ive moved to a new city and i dont know anyone here. i have no idea how to meet new people, girls in particular. after reading a lot of these threads, i go outside a lot and just walk around exploring the city, going into random shops and stuff. but that didnt work, i didnt meet anyone that way. can anyone help me with this? i really dont want to carry on living alone, but i dont know how to fix it and i dont have anyone to help me
i work full time but everyone there is much older than me (ie they have families and thats what they do 'after hours'). the house i live in currently has no one else in it. i dont know what to do, any and all advice appreciated
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>>17016014
guessing you're a britfag.
What city did you move to?
Try joining some hobby group or find people online.
Join a kickball league or wiffle ball. Sign up for some structured activity that would get young people involved.
Not only is it a good way to meet bros , you can also meet single girls too. Single girls do intramural sport shit like this as a means to meet guys and hookup.
You would be surprised. My best bro I met in wiffle ball and I was just a groomsmen at his wedding to a girl he met in wiffle ball.
>>17016026
how did u know?
cambridge
>>17016034
im trying to stay away from online stuff because ive already wasted so much of my life on there
>>17016051
ok thanks for the ideas, ive never heard of either of those things but ill be on the lookup for some casual sports
>>17016070
I mean online as in find people who are looking for people to do stuff in the real world with. There's plenty of other lonely people out there.
>>17016070
you ever come into london?
I just moved here too.
>>17016074
oh i see, well ive had a terrible experience with online dating so im kind of averse to that stuff. id rather try and do it in the real world
>>17016090
no i try to stay away from london if i can haha
>>17016104
Not online dating. Crimeny dude, there are tons of things online. Meet up isn't s bad site--can find a group for nearly anything--people who want to dine out (but not alone), all sorts of conversation topics, sports, walking, etc. Then you meet all sorts of people, not just girls (but that's a bonus as they will be there).
>>17016115
i will try it out
anyone else?
>>17016014
Go to clubs and talk to girls, be outgoing and nice to people and tell them that you are new in town.
Join a sport team or go top the gym and you will make friendas and will end hanging out with them.
>going into random shops and stuff. but that didnt work
life isn't like video games, where you go into the shop and an npc greets you and gives you a quest. you are the game developer. you have to make your own quests, including writing the cheesy dialog.
"He beautiful, I'm new in town. Where's a good place to eat around here?"
>pizza hole
"Wow, that sounds delicious, what time do you get off work?"
>7:00
"I'll pick you up at 7 sharp, and we'll get us some pizza"
>mmmm, I love a man who knows what he wants
"Wants is my middle name, darling, I'll see you at 7."
>mmmm
>>17016430
your advice sounds more like a video game than what i said
