My ex and I have been broken up for about 4 months now. We ended mutually, but we were still mad at each other over the breakup. I have not texted her in this time. I really don't think about her anymore and was over her, but I had a dream about her last night that I guess made me feel good and brought back great memories. Now all my thoughts today is about her and wanting to text her.
Should I do it? Or wait for it to pass?
We dated for 3 years
>>17015493
wait for it to pass.
why did you end it? any chance of it working?
Let it pass. Don't look back, OP. You ended things mutually for a reason. Looking back will distract you from the now.
Failed relationships are practice, nothing more. Did you play any team sports as a kid, or study for a test? You don't go back and moon over or reminisce about practices and studying for exams. Your past is practivce, nothing more, nothing less.
>>17015501
We were just at different points in our lives. I just graduated and she does not have a job. She wanted to get married and I was not as I was not financially stable. I went to a different state to do an internship and she did not agree with me. She thought I was being selfish, but I wanted to provide for us and our kids. She was also 2 years older than me. I'm 22 she 24.
Also, I wanted to be marry her, but in about 2-3 years. She wanted me to propose in the year, and if I didn't, she would've ended it with me. That was an ultimatum by her.
Sorry but she kind of sounds like someone who was trying to lock a comfortable life down. Probably best not to contact then.
>>17015498
>>17015510
>>17015588
Thanks guys, I will not text her. Would there be any appropriate time to give her a text? Just to check in and see how she is doing?
>>17015615
No, you only do that if you're still interested
