>>17020599
So what's the point? If you are already close to this guy you're going to fuck him whether he handles your hips or not
>>17020609
The point is that girls usually feel secure and wanted in the company of guys they're likely to sleep with, and touching their hips is another sign of that.
Did you really think you'd randomly get to fuck any girl if you just touched her hips right?
Is there anything morally wrong with fucking a stupid girl who is throwing herself at you?
I mean proper simpleton, but shes nice and wants the d
>>17020621
If she's actually mentally retarded, yeah.
If she's not, who cares. Lots of people are idiots.
Define "retarded"
Shes not diagnosed with anything, shes a singer and does music theory at uni
Guess some would call that retarded lel
>>17020618
The hips are pretty close to the ovaries right?
I wonder if there's like a deeper meaning to why the hips?
>>17020632
Some would, but probably no medical professionals. If she wants to sleep with you, sleep with her. Duh.
>>17020645
That's probably it Anon.
My girlfriend has done absolutely nothing to betray my trust. We are in a closed committed relationship, she shows no signs of unhappiness, cheating, etc. Yet I find it hard to trust her on things. Why can't I trust her if she's given me no reason not to trust her? How do I learn to let my guards down and trust her with my heart?
>>17020632
Meant for >>17020630
Bump for this: >>17020181
>>17020181
Girls smell dude
>>17020564
>What is she doing in there?!
LOL
>>17020658
Therapy.
>>17020724
No, I don't believe you.
>>17020007
Girls-
Why is it so hard to form relationships with you? Just look at this shit.
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend
That is the longest, most complicated wikihow I've ever seen. I need a fucking five-year plan just to finally get a girlfriend? Shit is insane.
I'd stick to casual hook ups but I'm not extremely good-looking. I'd just buy hookers but it's illegal here and very risky for a number of reasons. Shit is fucked up.
>>17020799
>someone actually wrote a gf "How to"
lol
I'd never be able to live somewhere where you can't buy hookers. They are so delicious.
>>17020799
>http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend
>Offer to pay. Go to this date expecting to pay.
This isn't exactly advice but someone said something about smell and it reminded me of it.
Do you think women give of pheromones that make men horny? I was fooling around with this girl and every time i smelled her it made me so horny. Sometimes its just because they smell nice, but it obviously wasn't this this time cause she didn't have anything on.
>>17020799
HOLY SHIT
http://www.wikihow.com/Hug-a-Girl
Are you fucking serious? 10 steps to properly hug a girl? How the fuck are you supposed know this. Dating girls should be a fucking major at every college, there should be phd's for this shit.
>>17020868
Yes they do. (But so do men) The reason we evolved to like kissing is to get close enough to smell them.
>>17020868
Yeah we literally do exactly that. To each other actually.
>>17020868
>Do you think women give of pheromones that make men horny?
It works both ways
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TMKj2EYAf2Y
Girls
Would you have interest with a guy who is having family troubles?
Right now, my parents are really close to divorcing. Lots of arguing and lots of trust loss, lots of blaming each other. I don't know who to believe.
Anyway, it's taking a big toll on my life.
There's this girl that I like, we talk and all of that, but I feel that if I brought up anything about my family, I'd end up being an extra burden to her.
Would talking about my family issues to her be kind of weird or off putting?
We've been friends for two years and many more to come, I'm just kind of afraid that I would accidentally make myself look too "needy" when in fact I just want to talk to someone.
It's difficult to word, but hopefully you guys get what I'm trying to say.
>>17020007
I'm finally getting in shape, this should obviously help with getting a girlfriend, but I'm also very insecure and shy. How should I approach this? How can I improve mentally and on a character basis to be more appealing to women?
>>17020938
Stop giving a fuck and start thinking you're the best cock in the world.
guys,
how do you feel when you catch a girl looking at you and she turns around in a awkward manner? i'm ashamed to admit i've done this two times already to this guy i like in class. how do i save myself of this embarrassing situation? does he think im a freak now?
>>17020949
That's literally impossible for me and not something I want to become though.
>>17020961
>does he think im a freak now?
If he even noticed then he probably just thinks you're shy. So no, definitely not.
>>17020884
thats goats though
i was under the impression that there was no proof humans did.
>>17020963
You're already failing the first lesson, anon.
>>17020983
I've never felt anything. At least I've never noticed. I'm a penis.
>>17020972
i really hope so..but dk about this but i think i saw him looking at me a couple of times..? but maybe it's just my wishful thinking. this sucks because it's almost the end of the semester and i can't even do anything about it.
>>17021002
You could make a move.
>>17020961
>does he think im a freak now?
Nope. I'd say there's 2 possibilities:
>he didn't notice
>he thinks it's cute
Don't worry about it.
>>17021002
Make a move if you're into him, before it's too late.
>>17021001
>You're already failing the first lesson, anon.
I'm well aware.
>>17020878
I keep making posts where I ask why we aren't developing a scientific gf formula and people laugh at me.
but the truth is that it is needed and the most complicated scientific question humans will ever face.
For girls: if you really liked a guy but cheated on him, and you told him, then he broke up with you, and a week later he wanted to get back together would you be over him by then
>>17021002
Give him the dick.
>>17021023
Ah, a slut and a cuckold fetishist. What a nice couple!
>>17021023
If I really liked a guy I wouldn't cheat on him in the first place.
But if a guy broke up with me for good reasons, and came crawling back in barely any time I'd probably lose all respect for him.
>>17021063
>If I really liked a guy I wouldn't cheat on him in the first place.
would you cheat on anyone?
>>17021074
If I felt our relationship was already in tatters, going nowhere, he was abusive, something like that, then yeah, I could see it happening, although I really think I'd just split up in that case anyway.
>>17020143
yes
>>17020564
probably taking a shit or crying
>>17020961
i wouldn't notice
girls who use tinder, why do you match guys but never reply to the first message?
>>17021128
Not a girl, but was is your first message usually?
>>17021159
I dont even use tinder, but i see guys complaining about getting matches but not replies a lot. Just curious in case i decide to use it one day.
>>17021010
what? what do i say to him? we don't even sit in the same row. i don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.
Girls, which of these are a turn off?
>internet trolling
>street racing
>not having social media
>not having cuckold fetish
>>17021168
What do you like about him? Compliment him.
I made a huge mistake. Sort of. I half joked around during one date that she should pay the money for the meal back to me some day. And she did, a week later.
She looked a bit pissed off, forced smile and shit. I don't know why she took that shit so seriously. But all and all our relationship is going on a downward spiral.
>>17021266
Why did you accept the payment if you knew (or at least got hints) you were making a huge mistake?
>>17021266
Wow she seems petty, it's a good thing that it's going downhill.
Yep, sounds like you made a huge mistake all right, when you decided to date a girl like that.
how do you handle a situation where a girl wants to date you but emotionally isn't ready to date again cause they just broke up with their bf?
>>17021299
Wait?
>>17021285
I didn't even have any hint. She just started to become sort of distant throughout the week and then on Monday she gave me back the money. Then I started to remember.
I mean that's just weird as fuck, that she took what I said so seriously.
>>17021266
you could just not take the money from her and explain to her it was a joke. lol
would be easy.
What you should do rn imo is, invite her and make sure to INVITE HER and pay it all yourself. so she doesnt think you're a literal jew :p
Now my question.
basically im 20 and my question is, does money play a huge OR some part in relationship.
the thing is I was getting money from parents in the past so it wasnt a problem, but im on my own now so Im thinking if I can have a relationship without moneyz being involved haha.
im also thinking about LDR.
advice/thoghts please
I met a guy online that I'm going to live at the same school with soon and he's sweet and funny and we like a lot of the same things, but turns out he has the worst receding hairline I've ever seen on someone our age
We're 18 and he looks at least 40
I kinda liked him before this but now I have no idea what to do help is that shallow am I being dumb
to females ?
how long must a guys penis be for you to be satisfied with it ??
>>17021318
For me, both are at fault. You for joking about it and accepting the money and, her, for taking a joke seriously and getting mad about it.
Don't try to put all blame on her and don't take all the blame.
>>17021321
>LDR
No, just no.
>>17021331
Is he like AIDS Skrillex?
Started dating this girl, things going great but I noticed she's not as "obsessive" over me as I am with her. If I could, I would be with her every second of the day, it was like that with my ex but my ex turned out to be a bitch so that ended up poorly.
Thing is I'm completely understanding. I just don't know how to handle this shift in my relationship. I guess I find myself lonely nowadays whereas before I could talk on and on with the same person. My new gf is pretty social and has a lot of stuff going on, while I'm more of the sit back and work quietly type.
It's not something I can necessarily complain or talk about. It's just a difference in personality. She's a great girl. How should I handle this temporary loneliness? Should I look for hobbies to fill up my time?
>>17021360
>Is he like AIDS Skrillex?
Worse
I don't usually care about looks much but damn
>>17021360
Why's everyone hating on LDR?
also, what about the other part of the post? what are the thoughts?
>>17021364
that's called being a needy kinda.
I'd say just get other stuff to do, pretty much anything. and dont complain to her about "not spending too much time together" It wont work well.
>>17021358
Kinda depends if its ONS or long termed relationship.
>>17021331
well, pics maybe? so we could judge better.
>>17020915
Anyone?
>>17021412
>well, pics maybe? so we could judge better.
I think he uses 4chan so that wouldn't be the best idea I don't think
But it's pretty bad
Am I repulsive?
>>17021462
Yes, you disgusting piece of shit.
Haha no. Just maybe do something different with your hair.
>>17021462
if you grew out your hair and styled it you'd look great desu
>>17021462
I feel like you would be better looking with long hair.
>>17021469
Do you have any suggestions?
>>17021434
as long as you dont involve her in your shit you're good to go.
>>17021462
God yes.
uneven face, thin hair, your eyes are missing the black outer ring which looks weird and soulless, you have literally the weakest , feminine, eyebrows I've ever seen , comical nigger lips, etc.
A bullet in you brain will fix most of that luckily.
>>17021331
>is that shallow
Yes. Doesn't matter though, do what you want.
>>17021462
Not repulsive. I'd say you're pretty decent, actually. Bad underbite and too square face, but otherwise good.
Only problem is that you look excessively... aryan, which may give you a bit of a supervillain vibe.
And yeah, >>>>>>soc.
>>17021485
Yeah, actually. Something like pic related would probably work with your face shape.
Whenever I use soap I get a lot of pimples for some reason. If I don't wash my face I don't get any new ones. Any help with this? My skin has always been retarded. How can I improve it.
>>17021531
This happens. Use a different soap if you need to, or just wash your face with water.
>>17021462
Dunno but you reminded me of the kid from Bully
>>17021531
Well soap isn't good for the skin because it dries it out. The two main causes of pimples is oil and dry skin clogging the pores, also when you're skin is dry your body compensates and produces more oil. Don't use anything benzoyl peroxide, salycillic acid is better
>>17021331
Is it a matter of just a bad haircut, or an issue no matter what? If the latter yeah maybe, but I would rather be single than date a woman who had to force herself into the relationship.
>>17021545
oh fuck im ruined
>>17021412
>Kinda depends if its ONS or long termed relationship.
wew lad
>>17021555
An issue no matter what. But a better haircut could maybe improve? I'm not sure
Eh yeah I don't know. I still like him honestly
Hey girls, I've been compiling a list of qualities that girls typically list when they talk about what kind of man they're looking for and matching it with the corresponding negative quality. Is this more or less accurate? Anything need to be added, removed or amended?
Adventurousness - Timidness
Ambition - Complacency
Decisiveness - Indecisiveness
Dedication - Apathy
Confidence - Self-Doubt
Courage - Cowardice
Generosity - Miserliness
Happiness - Depression
Humorousness - Tiresomeness
Intelligence - Stupidity
Kindness - Malevolence
Motivation - Discouragement
Self-Esteem - Self-Loathing
Passion - Lethargy
>>17021549
>>17021534
Any specific ones you guys can recommend?
>>17021565
If you have suggestions, I'd give them. But if you don't feel it, I'd save time for the both of you.
>>17021557
Nah, just maybe grow your hair out a bit and smile. You don't have the "fuck off I hate everything" eyes he does. Your blank expression is probably why other anon sees them as soulless.
>>17021599
I don't really think anyone would want to see my smile lol, my face gets concentrated into like the middle because everything scrounges and my cheekbones are wide because of my squareness
>>17021577
Here's what I think you should change
>Adventurousness - Timidness
Doesn't like trying new things and getting out of his comfort zone
>Decisiveness - Indecisiveness
I think the word is indecision, but complacency/lacking assertiveness also fits here
>Confidence - Self-Doubt
Lacking in confidence, insecure
>Happiness - Depression
Not really depression, just maybe not being an emotional drain
>Humorousness - Tiresomeness
Boring probably works better
>Motivation - Discouragement
Complacency could also fit in here
>Self-Esteem - Self-Loathing
I think this is basically the same as confidence, see above
>Passion - Lethargy
You're missing attractive. Also, I look for chemistry and a guy who I just get along with. And you seem to have made this list under the assumption that all guys are either extreme, you're ignoring the fact that these things are along a spectrum
>>17021531
Use a face wash, not soap
>>17021462
More hair, and you'd be solidly slightly above average
>>17021628
Thank you! I didn't think of attractiveness since girls don't typically list it off when they're talking about the kind of guy they want to find. I guess when they try to come up with a ratio for how important personality is compared to looks it becomes obvious how important physical appearance is so I'll definitely add it.
I know they're on spectrums, I'm just trying to define the ends of each spectrum at the moment.
>>17021704
>>17021704
Girls don't list it since it is obvious. Everybody wants a good looking SO.
I've been hitting the gym for the last 3 or 4 months.
I've gained a good amount of weight, but I'm not like huge or anything.
Do girls notice the small things?
Like my traps and delts are much bigger than before. If I wear a t-shirt is that at all noticeable?
It sounds kinda pathetic to be so focused on recognition but I was always such a skinny faggot. My biceps were almost small enough to reach around with one hand. Now they have a curve even when I don't flex.
Just wondering if that's gonna be noticeable. Particularly to a girl I hadn't seen for like 6 months.
>>17021713
3 or 4 months progress isn't that noticeable, I doubt you are as huge as you think you are.
>>17021722
I don't think I'm huge by any measure.
I was so skinny before that it I can notice it easy. But everyone notices change in themselves more than others.
I'm just wondering since men focus on sexually attractive details so closely, maybe women do too in a similar fashion. Like I've gained 10 pounds of muscle since I saw her. That's noticeable right?
At least my posture has improved.
>>17021711
It's not really important to me, and I'm a dude.
I'm starting to think i'm just a freak of nature though.
>>17021711
Yeah, I guess it should be obvious... I think I have a skewed perspective on that because my best relationship was with a woman that I found physically repulsive. I haven't placed as much importance in looks since then, but I suppose if she'd been attractive I'd have liked her even more...
>>17021748
You wouldn't date someone you found unattractive, right? That's what people mean when they say they want someone attractive. Someone that's attractive to them. They don't have the be the most attractive person in the world.
>>17021748
Not really, I am a dude too. Quite good looking. Don't place that much importance on looks at all. Look up Mark Fitt's gf for example.
>>17021756
As an example of what?
>>17021755
I wouldn't date someone full-on obese or deformed (eg dwarfism), since i know i couldn't give them a proper sexual relationship, but even then i'd be kinda torn (would wish it was some disney movie and they could swap bodies).
I don't really fall for someone based on looks, only really start looking carefully and noticing physical details after i'm already attracted to them.
>>17021812
i think he meant as an example of a physically top-tier dude looking for something other than just the hottest model he can get, pic related
>>17021857
Is she supposed to be unattractive or something?
>>17021896
No. That pic is probably one of her worst, in most she even looks better than him face-wise (imho).
So that anon's example isn't all that great. But you get the idea.
Would be nice to hear some femanons chime in though.
I'm starting to think the people around here just violate every social expectation there is, including dudes being shallower.
>>17021947
I am a femanon, what's there to chime in about? People date people they find attractive, personality can compensate for it somewhat, but there usually has to be a basic level of physical attraction there. The person doesn't have to be a 10/10, merely 'attractive enough' to their partner. It's pretty straightforward.
Should I be worried if I'm still a 20 years old virgin?
>>17021962
Very worried.
>>17021962
Please refer to the first post under common questions to avoid.
Girls, us guys jerk off to thoughts of your body, do you do whatever it is you do to thoughts of a guys body or his face? Because I wanted to know if girls care more about face or body, sexually speaking.
>>17022005
Obviously, i only speak for myself. But i have never in my pretty long career of masturbating, done the deed to an isolated body-part of a guy. For me, masturbating is all about imagine scenarios. If i picture the hottest guy in my mind it's nice, but not very big of a turn-on. But if i start to imagine actions according to my current mood and desires, that'll do. I could look at pics of really attractive guys and not get horny in the slightest. The action starts when i start to imagine an interaction with them. And then, the body is in focus a lot more. I almost never have a clear image of what his face looks like when masturbating. How is that with guys? Any different?
I'm in a bit of a dilemma.
I'm really into this girl I started talking to about a year ago, I know she is into me too but the problem is:
On July I'm moving to a different city to study but I really don't know what to do about her. Do I distance myself from her, do I just enjoy the time I have left with her or do I simply wait and see what happens? I'm really lost here and would really appreciate some opinions/advice.
>>17020181
When I get stressed, my left armpit smells like weed. And I've never even smoked. It's like I'm a skunk or something.
>>17020564
A bunch if air and cum and lube is up there now, not to mention with rearranged poo like the other anon said. It's all gotta come out.
>>17022027
i love that type of smell, damn i remember walking this part of the road and seen this skunk carcass and yeah smelled like a field of weed. holy shit now i remmeber the signs, but yea its a good smell
>>17020868
Yes. There is scientific evidence of this. Females smell better to straight men when they are ovulating. Men smell better to women with different "immune system genes".
>>17021179
Street racing
>>17022022
Guys like scenarios too but very much mostly visual, and many guys do have their favorite body parts like "legs > boobs > face"
Girls, I suffer from depression BUT, I am well taken care of and I am in good hands, but I also have too much free time since I'm on sick leave, am a virgin, so extremely unlikely I have STD's/STI's (Getting tested this week just in case because diseases are assholes) and I don't drink or smoke or use any drugs.
Am I good to go to pick up females?
Girls, what do you want to know on a first date?
I'm a photography, I'm very open about that, but about 80% of my revenue comes from pornography/erotic photography. Particularly BDSM photography.
I tell women on first dates (and even before that) about my work, but always hide that. If you found this out at a later time, would you be upset?
>>17022067
>I'm a photography
*photographer
>>17022063
I don't know anything about picking up girls, but a guy who doesn't do drugs, smokes, or drinks, who is a virgin, and doesn't have any STIs is a catch of a boyfriend in my opinion.
I want sex wat do?
>>17021953
That just sounds like a truism though: i'm interested in where attraction really comes from in the first place, ie what sparks the fire? Looks, personal qualities, reputation, a gut feeling, etc?
Things like "attractive enough" sound like decisions made later, not the initial step: people sometimes say that most dudes basically operate by looking at all girls as potential matches, then excluding one by one the ineligible ones based on things like that (too fat, too skinny, too short, too tall, ...) and pursuing whoever's left, but is that really how it works for other guys here?
For me it seems more like i see everyone as "not a match/not interested" until i pick up on some specific reason to believe otherwise, and that reason's usually not physical, but something like a gesture (she does something particularly nice for someone and i notice), recognition of talent/skill (she earns an award or finishes some great work), body language (shyness/awkwardness, im a huge sucker for this), or even a direct approach. The "is she physically ok?" question only gets asked later, once things are already rolling.
I guess i'm wondering how this entire attraction process starts, nuts-and-bolts, for everyone, and what kind of differences there are between us.
>>17022075
just be hot is all you can do. "faggot" is what you and I were called so often in high school, because boys are trying to keep a healthy sexual identity and "Faggot" is not an insult, it's more of a way to tell a comrade to conform.
I don't have a job.
Nor a car.
Or any vehicular automobile transport for that matter.
Is this a turn off?
I'd only be gay/bi/pan if I was born as a female.
>>17022094
>I don't have a job.
This is a turnoff
>Nor a car.
This is not
>Or any vehicular automobile transport for that matter.
Unless this means you can't even get anywhere using public transport
>>17020961
No man would ever think you're a freak for doing that... only the guy would be the freak if you turned the tables.
But in regards to how I (a man) would feel if I caught a chick looking at me and she turns away is the following:
I would not really pay much attention to it, unless she was staring at me. If she looks away, who cares. If her eyes are locked and don't turn away, I'd think, ''I wonder why she's staring at me?"
>>17022111
>This is a turnoff
God damn you're probably God #2 for being that coldsteel.
Well I'm 23 and am kind of new to dating (didn't really start dating until I was 22) and have been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks. It is certainly early, but it has been going well and I have had a lot of laughs and fun on our dates.
One problem I am having is that I am not very good at small talk or bringing up new topics. Sometimes I get social anxiety and sort of lock up and I told her about it so she knows, but I feel dumb sometimes because I don't really know how to talk to people. What are some go to things when I don't know what else to say? I really like this girl and I know some of my other relationships have ended because I have trouble opening up or sharing my thoughts with other people. I'm sort of terrified to screw up because my mind won't let me continue connecting with her.
She said one of her goals is to get me to open up to her, which sort of show she likes me and I just don't want to let her down or myself down.
>>17022115
Don't get mad at me for answering the question. I'm not going to sugarcoat it.
>>17022022
>If i picture the hottest guy in my mind it's nice, but not very big of a turn-on.
>I could look at pics of really attractive guys and not get horny in the slightest.
Guy here, same. Maybe i'm an artist and thus more comfortable with the whole "objectifying" thing, but when i see naked men or women i'm more looking at them as physical specimens, sizing them up, trying to see if they fit any classic archetype, appreciating the way it all comes together, etc.
That's probably why i save pics of beautiful women (both body and face) but never fap to them, but i do fap to non-real stuff like fetish material, /d/eviant hentai, text, games, etc.
There the focus is really on the idea, the abstract act/situation in itself, not how it looks, but how it feels. The art's meant to convey emotion rather than just physical description, so there's tons of reaction shots like pic related to help the reader really "get" what a character is experiencing.
I think guys particularly like this kind of thing since it normally takes us some effort to craft the whole fantasy world in our head (some can't even do it: the ability is apparently rare enough for it to be considered a sign of certain disorders). Plus, if the scenario's really ludicrous, impossible, illegal, stigmatized, etc, the visual help makes it much easier to leap from the abstract idea to tangible, arousing thoughts.
Damn that was way more porn talk than i was planning to get into today.
>>17022022
As a penis, I can fap just thinking about a girl's tits, feet and ass (order of preference). I leave imagining scenarios for when I have a crush on someone.
>>17022121
I'm starting to think I'm a good at chatting (despite my social anxiety) because I have a good memory. I always remember something to talk about. I talk about cats, hair, hobbies, everyday life/tasks... You can talk about anything, man.
Guys, what does it mean when you say want to meet my friends, but you haven't actually asked me out or even for my number? I don't understand what's happening.
Should I just ignore it as a weird remark? We've been flirting for months but it hasn't gone anywhere. I've never actually had someone (besides my parents when I was in grade school) say to me that my friends sound great and they'd like to meet them.
>be in med school
>OB rotation
>have pretty much given up on women for anything more than casual sex before this even begins
>basically do everything the doctors do but under their supervision
>six weeks later
>have seen some serious shit
>cannot even look at a woman and feel any physical attraction whatsoever now
>still want kids
femanons, how would you feel to be in a relationship with a man who found you repugnant but was guaranteed to never cheat on you, and still supported you so long as you kept your legs closed and agreed to have 2-3 kids? I'm debating on whether or not I should be upfront to women about this. It's hard just to feign compliments now.
>>17022197
>femanons, how would you feel to be in a relationship with a man who found you repugnant but was guaranteed to never cheat on you, and still supported you so long as you kept your legs closed and agreed to have 2-3 kids?
Nah. Maybe you could find a girl into that though? And if not, even though a girl would have to be pretty dumb to be fooled into that, it's still not good of you to try to fool anyone.
I'm not sure how smart it would be to raise kids in that environment either. A healthy, loving relationship between parents is pretty important for children.
>>17022197
I don't understand, what part of that is supposed to be appealing? Is not cheating (something I'd expect in a relationship anyway) and supporting me (which I presume means just financially, and nothing else) supposed to make up for a real relationship?
>>17022197
Maybe try dating someone who's asexual but still wants kids? Hard to imagine anyone being okay with it otherwise.
>>17022210
I don't see why not having to work a day in your life for anything wouldn't be a bad deal? Not like I'd care if she went out with other men after the kids were born, so long as she didn't bring them home or tell them where we live.
>>17022207
I'm gonna be a fucking doctor, you don't think I know a healthy family relationship is important? Despite that, people can grow up fine without that. I'm also not trying to trick anybody.
>>17022212
any suggestions on how to find somebody like that? not like i'm asexual myself, I'll just take my hand over a woman any day of the week.
>>17022223
>I don't see why not having to work a day in your life for anything wouldn't be a bad deal? Not like I'd care if she went out with other men after the kids were born, so long as she didn't bring them home or tell them where we live.
Because we don't have a real relationship? Because I might WANT to work if it means I can have a real relationship with my husband? Imagine how fucked up the kids would be with parents like that. And what's the point in being 'allowed' to see other men if I can't sleep with them? If my own husband can't/won't find me attractive and won't fulfil my sexual desires, why shouldn't I seek out the company of other men for it?
>>17022223
>I'm debating on whether or not I should be upfront to women about this. It's hard just to feign compliments now.
I took this as meaning you were considering faking love (or even like).
>>17022235
I think he means you can sleep with men after the kids are born so that he can make sure they are his kids.
>>17022238
>I think he means you can sleep with men after the kids are born so that he can make sure they are his kids.
I don't think he means that, and even if he does, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with him because what sort of fucking relationship is that?
>>17022235
when the fuck did i ever say she couldn't sleep with them? just don't do it at the fucking house where this weird ass guy could fuck with my family. Don't do it before they're born either because I'm not supporting jamal's kids and I don't want your stank std ridden vag to fuck them up before they're even born either.
>>17020143
not really, but i'm bad at that sort of things
She just smell nice
>>17020961
i wouldnt probably notice, and if i do, i would not really care
>>17022246
You're not the guy who originally asked the question, but he said it here
>still supported you so long as you kept your legs closed
>>17022223
Asexual dating sites? Or any asexual communities online. Don't know specific ones myself. And I know you're not asexual, but if you're never having sex with your partner you might as well be.
I suppose the other option is a very religious woman who only believes in sex in the missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation.
>>17022252
yea, i did, i should have been more specific as to what i meant; as in, keep your legs closed until you have 2-3 kids, then i don't give a fuck unless you're bringing strange men into the house of my kids. Hell, i'll even pay for the hotel rooms, i don't give a flying fuck.
I'm 20 and I want to have a baby so badly. I have dreams about it very often, I feel more natural with babies and children than I do anywhere else. I'm not trying to fill some hole and I don't want to any kids until I'm sure mentally and physically I can provide for them. Why does it feel like taboo to want this so badly? It's natural right? so why is it that almost everyone I meet my age don't care about kids?
>>17022264
>Why does it feel like taboo to want this so badly?
A lot of people my age seem to think that the idea of having a family is horrible, that its the last thing they would ever do. At least in college, I think there often is one.
Young people want to run around and have fun and do stupid shit. For those of us that are more interested in jumping into something more stable and long term, we're the odd ones out. From what I understand they just tend to mellow out over the years, and something like that starts to become more appealing.
Ladies, should I message her or no?
And if so, should I keep it a super short and nonchalant or give her a hint that I've been thinking about her?
>>17020799
could say the same about guys
the only advice I have is to try to get closer to the person in some way but it never fully worked out for me lol
>>17022411
Not anon, but that's complete bullshit.
Regardless of culture or era, to get a guy all a women has to do is see if he's into the idea.
Directly or drop hints.
It's that simple.
>>17021462
you look like a white version of the guy from Mr Robot
not bad, grow out your har, exercise
Femanons: if you could chose a sexy costume outfit (costume, not lingerie) what would you wanna be dressed as in bed?
>>17022022
girl here, same. I'm thinking about scenarios, very often I don't even bother to imagine in more detail how the guy would look like, and when I'm thinking about guys I know, it's more about them being them than how specific parts of their bodies look like
>>17022427
Ohhhhh man. Uniforms are a huge kink of mine, so it's hard to choose just one. There are so many options. Maid is a classic.
>>17022264
I don't feel the same but I don't think it's taboo. Everyone agrees babies are cute. It might be unusual that you want one badly when you're that young, but if you find a right father (might have to be an older guy) go for it, there are less chances of complications when you give birth earlier (although it's fine until 35 I think)
If you like children that much, maybe find a job related to taking care of them? be a nurse, a child doctor, a primary school teacher? idk about your education, but being good with children IS a talent
>>17022416
well wouldn't the same apply to guys looking for girls?
>>17022431
>>17022431
Are you saying you don't care what he looks like? I thought from Taylor Swift's Blank Space video that girls find a mans face hot, in the same way we stare at your bums.
>>17022455
for masturbation purposes, not that much, I just have a vague idea of an attractive guy /a guy I know in my head; it's more about what we say/do in a certain scenario
for dating, ofc I have to find his face attractive, and I would appreciate if his body wasn't terrible (not obese, I could live with anorexic I think but that's bc I'm quite thin myself)
>>17022442
Are we meant to be? I've had maid fantasies ever since I was 10 and I was at home at a rich friends house and his Latina maid bended over and exposed the biggest firm ass I've ever seen.
Fucking a girl with a maid outfit + stockings and no panties or a thong on the side is one of my biggest turn on and make my deck diamonds and my mental state a pure alpha male compared to being beta normally.
>>17022264
If you look at human history most humans had a child - or several - by 20. It's ingrained in us. As a male I've had desperate longing to be a father since my teens but of course first world obligations and all that.
>Be me aged 19, lose virginity to model who is visiting the country
>get beaten up whilst protecting her from mugging, do drugs, and go on strange adventures together
>She gets boyfriend, don't see her for seven months
>reunite recently and start going on adventures again
>Her boyfriend breaks up with her (think he realised she was milking him for cash)
>She comes and cries to me a lot
>I comfort her
>She starts coming back to my house after every time we go out and we engage in foreplay
>She stops me before sex every time because she just wants to be friends
>She fucks one of our mutual friends and comes crying to me
>She fucks an old man and comes crying to me
>She sees her ex on tinder and comes crying to me
>I continue to support her
>She comes over last night and ignores me all night, playing on her phone, fucking about on tinder, and being distant
>She undresses, starts crying and buries her head in my chest, complaining about life
>She ends up leaving my house at 1am to go fuck another guy
>I call her out on it
>She says we're just friends and I have no right to chat shit
>Especially given that I am a fuccboi and see lots of women
How should I respond? I feel like given how much I was comforting her and how I took time out of my life to look after her that the least she could do would be actually acknowledge me and not ditch to go fuck another guy...
Need some female advice. Or male advice since it's the AM in America so only Euros and NEETs are up, whatever.
Everything's come together very well for me and for the first time in my life I'm happy, confident, and ready to start dating with the serious intention of marriage. I've had sex but never a proper 'relationship', I'm 24, over a year in my career field, own apartment etc.
I know exactly what I want - the looks expectations are low, but I know that I want kids, I know what my 'family values' are and what would make a compatible mother for the type of father I want to be. I know what my kinks and limits are too.
But all that's an awful lot to dump on someone in a coffeeshop you just met 20 minutes ago.
But I also don't want to waste my own time going through serial relationships, spending the time to get to know someone only to find out she never wants kids, can't manage her money, plays games and shit-test, whatever. At the risk of being called fedoraking I feel like half the girls my age are still in the "I just don't know what I want" phase and ain't nobody got time fadat.
So where is the line between desperation and pursuing a goal?
>>17022509
Cut your losses and run.
>>17022170
could be too shy to ask you out on a proper date, having your friends around takes the pressure off him.
just a guess
>>17022468
GOAT taste, anon
In Japanese porn often the girl will throw up during BJs then keep going
Do people IRL do that too? To girls I guess
>>17022509
You are in the friendzone or high orbit as some may like to call it.
Just ditch her and quite being her emotional support.
>>17022557
Why does she suck my dick if I am just in the friendzone then? I don't get it, haha.
Yeah, I am definitely ditching her. All her mates think I am a fuccboi and hate me, so it isn't like she is even helping me get laid, haha. I get girls on my own and totally separately to her. Thankfully I never introduced her to any of my friends so severing ties will be pretty easy.
How do I do it though? Just stop replying to her texts or what?
Either gender, what makes a person boring or uninteresting to you? Is there more to it than conflicting hobbies/no hobbies?
Girls; My name is brandon would you date me?
Alright so,
I've been getting alot of signs from a qt.
She hasn't been to class all week
I sent her a message on facebook an two hours ago about class.
I thought I'd judge if I should ask her out depending on if she uses smileys and shit.
What are the chances the message was filtered because we aren't added?
If she doesn't reply I'll stop talking to her, but not sure how I should deal with then rest of the semester?
>>17022606
Probably not, I've never known a Brandon worth dating
>>17022619
>What are the chances the message was filtered because we aren't added?
This isn't about chances, the fact is that if you get a message from someone who isn't your friend on Facebook, it goes to your 'message requests' folder.
>>17022549
No, I think most girls try their hardest to avoid getting to the point of throwing up, and if they did, they would be extremely embarrassed and stop to clean up.
>>17022605
I'd say the thing that makes people the most boring is if they themselves are bored. People who seem aloof, uninterested, and dispassionate.
>>17020007
heres the situation:
>told her i liked her in a cringy long text
>didnt talk to her for like 3 months
>text her and we talk again and we hit it off really well this time
>went on a "date"? i think to some color me mine pottery paitning thing
>im going to ask her to go hiking with me
QUESTION:
>is it ok to kiss her randomly when she looks at me?
I have the balls to do it for sure, im not sure if its a good idea.. please help girls
>>17022626
We have 1 mutual and are in a group together
>>17022641
So? If you message someone you're not friends with, it goes to their 'message requests' folder. Plain and simple.
>>17022638
Oh damn that's me 100% Too bad I'm not capable of expressing emotion.
>>17022641
send her a friends request first
>>17022639
PLS HELP
>>17022703
Read the mood. If you have to resort to "PLS HELP" after not even half an hour, I'm not sure you can.
So no, in your case it's not ok.
>>17022448
No. This is why women are stereotyped as crazy.
- Women openly deny their shallow impulses
- Women demand time in a competitive manner
- Women demand you study their likes and demand you pretend to care [plot point in all fictional media concerning women]
- Women reject people without reason and admit this
So, no. You can't just be direct with women.
Scientifically, women have no idea what they want because their instincts tell them one thing [popular, good looking, resources], which society has programmed them to pretend to demand more complicated things [personality, loyalty, kindness].
If women can't even be honest with themselves and create infallible crystal clear standards they can clearly communicate, then how exactly is interacting with them simple?
>>17022263
>mfw that prostitute was right when she said that doctors are the craziest ones
>>17022448
No. It's much more difficult.
>>17022509
I've already replied to you in a previous thread.
>>17022549
I'm Japanese and I've never had the desire to do this (make a girl throw up with my dick).
too scared to give oral due to the fear of getting herpies on the mouth, any way i could get over this?
Girls: what race do you prefer?
Sexually, soul mate wise or just personal experience
>>17022745
>society has programmed them to pretend to demand more complicated things [personality, loyalty, kindness]
judging by the threads posted here daily i think that code needs some refactoring
>>17022766
Date less slutty dudes/chicks?
Guys:
>made pregnancy test that turned out negative
>bf and i both kind of hoped it would be positive
>told him i'm going to test today
Do i just shoot him a quick text to tell him it was negative or wait till he's home again?
Iow: would you want to know asap or rather in person?
>>17022791
Probably in person so we can comfort eachother/deal with it together. But if she sent me a text its not like I would be mad. Id just prefer it in person.
>>17022638
>>17022682
But aren't all introverts like this around people they don't know very well? Would be a shame to leave a tenth or so of all people out just because they don't let loose and go wild around strangers.
>>17022769
I prefer to date inside my own "race". But for what it's worth, i also like to date guys who grew up in the same area and preferrably also in similar financial circumstances. I just feel like this helps immensely with having similar values, goals and world-views, resulting in happier and smoother relationships. Ofc there are exceptions, but that's what i observe and i also stick to it.
>>17022794
Thanks! My concern is that he asks first (over text or first thing when we see each other) and then it looks a bit like i don't even care enough to tell him right away, which isn't true.
>>17022806
Well if he asks you might as well tell him. You can still be there for eachother when you see eachother again. Id hold it off if he doesnt ask though.
>>17022549
I suppose the people who have a vomit fetish do. Typically being around throw up just makes me gag or throw up more, so I can't imagine it working out.
>>17022809
Very good, thanks for clearing my mind anon! And i just realized that i could simply TELL him that i waited because i wanted to tell him in person. I'm a bit slow like that at times...
